Qian Yuan constellation.

Our home is very simple; The three of us, it's simple.

We have nothing to do with the world and others, but to get together, stay together and do what we can.

When encountering difficulties, Zhong Shu always bears them with me, and the difficulties are no longer difficult;

With the help of my aunt, whatever is bitter and hard can become sweet and moist.

If we are a little happy, we will become very happy.

So the three of us met in an unusual way.

The three of us is a warm memoir with simple words but strong strength.

Qian Yuan was born in such a warm and intelligent family.

As she grew older, she also brought this strength into her future family, continuing the warmth of her home.

Although the family was reunited, Qian Yuan never lacked love for his children.

So Yang Hongjian, the stepson, said: Aunt Qian Yuan never made us feel like stepmother.

Qian Yuan

Qian Yuan was born in Oxford, England on 1937.

Although he was born abroad, Qian Yuan still has a good humanistic quality, respects China's traditional culture and loves domestic classic literature.

Obviously, this is influenced by her parents.

Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang are both famous scholars in China, who have made efforts for the staged development of literature.

Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang

The two gentlemen have been involved in a wide range of subjects, including traditional literature and new trend literature, China literature and world literature, and both of them have conducted in-depth research.

They not only published pure literary works with unique personal characteristics, but also made contributions to the study of literary criticism.

Under their influence, Qian Yuan likes his poems.

This makes Qian Yuan not only have rich knowledge reserves, but also cultivate the habit of thinking.

Immerse yourself in the book and cultivate a calm mind.

This will play a vital role in her future study.

Qian Yuan studied in Beijing Normal University and stayed there to teach after graduation.

She has a rigorous academic attitude and innovative spirit. She has laid a solid literary foundation since she was a child, and made pioneering achievements in English literature, creating an English literary style.

She is gentle and approachable, and communicates with students a lot. Qian Yuan not only cares about their academic ability and achievements, but also cares about their daily needs.

She has the quality of continuous learning, tries to get in touch with new things, makes contributions in many fields, and can consciously shoulder the heavy responsibility of teaching and educating people.

Although Qian Yuan later went to Britain to study English linguistics and made great achievements in the field of English literature after returning home, she first studied Russian in Beijing Normal University and was also a Russian teacher at first.

I was transferred to the English department because there was a shortage of English teachers at that time.

Qian Yuan has a strong sense of responsibility and a strong language learning ability, so she has taken on the heavy responsibility of English teaching.

Although the language is universal, she has been exposed to English since she was a child, but this is a teaching task.

With a serious attitude, Qian Yuan needs to study more systematically and professionally.

The school lacks teachers, so Qian Yuan should teach both undergraduates and postgraduates.

We should not only teach students basic knowledge, but also teach them research methods and skills.

Qian Yuan spends most of her time on teaching, but she also insists on studying in her spare time.

It is not only a consolidation of self-knowledge, but also an effort to make new achievements in academic circles.

Just like the motto of Beijing Normal University: Learn to be a teacher and be a model.

Qian Yuan devoted his life to education, trained countless professionals and made contributions to the education of the motherland.

Even in her later years, she still cares about education.

Although she is in the advanced stage of lung cancer, she also writes articles for foreign language magazines in primary and secondary schools and makes suggestions for education.

My heart is like a candle, even if it is weak, I still try to light up another world.

Do as much as you can. In the last few days of his life, Qian Yuan did his best.

"Since she only wants to be a top soldier, it can be said that she has never wasted her life."

Her mother Jiang Yang once spoke highly of her, with pride and no regrets in her tone.

"We will not forget Qian Yuan."

Her family and friends will not forget, her classmates will not forget, and we will not forget her.

Qian Yuan studied hard and rigorously all his life.

But in her decades-long career, she was not only associated with learning.

She lives in this society, and she has her own life.

So, what is her married life like?

Qian Yuan was married twice.

The first marriage started when I was a student.

Qian Yuan and Wang Deyi met in Beijing Normal University. They are all members of the art team of Beijing Normal University.

They have similar interests and hobbies, are brilliant, and have plenty of time to get along and exchange opportunities.

Students affectionately call the four students of the art team: monsters.

Wang Deyi is the "monster" at the head of the "monster", while Qian Yuan is just the "monster" at the end of the "monster".

At that time, Wang Deyi and Qian Yuan were secretly in love, and their classmates joked that they were a "monster alliance".

The love in the student days reveals a little childish and funny, but it is also romantic and natural.

In this way, Wang Deyi and Qian Yuan entered the marriage hall with cheers and congratulations.

Because they have been hand in hand since they were students, Wang Deyi and Qian Yuan know each other's ideas very well and share common interests.

Wang Deyi is not only brilliant, but also very polite and humble.

Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu are very satisfied with this son-in-law, and they safely give their daughter to him, hoping that their lives will be happy.

Everyone feels that their family is very happy. They really have a very happy family life and many happy memories.

However, Wang Deyi finally chose to commit suicide.

They had just been married for a year at that time.

Qian Yuan is undoubtedly in pain. She unfortunately lost her husband.

Happiness and pain come too quickly and suddenly, and things have changed a long time ago.

Qian Yuan reluctantly left Beijing Normal University-this is where she met and fell in love with Wang Deyi.

In order to avoid injury, Qian Yuan chose to leave here and start a new life.

Life always goes on. 1974, Qian Yuan entered his second marriage.

If the combination of her and Wang Deyi began with the joy of youth, it was pure throbbing.

Then the encounter with Yang Weicheng is the long-term companionship and the resonance of the soul.

Like Qian Yuan, Yang Weicheng once had a marriage.

The difference is that Yang Weicheng still has children.

Therefore, Qian Yuan not only found her husband again, but also became the mother of a group of children, with a new identity of "stepmother".

Even in contemporary times, family reorganization and "stepmother" status will still become the topic of others after dinner, and people will inevitably have some prejudice and suspicion.

Will she alienate the child from his father?

Will she abuse or ignore children?

However, Qian Yuan did not alienate the children as everyone thought. On the contrary, he treats his children as his own, patiently teaches them and takes care of their growth.

Yang Hongjian once said: "Although Qian Yuan is a stepmother, she never makes us feel like a stepmother."

Jiang Yang and Yang Hongjian edited Our Qian Yuan together, which recorded many daily chores of Qian Yuan and the way she got along with the children.

Everyone likes her very much and misses her very much, so we wrote this book as a souvenir.

Qian Yuan is very strict in teaching children to do their homework.

Qian Yuan is studying and teaching in Beijing Normal University, so the role of "teacher" has become a gesture in her life.

When she faces a question, she will not just regard it as a knowledge point that needs to be tested in the exam, but let the children understand it as a systematic knowledge from a longer-term perspective.

Qian Yuan did this because she is already an excellent scholar and she has a rigorous academic attitude.

But at that time, Yang Hongjian was still a naughty boy and a sports student, so Yang Hongjian could not obey Qian Yuan's advice.

Although Qian Yuan is strict, she is also gentle and patient.

When Yang Hongjian lost interest in knowledge and wanted to leave, Qian Yuan did not give up, but chose to stick to it.

She will always follow Yang Hongjian and patiently explain to him the ins and outs of this knowledge, past lives.

Try to explain to Yang Hongjian in a simple way in a way that Yang Hongjian can understand, and spread it out in time, so that Yang Hongjian can learn unlimited knowledge from limited topics.

Qian Yuan played his part.

As a teacher, Qian Yuan doesn't think that students who can't teach must teach students in accordance with their aptitude in a way acceptable to them.

As a mother, Qian Yuan hopes that her children can study more, instead of studying with a strong utilitarian heart and a clear purpose.

Although Yang Hongjian sometimes shows impatience because of his children's playful nature, he himself does not hate Qian Yuan, and even worships Qian Yuan.

He knew that Qian Yuan did it for his own good.

He also knows that Qian Yuan is rich in knowledge, but Qian Yuan still keeps a low profile and is willing to learn and progress with him.

All these have influenced Yang Hongjian invisibly and infected him imperceptibly.

Over time, he learned a lot from Qian Yuan, which was not taught by some textbooks and school teachers.

In his mind, Qian Yuan is a very powerful person.

This amazing person is his mother.

Yang Hongjian often thinks so proudly.

As a sports student, Yang Hongjian usually studies English with his father.

Qian Yuan is a professional English professor, so since Qian Yuan came to this home, the task of teaching Yang Hongjian English naturally fell on Qian Yuan's shoulder.

Although Qian Yuan has been teaching in universities for many years, he has brought countless undergraduates and postgraduates, and he has also seen many academic problems.

But in the face of children like Yang Hongjian and those simple questions, it is still a bit difficult to explain.

However, Qian Yuan still handled it well, and soon adapted to this rhythm and way.

With her help, Yang Hongjian's English level has improved significantly.

It can be said that Qian Yuan has taken most of the responsibility for children's learning.

So that in his later study career, whenever Yang Hongjian encountered problems related to English, he always thought, if only Aunt Qian Yuan were here.

This is an affirmation of Qian Yuan's status as a "teacher". She is a good teacher who can patiently teach students knowledge and cultivate their learning ability.

It depends more on Qian Yuan's "mother" status. She is a good mother. She is not a prejudiced stepmother in the eyes of the world, but a good mother who wants to leave her love and support to her children without reservation.

Although Qian Yuan is very strict, she won Yang Hongjian's affirmation and respect with her rich knowledge and gentle patience.

As Yang Hongjian said, he never felt like a stepmother in Qian Yuan.

When he thinks of Qian Yuan, Yang Hongjian will only think of a strict but gentle and patient teacher, a responsible mother who accompanied her children to grow up.

Qian Yuan is very strict in teaching.

But in life, Qian Yuan is sometimes like a naughty and immature child.

Although Qian Yuan has experienced changes in the world, he is also a naive child with a very pure heart.

She didn't regard herself as a strict parent and asked her children to do this and that as a strict elder.

But from the child's psychology, into the child's world.

Really find interesting things around you from children's eyes.

Qian Yuan is good at life and will pay attention to the beautiful and interesting things in life. He will keep these stories and share them with his children when he is free.

She not only wants to participate in the children's lives, but also wants to share her life with them.

In this way, they not only live in one house, but also share space.

Their hearts are also closely linked, and there is a constant affection.

Qian Yuan often watches TV plays with children. Like a child, she pampers Yang Hongjian and her sister with a tone of showing off and helplessness.

Although Yang Hongjian and his sister are "dissatisfied" with Qian Yuan's spoiler, they will still pester Qian Yuan to watch TV dramas with them, clamoring for Qian Yuan to explain the follow-up to them.

Although children still have a little sense, they know that spoilers will affect the experience of watching the play.

But the children's true psychology has betrayed them and they can't wait to know the development direction of the story.

As a result, the scene of a family getting together to watch a play becomes lively and funny.

The short and daily time of chasing drama is very warm.

But Qian Yuan is not a perfect person. She also has weaknesses, and there are times when she wants to but can't.

Perhaps because he was immersed in academics since childhood, Qian Yuan is very handy in learning, teaching and educating children.

But when it comes to housework, she can't handle it well.

Yang Hongjian later recalled:

"Qian Yuan is not a housewife who is good at housework. Probably no one will ask her like this."

Qian Yuan, who is all-powerful in the academic world, looks like a child at a loss when facing a pile of housework.

Although Qian Yuan is not good at housework, she still works very hard and has a sense of pride in her bones.

When you are studying, you can get to the bottom of a difficult problem. Now, in order to let your child eat a bowl of steaming beef, you can transfer to the bus many times.

"Often when we just sit down to eat, the door opens, and my mother carries a big bag and enters the door against the cold wind. She is always flushed and sweaty on her forehead. While taking things out of the bag in a hurry, he said hurriedly, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry I'm late." "

Such an ordinary and moving life scene, strangers are still moving, not to mention the children at home.

Yang Hongjian likes to eat a bowl of cold noodles in summer and beef in winter.

But he prefers people who buy him food.

He likes Saturday, because on this day, Qian Yuan will bring them a lot of delicious food.

What he yearns for more is the happy time when the family get together on Saturday.

Yang Hongjian felt the mother's love for her children in Qian Yuan.

Yang Hongjian is very satisfied and happy. He likes Qian Yuan very much.

Yang Hongjian also has a very kind nickname, chubby.

Although he learned a lot of foreign language knowledge from Qian Yuan, his major is still physical education, and he graduated from Beijing Institute of Physical Education.

Later, he chose to go abroad for further study and went to new york State University to study for a master's degree in physical education.

He is very studious and has a high interest and talent in sports.

Now he is the business manager of Beijing International Sports Exchange Center, making suggestions for international sports exchange.

He is single-minded about sports. He turned what he was interested in from childhood into a major he studied hard, and finally formed his lifelong work.

After Qian Yuan left, Yang Hongjian and his grandmother Jiang Yang wrote a book in memory of Qian Yuan.

In Qian Yuan, the word "we" is intimate and precious.

Strict, gentle and cordial, these are Yang Hongjian's impressions of Qian Yuan.

In fact, when his father chose to remarry, Yang Hongjian also had many concerns because he was unwilling to resist.

But he can't be so selfish. His father has the right to pursue happiness again.

So Yang Hongjian later felt lucky and met Aunt Qian Yuan.

Qian Yuan lived and studied with their brothers and sisters, walked with them and grew up with them, and never missed some important moments in their lives.

"I'm very happy. Now whenever we mention Qian Yuan, what catches my eye is not her image in the hospital, but the moment when she flushed and hurried into the house. That is a busy and energetic Qian Yuan, and she has always been like this. "

Although Qian Yuan has passed away, Yang Hongjian will always miss her.

He will always remember the gentle mother and the wind blowing on Saturday night.