I said I was leaving, and Aquarius told me to go away.

For your reference, there are two things in the world that can never be forced. When I was a child, I was very interested in learning. When I grew up, I fell in love. -This is a mirror. Give up bravely, face bravely and start afresh bravely. When he no longer loves you, whether he loved you before and forgot about it, or never loved you, in short, when you can't be the person in his heart, his heart won't remember you, let alone care about you. Even if he knows that you love him deeply, he can feel your concern occasionally, but he would rather pretend not to know. People who don't love will always let go first, so please don't torture yourself for too long. Learn nature. If you choose to accept it strongly, your ending will be considered doomed, and maybe he will have some regrets. However, if you are not rational enough and always want to do something to save this impossible love, then your ending can only be considered by him to be out of character. When he no longer loves you, please don't disturb him when you are unhappy or upset. His place is definitely not where you should be at the moment. Maybe he will comfort you lightly when he receives your call and say that he sincerely wishes you happiness, but that's all. When he doesn't love you, your love and your people will be much cheaper. It is human nature that you have disadvantages. Maybe you want more and say, "Let's meet. Can we have dinner together? " If you think that a meal and a meeting can save lost love, you are wrong and you are stupid. He must be very sad. He would say, "I'm busy now, waiting for an opportunity." You can call me later, or I can call you. "And don't take it seriously at this moment, he just found a less clever reason to prevaricate you. Please, don't really wait, don't lie to yourself, and there is no need to be sad. His busyness will not stop because of your waiting. Many things in life are very important to him, and the most indifferent thing to him is the lost love. When he no longer loves you, please don't tell him about your trifles, and don't have nothing to say. These are the most stupid and meaningless. Maybe at this moment, you are kind and infatuated, but you just want to know each other better, and don't feel too strange at once. In fact, you just can't get through yourself for a while, but he has no time or interest to know you, your life, your past, your strengths and weaknesses. What does this have to do with him? Even if he knows, he will soon forget, just as he forgot what he once said to you. Without love, you are doomed not to squeeze into his life. Even if, even if you only want a small corner. In his eyes, all the advantages you once had became a burden and no longer attracted him. When he no longer loves you, don't always send him short messages and ask him, "How's it going? "If he is under great pressure at work, your message will only bring him irritability, but it won't help him get rid of the pressure. If he is really good, it is good that you know it in your heart. Learn to care and bless him silently! When he no longer loves you, don't recall the warm hugs and affectionate kisses he once had, which will only make you more unable to extricate yourself. Let bygones be bygones. Don't be stupid enough to let him kiss you again. Can I hug you again? Because this hug and this kiss will not have enough magic to make him fall in love with you again. Even if he let you kisses and hugs, your reason is not to refuse hello, you are doomed to separate. Why bother someone who doesn't love you anymore, and you are reluctant to leave him? Also, he may occasionally appear in your dreams. Don't call him or tell him by email, you will be considered too immature. Even if he does appear in the dream, it is normal. Try to give yourself some time to forget slowly, and don't be too hard on yourself! ! When he no longer loves you, please don't be sad in front of him, let alone shed tears, because tears can't bring back love, but will make him look down on you even more. Don't tell him you are sad when you are sick, but learn to take care of yourself. He really doesn't have much energy to give you care and concern, or even just sympathy. Please be proud of you, don't give up your pride. Too many people are lost in love, and they don't even have the courage to stand up again. How can they be proud? However, always remember that only those who are willing and able to give true love are the ones who really cherish you, not the sympathy and pity of onlookers. Don't say to him, "I am happy if you are happy." This sentence is quite sincere when he loves you. Once separated, even if it comes from your heart, it will make him feel that you are putting pressure on him. Why force someone you once loved? Happiness depends on yourself, don't pin it on anyone, understand? When he no longer loves you, your love is his burden. Please don't calculate what you have paid, don't expect anything in return, and don't reveal your nostalgia and reluctance to him intentionally or unintentionally, because everything has become the past. If you love someone who doesn't love yourself, there is nothing in return. You can't care about right and wrong, so you will be happier. Remember, the love between you and him is one-sided. You have a heart, but he doesn't. However, don't blame him, because maybe he once really loved you and wanted to do better. Don't be so cold to you, and he doesn't want such an ending. Just loving a person and being kind to a person is an ability. I'm sorry, he may have this ability, but your love is a mistake with no ending. His ability can't be wasted on you. Try to forgive him. Of course, don't be too pessimistic to think that his once love is not true, his once promise is false, and it is not easy for people to live, let alone choose love or not. There should be more understanding between people, not to mention the one who once loved. When he no longer loves you, don't think about what happened between you all day, and what to use to save your love, because the distance between you has become so far away, and he stands in front of you, but he doesn't know how much you love him. You stand in front of him, but you dare not say you love him. Is such love still necessary to be saved? Please don't lose heart because he said that your personalities don't match. Maybe your personality really doesn't suit him, but that doesn't prove that you are not a good woman. There will always be someone who likes your personality and lives for you, lives for you and struggles for you all your life. Loving a person is not because he is excellent, but just a feeling. You once made him feel this way, so he once loved you. Similarly, he doesn't love you, which doesn't mean that you are no longer excellent. Excellence is really not a reason to love or not. Look at so many people who love themselves. Smile and find their confidence. We still have a lot to do with confidence. Love is not the only thing, nor is it the whole of life. When he no longer loves you, you will often inadvertently go to the place where you were together. Everyone around you seems to be his figure, and every couple may remind you of the past; You will often think of the songs he sang for you. At this time, you will definitely feel like crying. Please learn to be strong, ok? When you are alone, don't anesthetize yourself with alcohol and cigarettes, because that shouldn't be the way a good woman chooses to forget. If he knew, he wouldn't feel bad, but he was glad that he didn't continue to love a woman like you. You can listen to the song you sang together and cry as much as you want, but don't be stupid enough to set that song as your ringtone, because he probably won't call you again, so why * * your truest and most vulnerable side in front of other irrelevant people. People always have to learn to be strong. When you choose to listen to songs, never listen to "Honey, why aren't you with me", "I love you so much", "I love you so much" and "She doesn't love me" unless you are sure that you won't cry after listening to these songs. Choose some relaxing songs to listen to, such as The Most Romantic Thing, Wolf in Love with Sheep, Aurora and Your Smile: Although listening to songs may not be in your mood, it can at least make you happy at that time. If possible, sing along. Vent all the depression in your heart, and tomorrow is a brand-new day. Please don't think of "forever" because of the happiness and good memories you once had. Remember: love is not forever. If you love him deeply at the moment, it is doomed that you can't love him or him in the distant future. He just arrived at this day before you. When he doesn't love you, please gently embrace the warmth in memory and gently stare at the faded tenderness. Although it is meaningless for him to advise you to recall the past, if you want to see the future, you can have the right and freedom to recall and not to recall. Maybe as time goes on, you will find that he is not as perfect as you think, and he is also an ordinary person. Then at that time, you will naturally choose to forget all your memories, indicating that you have really grown up and matured, so believe in yourself! ! At that time, you may be glad that your doomed love is dead. After all, life in the future is more important, and people can't bet their happiness. When he no longer loves you, dear, please take a deep breath. The road of life is covered with buds of love, and there is always one that belongs to you, not to comfort you. But because many things are already doomed, just like the Buddha said that you looked back 500 times to get a short acquaintance, but the fate was not enough, so you can only give you a hundred days of love. Don't deceive yourself with fantasy and hope that we can be together in the next life, because everyone knows that this life is real, so we should all live well, cherish everything around us and don't leave any regrets. Fan Zhongyan in the Northern Song Dynasty knew that "we don't rejoice in things, we don't grieve for ourselves", not to mention us? If you know that the person you once loved can be happy, then everything is enough, even if he no longer loves you, what does it matter? You should be happy for him. When he doesn't love you, don't speak ill of him in front of others, especially your friends, because he still has the right to continue to love others and needs his social circle. Keep an open mind. After all, he is the person you once loved. When he doesn't love you, you must bless him and be sincere, regardless of gains and losses. When you can help him, be as generous as before, don't be stingy. With love, there should be no hate. Love is beautiful, but hate is cruel. Why let the best thing in life turn into harm? And don't feel unfair. About separation and forgetting, it is unfair between you. What he gave up and lost was a woman who loved him so much, and you just lost someone who couldn't love you anymore, but you got a chance to be reborn. Comparatively speaking, you are not happier! ! When he no longer loves me, I wrote this article and thought it over. Some things can be felt and expressed, but it is not easy to really do them. Just like when I was writing, I repeatedly told myself to be strong, but I still couldn't help crying. So it took so long to post this article. However, I believe that time can make everything fade, and I wish all the friends who have really paid and loved: happiness forever! Sometimes we like a person, and we don't know if it's because we are too lonely ... because of loneliness, love becomes easy, as easy as glass.