What constellations are there that are so controlling and possessive in feelings that make your partner miserable?

The possessiveness and exclusiveness in emotion, literally, are irrational and irrational personal behaviors. People who have this idea will not only do great harm to their loved ones emotionally, but also do great harm to their emotions because of strong impulses. Moreover, such people are very good in the process of falling in love, and it is not easy to reveal a trace of possessiveness and exclusiveness. With the aggravation of emotions and the enhancement of mutual connection, they will gradually emerge, especially after marriage, their thoughts will be completely released, and this impulse is very obvious, and they are not good at managing themselves. Often due to this impulse, their emotions fall into a helpless realm of life. And it will also cause endless distress to the lover and hurt their feelings. The people in the following three constellations are more or less possessive and control-oriented, and they can't control their own impulses in love, which will do great harm to their love and lover.

1. Pisces Pisces' desire for control is the best in 12 constellation. Married Pisces want to increase this impulse endlessly, so that they can not only occupy all others, but also control each other 100%. When these two people start talking about emotions, Pisces mainly shows humility and courtesy, and is very considerate and reasonable to each other. They can't easily show a little adjustment, occupy other people's thoughts, and make couples unaware of their long-hidden impulses. Although Pisces people will gradually show their own impulse to possess each other after their feelings are aggravated, it is very easy for couples to regard this impulse to possess themselves as the care and love of others. Even if Pisces people sometimes show a little strength, couples don't care, because after all, Pisces people gradually have a good impression and are in the palace of marriage life, so they don't think too much.

However, married Pisces should completely open themselves and there will be no traces of concealment. Their impulse to possess their lover and their desire for control will be aroused. Not only does it stipulate that lovers and other friends of the opposite sex should sever all relations, but even if they say one more word to friends of the opposite sex at work, Pisces people will feel deeply jealous. And no matter how good the relationship is, Pisces people are particularly uneasy about the other half. As long as the couple are independent for a period of time, they will call to ask. As long as the lover gives an dissatisfied expression, he will have inexplicable doubts about the couple. In Scorpio's eyes, a lover is one's personal belongings. Of course, it is not allowed to be close to all friends of the opposite sex, and of course it is not allowed to love things beyond one's vision. And Pisces can't believe that there is a real friendship between men and women.

2. Leo Although Leo gives people the first impression that he is bold and courageous, he is definitely a very typical male chauvinist and possessive person emotionally. Moreover, in the case of passionate love, Leo people give lovers a particularly good feeling. They are not only enthusiastic, but also a person who is willing to endure hardships and is not afraid of inconvenience. Not only have you contracted everything for the couple, but you can also be conscientious and considerate to the couple. It can be said that no matter big or small, as long as Leo is serious, the couple will be very satisfied.

However, despite the great pressure of family life, married Leo people have a strong sense of responsibility and take care of their partners, but their possessiveness of their lovers is unacceptable. Moreover, after marriage, Leo people always think that their happiness and family, including their loved ones, have been won by themselves and they have invested too much. In many people's subconscious, they feel that their relatives should not point at themselves, but should listen to their own distribution for free. In many people's face-saving subconscious, lovers should do what they say. Because this family is supported by himself, it can be said that he is the backbone of this family, and if he loses himself, it will not be easy for this family to exist again. He is the master of this family. Lovers should listen to their own words, and they can't say no to their own suggestions, nor can they say different suggestions. This strong possessiveness not only weakens the lover's sense of superiority, but also makes the other half feel a little casual and indoor space.

3. Virgo Virgo's harsh views and regulations on love are well known and very impossible. However, in the case of passionate love, as long as Virgo is optimistic about the other party and the other party has reached Virgo's norms, then Virgo will try his best to show his extreme side, continue to carefully hide his shortcomings, and suppress his inner possessiveness very well. In all cases, even if two people can't stand the experience, Virgo will not show any impulse and treat each other.

However, married Virgos will be more and more uncontrollable with their intimate approach and complete emotional integration, which fully reflects their strong possessiveness and subconscious requirements for their lovers. In Virgo's eyes, they are the most perfect, and they are the protagonists in this family. No matter how well lovers do, they also have certain defects and flaws in their eyes, and no matter how extreme they do, they can't meet their rules. And in Virgo, subconsciously. They gave everything to their families and loved ones, so others should obey and rely on themselves for free, and should not have all doubts and contradictions about their ideas, otherwise they would not pay attention to and look down on themselves. In fact, these ideas and production methods of Virgo are very wrong and do not fully consider other people's experiences. This view is just my own delusion, which will not only have no benefits, but also continue to suppress my lover's pursuit of perfection in daily life, and will also cause great harm to my feelings.

In fact, whether in love or after marriage, what we need most is a free and independent indoor space. Because no one likes others to manage themselves, no one expects him to be an accessory of others, and no one will live in a small area without himself. Although people in the above three constellations are also a way to express love, it must be the right way to treat selfishness and love others. Because they are possessive and possessive, there is no love, freedom and ambition on the other side. Everything will be controlled by others, who have no experience of private indoor space, which can only make lovers more and more depressed and relaxed. Not only do we not allow susceptibility to become warm emotionally, but we will gradually lose confidence in love and become more and more chilling to each other.