Hao Yun wife constellation _ What does Hao Yun wife look like?

"A man helps his brother, but his wife asks for a divorce": It is a disaster to have no boundaries in interpersonal communication. what do you think?

How many women value his loyalty more when choosing a husband? I still remember the "Juvenile Danger" that was popular all over the country. I think many people will be influenced by the "brotherhood" inside, and feel that being a man needs loyalty.

Generally speaking, people who are loyal to others have a very good impression. People who think they can speak well of their friends and do whatever they want are naturally honest, more grateful and helpful. However, although some men are loyal to their friends, they obviously don't have a good proper limit, which eventually hurts their families.

The backstage received a letter from the reader asking for help. She told the story of her marriage with her husband, which must be the epitome of many couples.

Zi Qiao (pseudonym) and her husband have been married for more than three years, and she said that marriage will not last long. After all, for those couples who are easily exposed to the "seven-year itch", three years passes quickly. But short is not short enough to see the essence of a person and make people decide whether to continue to spend the rest of their lives together.

This is the case with Zi Qiao. She had a cold war with her husband for nearly 20 days. It is inappropriate to say that this is the Cold War, because 20 days ago, she asked her husband Yun Hao for a divorce, but he refused.

When they first met, Zi Qiao still missed her very much. She and her husband Yun Hao (a pseudonym) are college classmates. Although not a major, I don't have to bear the pain of long-distance love. Therefore, Zi Qiao is usually accompanied by Yun Hao, and their college life is very pleasant.

In college, Yun Hao is the man of the hour. He is handsome, studies well and is organized. He is always surrounded by many brothers. Therefore, when Yun Hao was asked by the public to confess to Zi Qiao, he heard those people shouting "Sister-in-law", and Zi Qiao's vanity was greatly satisfied.

At first, Yun Hao attracted Joe most because of his loyalty. No matter what happens to any friend, Hao Yun always rushes to help, which makes Joe feel that he has chosen the right person.

Although Ziqiao sometimes feels that the world between himself and Yun Hao has been affected, only considering that Yun Hao is such a person, Ziqiao doesn't care so much.

After graduating from college, two people got married. With the help and planning of Yun Hao brothers, the wedding was very lively, especially when I saw Yun Hao's eyes red at the ceremony. At that moment, Zi Qiao felt that he should love himself all his life!

However, on their wedding night, Yun Hao's behavior made Zi Qiao a little unhappy. It turned out that after seeing off the guests, Yun Hao and Zi Qiao, who were particularly tired, were lying in bed ready to take a bath. They are too tired to speak.

Just then, Hao Yun's cell phone suddenly rang, and it was the brothers who wanted to invite him out for a drink to celebrate.

See Yun Hao be reluctant, Joe also feel a little hate for the first time. If they are really brothers, don't you know it's their wedding night?

However, although Joe was obviously unhappy, Yun Hao calmed Joe down for a while and then went out. That night, Joe stayed up until the next morning, but Yun Hao didn't come back.

Because of this, Yun Hao coaxed Joe for a long time and finally made her laugh again, but Joe asked Yun Hao to keep his distance from his unreasonable friends in the future.

Hao Yun agreed, but he didn't change his old habits. Those brothers who are lovelorn, brothers who have a bad job, and brothers who just want to play mahjong, Hao Yun is always present on time and never absent.

Once, I caught up with Joe plame; Those days of every month are the hardest for Joe. Joe has to ask for leave every time because he has a bad stomachache. When Joe went to work, he suddenly felt an abdominal cramp. He looked at his calendar and felt uncomfortable, so he immediately went to the bathroom. Old friends again.

Shortly after she came back to sit at her desk, Zi Qiao turned pale with pain and broke out in a cold sweat. She asked the leader for leave, then called Yun Hao and asked him to pick her up.

However, Yun Hao faltered at the other end of the phone. He said to his son Joe, "Wife, I know you are sad, but can you go home by yourself first, and then I will try to take care of you as soon as possible?" I'll call a car for you. "

After listening to her husband's words, Zi Qiao no longer has the strength to lose his temper. She asked faintly, "What are you busy with?" Why can't you pick me up? "

Because Zi Qiao knew that Hao Yun didn't need to punch in at the company that day, but then Yun Hao's answer completely made Zi Qiao feel cold: "Wife, my brother asked me for help. Very urgent. I have to hurry. You said my brother was in trouble, so I couldn't help going, right? That would be disloyal. "

Zi Qiao sneered: "Well, then go! Don't come back, and I don't need you to appear in front of me again. "

After that, Zi Qiao hung up on Hao Yun, and then she took a taxi home alone. Finally, after she entered the room, Zi Qiao had a stomachache. She tried to cook brown sugar and Jiang Shui for herself, and then lay in bed, crying and thinking about her life in recent years.

Hao Yun didn't go home until noon the next day. During the period, there was no WeChat and no phone call. Zi Qiao also thought very clearly, so Hao Yun entered the door, and the paper divorce agreement was left in front of him.

Knowing that his wife was going to divorce him, Yun Hao couldn't understand and thought she was stingy. "I don't pick you up just because of your physiological period? You are so unreasonable! My brother is lovelorn and drunk. Can I ignore it? Why can't you be sensible? "

Zi Qiao is no longer willing to listen to his explanation. She knew that no matter what she said, he wouldn't understand, because in Hao Yun's heart, his brother came first.

If you ask Yun Hao, is he a good man? It must be, because a person can pay so much for his friends, which shows that he has a good heart and a correct outlook on life. But if you ask Yun Hao is a good man or a good husband? Then the answer is obvious, no.

A truly qualified husband will draw a line. Friends and family always come first, which does not mean that friends must be behind family, because friends need help first when they are really in a hurry.

But Hao Yun's approach is undoubtedly never to consider Joe's feelings, so it will eventually make Joe completely cold.

Loyalty to friends is a good thing, but remember that there is a certain premise, that is, take care of your family first, and then help your friends. This is the right way.

If you have ever hurt your family, is it not worth the loss to be "persistent" in loyalty? This friendship is certainly not worth cherishing.