What does Cancer want most?

If money is not a problem, what does Cancer want most?

Cancer: If money is not a problem, what I want to do most is to stay at home and enjoy my family.

Cancer constellation

Cancer people, in the face of their own lives, actively and diligently do their best, and will also work hard to make money for their families and their own livelihood, even if it is very hard, they will still be willing to do well. But if money is no longer a problem, what Cancer wants to do most is to stay at home and enjoy family happiness. I don't like being tired of money, but I would like to be with my family and relatives in my own world and enjoy family happiness. This is the problem of having no money, and it is also the life I want most. Cancer people, enjoying family happiness, are really considerate and feel at home.

The "feeling" that cancer pursues is actually a kind of self-defense.

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Recently, a friend was upset because of emotional things.

I'm not young, and I'm anxious to see my friends get married on a blind date. However, it is very exclusive to "blind date" and feels that the purpose is too strong. Both men and women are like selected goods. But it is difficult to get in touch with the opposite sex without dating yourself, so I am very upset.

Friends actually regard "blind date" as a way to force men and women to associate in order to get married.

But in fact, we can also regard blind date as a common channel for men and women to know each other, and then choose whether the communication is all personal freedom. The status of two people is completely equal, so even if they choose, they will "choose" each other fairly.

Therefore, it is actually a way of self-protection for friends to expect affection and refuse blind date-fear of being "selected", which is a "cancer".

In 12 constellation, Cancer attaches great importance to feelings and family, and is also very defensive. The symbol of Cancer looks like a crab claw, and its hard shell provides them with an almost insurmountable barrier, which isolates the external dangers and protects the soft emotional world inside. Passionate, family-oriented, emotional-oriented, but rigid and stubborn, this feature describes the emotional characteristics of Cancer.

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I have received a Tarot card case of analyzing emotional opportunities before. From it, I also saw a similar psychological state of expectation and stubborn resistance to feelings.

The case question is very simple. I want to see how the emotional fortune is this year. After shuffling and drawing cards, you get the following cards.

The overall emotional state of future cases: the Queen of the Holy Grail

Emotional opportunities in the next 6 months: the holy grail, four temperaments, and four opposites.

First of all, the four elements of the Queen of the Holy Grail correspond to water, and astrology corresponds to cancer. In fact, the Queen of the Grail appears in the overall state of the card. In fact, in the next six months, Peach Blossom Luck will continue to surround girls, and other situations attach great importance to feelings and even pursue love at first sight.

The three tarot cards drawn in the next six months have the same feature-related to spirit number 4 (holy grail 4, temperance 14, star currency 4).

4 in the spirit number system, it is related to key words such as rules, stability, security and stubbornness. The three cards strongly imply the number 4, which shows that this case has some inherent ideas about feelings-that is, the Queen of the Holy Grail, who pursues "feeling" excessively. I didn't feel anything on the first side, and then I was not interested in communication.

These three cards show that the future cases will still be in this state, opinionated, uninterested in new emotional opportunities and unwilling to take the time to understand, so there will be no emotional progress.

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Pursuing "feeling" and "intuition" and stubbornly sticking to one's own ideas and principles are actually a manifestation of feelings insecurity and a way of self-defense.

Many times, we feel "love" not because we got it, but because we gave it to ourselves. If you want to pay, you need to open yourself. Opening yourself is to unload the "shell of cancer". At first, you may get hurt or get true love because of the emotional ups and downs caused by external changes.

Kind of like looking for a job. We may think that everything will be fine if we find a job that suits us, but we forget that we don't mean that we can do it well if we like it, but that we will like it if we really work hard to do it well.

The same is true of feelings. You can attach importance to "feeling", but don't trust "feeling" too much and don't pursue finding the right person.