What is the best way to defeat your rival in love?

Lovers have a "one" competitor around them, and the parties are always uncomfortable. In the face of latecomers, the way of "fighting" by the parties will only accelerate the lover to fall to the "enemy." I think the most effective method is "cold treatment". In most cases, it is better than "heat treatment". Do not believe, you can try. When "rival in love" appears, we must first know ourselves and ourselves before we can "win every battle". Only knowing yourself, not knowing each other, will only be busy; I only know each other, but I don't know myself. I obviously lack self-confidence. Generally speaking, your "rival in love" and yourself are basically an order of magnitude. Because its conditions are too high, you will never have a crush on your girlfriend; If the conditions are too low, your girlfriend won't like him either. This is the basic principle of the balance of everything. Since you are the same as him in front of your girlfriend, don't be more enthusiastic about your girlfriend, or your girlfriend will feel that her value will double, which is an extremely dangerous signal. At this time, your girlfriend will think you are better than your "rival in love" only if she stays condescending in language and behavior. At the same time, I suddenly reduced the number of contacts and even stopped seeing her for a while. At the same time, we should also pay attention to maintaining certain contact, including telephone calls. At this time, the woman will reflect on what she did wrong in some aspects, what offended you, and so on. The more the woman blames herself, the more inclined her feelings are. Note that completely refusing to meet will only accelerate the woman's death. In addition, during this period, the man might as well "moderately" increase his normal contacts with other women, but he should grasp the scale. Envy is a human weakness, which exists in men, especially women. If your lover sees you with other girls once or twice, she will be angry. On the one hand, being angry proves that she cares about you, on the other hand, it also proves that you can attract other girls, and your charm is as good as her. A competitive woman, in turn, puts herself into the battle of your "rival in love", sticks to her own position, and lets men benefit from it to achieve the ultimate goal.