Dog Thirteen Li Play Constellation _ Dog Thirteen Metaphor

How did you feel after seeing the movie Dog Thirteen? What do you understand?

There are three characters in this story, namely, a little girl, a father and a grandfather.

* * I told two stories in the light and in the dark. Let's not talk about public things. You'll know after reading it. From the beginning, Grandpa said to the newborn baby boy, "The girl's name is Li Wan, and the boy is called Zhao Zhao when he is serious ..." From the beginning to the end, Dad answered Li Wan's mother's phone and cried. Suddenly, he played a song "Looking Back" to tell the whole story.

Father and mother gave birth to a girl, and they loved each other very much, but they didn't give birth to a boy for the next ten years. Perhaps under the intervention of grandpa, they divorced, married a little bride at the beginning and gave birth to a son.

In fact, there is a hidden line in the story, that is, grandma's life experience and the process of grandparents giving birth to a boy, Li Wan's father. But this line is obscure, so I won't say it.

All right, let's talk about feelings and conclusions.

The two fathers in * * lack the courage to face the truth at critical moments (including grandma and stepmother), such as grandpa's silence after losing his dog, and dare not explain it to his granddaughter in person, such as Li playing dog meat in a restaurant after the dog died. ...

What is the reason? Maybe it's face. Maybe I think the other person is a child ... but personally, I think it's a bit far-fetched. By the way, in * *, I still spit out frustration education.

My feeling, my feeling is not the education in China or the family relationship in China. My parents are not lacking in courage, but they like * *, and they always think I am a child ... So when I watch * *, what I feel and feel is that I miss my childhood.

Similarly, I actually don't think that Li is playing without love, from dogs to hoping to improve his grades and attract his father's care and love. I think Li is a bit stubborn when he plays, and he is confused when he doesn't talk, so he can't grow up overnight. I wonder if I have read the abridged version. After all, it was completed by ** 13.

So what * * wants to express is not necessarily the education in China and the family relationship in China. Judging from the arty "successful people" on the wine table in * *, adults don't know A Brief History of Time, and girls may not understand what their father said: "Bamboo sticks and straw sandals are lighter than horses, and they will last their lives." , linked to the girl has been drinking milk and vomiting, maybe, I guess, maybe Cao Dao is actually expressing the new contradiction between China traditional family and modern westernization under the relationship of three generations? ! The director described the adaptation process of western universal culture in China. ...

When it comes to education in China, people always think of its rigid and conservative impression. Dog Thirteen tells the story of a 13-year-old girl, Li Wan, who lost her dog Einstein. In order to cover up the fact, the family deceived Li Wan with another dog. Telling such a story can satirize China's education.

1. Li Wan's father came to school and even forgot the teacher's last name.

Li Wan's father was called to the school to deal with this problem because Li Wan's English subject was weak. But I can't even name the teacher. Aren't many parents like this? On weekdays, I don't care about my children's studies, I am busy with my work all day, I have no time to manage my children's studies, and I rarely communicate with my children's teachers. Only see the results, but ignore the psychological education and companionship for children.

Father coaxed Li into playing with money.

The concept of the adult world is generally money first, thinking that money can buy a lot of things. If a child is unhappy, he will use money to coax him, but he never asks what the child really wants. Many children don't need that much money at all. They may just want their parents to spend a few more minutes with them, chat with them more and care more about themselves.

It was discovered that Li was tricked into playing Einstein with another dog.

This is the core event of this film. The world of adults can't understand the world of children. After getting along with Einstein, Li Wan had a deep affection for Einstein. Although Einstein is just a puppy, although Einstein is not related to her by blood, it is sometimes as simple as building feelings in the children's world. So when Einstein got lost, Li was very sad. It's like leaving a close friend who has been together for many years.

At this time, "adults" have joined hands to come up with a way to hide the sky. They found a new puppy and called it Einstein. However, Li Wan was not so gullible, so the adults started brainwashing mode and preaching mode, trying to influence Li Wan.

However, Li Wan was so persistent that she had to find Einstein, so she looked for him during the day and at night. Once she was drinking out late at night, her father really couldn't stand it. Because of this, his grandmother, who hasn't been out for many years, went out to find Li Wan. So my father was very angry with Li, and finally his father's resentment broke out and he fought with Li. This also laid the groundwork for Li's transformation after playing.

In the adult world, it seems that children should not have their own feelings. Children should obey adults unconditionally and need to let adults worry less. This seems to be the standard of a good boy.

4. Li plays with the party and eats dog meat, but Li plays with Einstein but denies it.

After all, Li Wan was educated by adults. Li Wan, who was once full of vitality and infinite thoughts, surrendered under the mental blow of the adults. Leaving only a clever and sensible body for adults to appreciate. She has grown up. I don't know when it started. Was it when dad hit her? When she eats dog meat? When she denied Einstein. Or when you witnessed the "bird" upstairs being taken away?

Will abnormal education in China really bring growth?

In fact, to be honest, if you only watch this movie once, you can't understand it. When I first saw it, I felt that the little girl was particularly ignorant and disrespectful to her parents. But in fact, you should savor it. This is a film that exposes education in China. From it, we can know that a family of origin is sad. The hostess is a child in a rebellious period of youth, but she has never been understood and cared for by her family. She became very withdrawn and grumpy, and her parents divorced. My father married a new mother and gave birth to a son, so he didn't care much about the hostess. Li Wan lives with her grandparents. Although her grandparents are very kind to her, there is always a generation gap and contradiction with the elderly. So one day, her only spiritual sustenance was the dog. She collapsed out of control. She had a big fight with her family and just wanted to get her dog back. Seeing this, we will feel that this child is too headstrong. Grandparents spoil her so much that even dogs are inferior. Actually, think about it from a woman's point of view. If one day, your spiritual pillar collapses, will you be calm? In fact, what this film wants to tell us is that Chinese education should change with the development of the times. Even children have their own ideas. Parents should not blindly impose their ideas and opinions on their children. They should listen to their children's opinions, know what they need, give them more care and love, and let them grow up healthily and happily.

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Cao Baoping, director of Dog Thirteen, said, "We suddenly grew up and no one noticed. Everything seems to happen naturally, but the arrival of that day is actually cruel. "

Many plots in * * make me feel the same way. Those growing little emotions and pains are vivid and vivid. I often wonder whether I will grow into a better person if my parents handle many things in different ways.

Sometimes, it is not easy to feel that you can grow up physically and mentally, without mental disorder, revenge on society and self-abandonment.

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Several typical family education problems in China in the film happened to many people in our generation.

Regardless of the feelings and preferences of children, children should accept what they think is good.

Shortly after the opening of the film, grandma forced Li to drink milk before going to school. After many years together, grandma could not have been unaware that her granddaughter would vomit after drinking milk, but she handed Ali a bowl of milk. Because in grandma's view, milk is a good thing. Although grandma loves Li to play, she doesn't care about her granddaughter's preferences.

Just like you prefer apples to bananas. Your partner gives you half of his favorite banana. He thinks that giving you what he likes is a sign of love for you, but will you feel happy? Not necessarily. Self-righteous love can be a burden.

There is another place in the film that impressed me deeply. Li likes physics, and English is his weakness, so he signed up for a physics interest group. When dad found out, he forcibly changed interest groups. Her father said to her, "It's for your own good. Why are you unhappy?"

In real life, many parents force their children to do things they don't like under the banner of "for your own good". I remember when I was in junior high school, I liked reading very much. I often go to the library to borrow famous books to read. Once my mother saw it, she said, "It's the second day of junior high school. Don't read idle books, it will affect my grades. Next time I see you reading idle books, I'll burn them all. I'm talking about your own good. Be obedient from an early age. " I happened to be a good girl at that time, and I seldom read those "prose books" in my mother's eyes since then. After a long time, I gradually changed from writing freely to running out of skills. This incident often reminds me. If my mother hadn't stopped me from studying at that time, my junior high school career might have become more colorful because of those famous books.

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Most parents are very concerned about their children's food, clothing, housing and transportation, but they seldom care about their inner thoughts and don't know how to communicate with their children. In the process of children's growth, whether they are psychologically traumatized is closely related to their parents' communication style. However, the parents of our generation are generally faced with the problems of incorrect communication methods, low communication efficiency and even harm to their children.

In order to help Li play with Einstein the dog, Grandpa sprained his foot and Grandma couldn't find the way home. Dad changed his old good temper and smashed the bottle in Li's hand, completely ignoring the blood dripping from his daughter's hand, reprimanding and cursing in his mouth, pulling and wrestling in his hand without mercy. Then he hurt his daughter because of his bad temper and recklessness, forcing her to accept her apology and holding her in her lap for gentle comfort. Much like a wild animal licking a wound after being angry, it is full of regret and regret.

I remember when I was a child, I often cried myself to sleep because I was punished by my parents. Now I want to hug that weak little girl curled up in bed.

There used to be a hot topic in Weibo, "Will you forgive your parents for being violently abused?" There are various replies under the topic. A netizen's reply made me sweat. "I fought with my sister in the third and fourth grades of elementary school. In fact, I was justified, but my dad slapped me in the face and suddenly I was unconscious, and my nose was bleeding all the time. Then because I was in the toilet, there was a bucket next to me, and I was directly awakened by the cold water in the basin. "

There is no doubt that people around us have suffered all kinds of punishments. Can parents achieve their goals by punishing them like this? Maybe, but the psychological damage to children may be lifelong.

The book How Family Affects Our Life says that mental abuse or corporal punishment will make children live in an atmosphere of fear, which will affect their emotional development and even their intellectual development. If children are often subjected to mental abuse or corporal punishment, in the long run, children will imitate, which may happen to their classmates and friends. When they grow up, they will adopt this model for colleagues, subordinates and even their own children.

Non-violent communication, the ability to empathize with children and listen to children's thoughts are topics that every parent should learn.

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There is a popular saying on the Internet that "our parents are waiting for us to repay, and we are still waiting for our parents to apologize". Many times parents don't realize the harm that their words and deeds do to their children.

Einstein was asked by his stepmother to send him to the "dog shop" because he bit his brother. Li cried himself hoarse and begged his father not to send the dog to the dog shop. Father couldn't bear it, so he sent Einstein to a dog shelter. Later, Li got the first place in physics in the province, and he could be sent directly to high school. Dad was very excited when he learned that he wanted to satisfy all Li's wishes. Li's wish is to know where Einstein was sent. Hearing his father say that Einstein was sent to a shelter, Li's eyes lit up at the thought that Einstein was still alive. Finally, I learned that Einstein died because he refused to eat, and I was shocked, painful, sad and resentful. ......

I'm not sure what effect this will have on Li Wan in the future, but what is certain is that my beloved dog will never be erased from her heart because of her parents' ending.

I remember when I was in primary school, I also had a dog of my own. Every morning, this dog will take me to school and wait for me on my way after school. My weekend was completely occupied by dogs, and finally the dog died. Fortunately, my grandmother buried the dog's body with me to comfort me, and also set up a stone as a tombstone in front of the dog's grave. Grandma's little gesture reminds me of this dog in the future, full of good memories.

In recent years, the concept of "being born in a family" is very popular. I hope we can realize the bumps and jumps we have buried in our future growth path, and try to avoid the pain caused by being born in a family and not pass it on to our children.

The Chinese name is Dog Thirteen, and the English names are Einstein and Einstein.

From the name of * *, it can be roughly seen that the protagonist is a dog, a woman of 13 years old. Einstein is the name of the dog, and another Einstein may be a metaphor played by the hostess Li and herself.

I didn't know it was two dogs until I saw the whole film. Originally, Li Wan didn't want to admit that two dog was called Einstein, but maybe he compromised. Maybe he feels as pathetic as this dog. Maybe he thinks the name is just a synonym, and the second dog is also called Einstein.

I have just become a parent, and the biggest feeling of the whole film is that when the child grows into adolescence, the rebellion and ignorance in the eyes of parents may be the consequences of their own planting. Parents always treat their children well in the way they think is right, but they don't really listen to their children's real thoughts. After everything is suppressed by violence, the child is completely closed to the outside world, and then he may never hear his inner voice again.

Li Wan has a half-brother, and the adults in the family naturally think that she can't accept it. I didn't tell her until my brother was 2 years old. She didn't make any preparations before, but she was told.

Grandma thinks it's good to drink milk when she grows up. Knowing that Li Can can't drink milk, she should force her to drink a little and then spit it out, but why not drink soybean milk?

Dad felt that he couldn't play with Li often in the future, so he naturally sent her a dog to accompany her, but he didn't regard the dog as a member of the family. The dog got lost, and I was afraid that Li would be angry, so I didn't think about looking for it. In fact, this is the most angry place where Li plays.

Li is not allowed to play and drink, but she can propose a toast to her uncles. The world of adults is always contradictory.

Many parents in China are not good at expressing themselves, but they love their children but don't know how to communicate with them effectively. After watching this movie, I hope that when I educate my children, I will think more about ways and means to accompany their real high-quality growth.

On the surface, it describes how the protagonist loves small animals, but in fact he wants to express it! The inner helplessness of children in single-parent families is uncertain. I hope parents can spare more time and spend more time with their children! Let them grow up healthily! Let the children establish correct values, instead of leading the hostess astray like her father!

The title "Dog 13" can also be read as Dog B. Perhaps the director just wants to scold some concepts and phenomena of Dog B in this society. For a child, growing up and not growing up are completely two concepts.

Dogs have always been dogs, and sometimes people are not necessarily people.