Do you know which constellations know the best about self-reflection when there is a conflict with your lover?

First, don't think that you must distinguish right from wrong just because there are contradictions and quarrels. At this time, it is best to do a psychological transposition first, look at and think about the problem from the other party's position and situation, and observe the other party's potential thoughts and motives. Don't simply look at contradictions with "self-centeredness", but try to think rationally about contradictions and learn to understand each other.

Second, lovers should keep a certain psychological distance. From a psychological point of view, if the distance is too small, it will make people feel uncomfortable and too crowded. A little farther away, you will have a proper sense of distance and independence, be more free psychologically, and have more opportunities to feel each other's beauty, leaving appropriate space for each other, that is, leaving more room for surprises.

Third, after the conflict between lovers, don't always complain about each other and form a negative "stereotype". Both men and women should use some different mediation methods to solve the problem, instead of giving each other a result I know will happen.

Fourth, if you want the other person to respect you, first of all, you should respect each other and give them a reason to love you, instead of asking for it first. Now that two people are together and tied to each other, there must be something attractive between you. You have your own reasons for loving each other. Think about it. You have to give each other a reason to love you first.