The wind elephant likes licking dogs _ The wind elephant likes it.

Different people need different sense of security.

The earth sign wants the truth and prosperity of life, the water sign wants emotional and emotional stability, and the fire sign wants self-confidence and enough motivation.

On the other hand, air signs may be a little different. All they want is four words, a clear conscience.

Maybe some friends think these four words are too abstract, and they are, because Libra Gemini Aquarius itself is also some abstract people.

Air signs's greatest feature is that he doesn't fight for it, and his interest is emotional. It is definitely better to get more, but if it is not his own, there is no need to fight for it.

Because of this Buddhist mentality, air signs is actually a contented person. To put it bluntly, he is stubborn. Once he has determined something, he will satisfy all his desires in this respect, and he will begin to become a Buddhist and enjoy the happiness brought by this persistence.

Everyone thinks that the playboy of the weather vane is unreliable. In fact, it is because he has been unable to find someone or something that he can agree with, and he will keep looking for a weather vane that does not like to make do.

Moreover, in this search process, air signs is not insecure, because he didn't mind at all, so he didn't think of failure, let alone the future.

This state is the normal state that most people have seen in the sky constellations, walking in the world with a gesture of "nothing matters, no one can live without anyone".

Then, after meeting someone who can interest him, he will enter a state of addiction, which can also be said to be a dog licking mode. He will mistakenly think that he will meet the right person this time, so he can't wait to put all his energy on it.

But this can't be called feelings, it can only be said that I am moved and eager to get a response.

The meaning of a clear conscience is not that he asks his own heart, but that he is tortured by the other side. ...

When the weather vane came up emotionally, he made a promise to the other party in a daze, but it didn't have much influence on him, just because his feelings were too deep for him to control himself.

After the other person is moved by the wind sign, give him a heartfelt declaration of love, which is the real step of "asking your heart" ...

As previously analyzed, it is best not to follow air signs, let alone force them to express their feelings. It is for this reason that this kind of behavior is really a kind of "torture" in air signs' view, and he doesn't like to say things against his will. The most important thing is that his feelings are not too deep to control, so he is afraid that he can't be "innocent".

So I chose silence. If you keep pushing him, he will choose to escape.

Moreover, after fleeing, the wind elephant will become particularly sensitive and sober, and even take a good look back on his emotional path.

"Why can't you promise him?"

"Why are you embarrassed?"

"Why do you always feel almost nothing?"

Once you can't figure out these problems clearly, it will gradually become a hurdle, which always makes him feel as if it is because two people are not suitable, but you can't say anything inappropriate.

No communication, no running-in, no solution.

In fact, air signs is also a person who likes to get to the bottom of things, especially those problems that can't be solved but have to be solved. He'll start thinking the worst.

It is precisely because of the discomfort caused by these embarrassments that air signs had to start thinking about ways to escape, making him wonder if it would be easier for him to change his lifestyle.

However, this idea will make him feel particularly guilty because he is "guilty."

Everyone can taste at will, like freedom, like the weather vane. After all these problems, his life will become even more embarrassing.

Because what Feng Xiang hates most is awkwardness, but his heart is full of so many bad emotions that he can only be awkward in suffering.

To put it bluntly, it is not you who makes him feel insecure, but the state of getting along with you. The feelings of two people made him feel insecure.

He has never regretted knowing you, and he is not afraid of his flinching.

However, the feelings of two people have become like this, and they can't even say anything together, which will really make him start to shrink back.

Have a guilty conscience, really will kill all the goodwill to a person, because it will kill all the dependence on a person first.

And air signs's love itself is habit and dependence.

When he begins to resist the present life and wants to try a new beginning, it is basically the end of a relationship.

To put it bluntly, the empty constellation is really "no one can live without him". They never think that the retreat caused by this insecurity is an escape, but a new life.

Having said that, where did this "embarrassment" come from?

I'll give you five suggestions.

1. Don't follow air signs in the Cold War, especially after he took the initiative to step back and you deliberately ignored him.

Don't continue to provoke him with angry words when he is angry, he will really make a decision secretly in this mood.

When he said he wanted to be quiet, he really wanted to be alone and feel the influence of leaving you on his life. As long as you don't disturb him, he will come back by himself in a few days, but if you don't admit defeat, it will only consume the last good impression.

Don't leave him alone when he is emotionally unstable. After the emotional breakdown, he will be extremely calm again. After that, you will be fine.

You can't ignore him when he is happy and wants to share his happy event with you. If you make him feel bored, he will choose to share it with others.

To sum up, air signs has a clear conscience in emotional security.

On the one hand, he should be prepared to live up to each other's expectations.

On the other hand, he has to protect himself and cannot live up to his efforts.

Therefore, if you can make the constellation in the air fluctuate, it means that he has moved his heart.

Once experienced an embarrassing-escape, or collapse-sober process, the weather will lose this sense of security in feelings, and then can't help but want to escape.

The best way is not to let him change his mind.

Make clear any unpleasantness in person, solve it on the same day, and don't let him leave angrily with misunderstanding.

Here I tell you a little coup. When there are misunderstandings and conflicts, remember that you just need to clarify your point of view, don't accuse him of any mistakes, let alone ask him what he thinks, and ask him to give a statement. Just tell the truth from your point of view.

People in air signs can't help arguing with you when they see your argument. They both laughed and laughed, and nothing happened.

Don't be too nervous, don't care too much and don't care too much.

The beauty of love is hidden in every casual detail.

Don't prove it with your mouth, but feel it with your heart.

Interesting souls and harmonious coexistence will give the air constellation all the sense of security.

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Gemini Libra Aquarius, do you hate the cold war, embarrassment, embarrassment and coercion?