Why do I always quarrel with him in Scorpio?

Cancer and Scorpio may meet one day lying on a rock in the sun. Of course, they can also meet in the water, but because they are destined to meet sooner or later, there are many choices about where to meet. The bank may be the place where they first met, or they may meet in a restaurant, a nursery, or a history class. If Scorpio people have a choice, they will meet in historical sites or teaching, or in Tibet, or next to a bookshelf with a sign of "sex and spirit" in the library. These are sacred places for Scorpio.

This is the God-blessed 5th-9th Palace. When they are several kilometers apart, they are likely to attract each other-not every time, but this often happens. This situation is not a guarantee when it comes to human behavior. However, it is only a psychological possibility that cancer and Scorpio are more likely to successfully link each other's destinies. Other 5-9-day constellations, such as Aries-Leo, Gemini-Aquarius, may find everything guaranteed boring. But Scorpio never denies that he likes something guaranteed; Cancer people think that the word "Bao" shines like unpolluted water.

We want to say to Cancer and Scorpio: You two will get along very, very well, more harmoniously than anyone you know. This is the promise of planets and stars, which makes it easier for you to enter a guaranteed state than others.

Sometimes, Cancer and Scorpio may end their quarrel with unhappiness. But most canc people controlled by that moon and Scorpio people control by Pluto don't have to worry about such a disaster. When they stopped arguing, their relationship remained stable. In publishing, religion, aerospace, law, tourism, stock market, schools and various activities, including the film industry, you will find cancer and Scorpio roaming in it.

Cancer and Scorpio are almost born to understand each other. They have many similar (but not all) advantages and disadvantages. One of the shortcomings may be shared by another person, or another person may express sympathy for his shortcomings; One of them may have the advantages and talents of another person, or the other person may admire his advantages and talents. This is empathy (feeling others' feelings). It is through this empathy that Cancer and Scorpio can influence and support each other, whether in the relationship between adults and children, or in the relationship between trading partners, lovers, friends and relatives.

Almost from the first time they met, with the continuous close relationship between them, children played an important role in their lives, either playing a troublesome role or playing a happy role. However, usually, both people like children. If they have no children, the childhood of cancer or Scorpio will strangely become the basis of their initial attraction and sympathy. When one person recalls his sad past, another person will comfort him-or they will laugh and recall the happy past together. Yesterday was always close to Cancer, and Scorpio also likes to recall the past quietly.

Cancer people and Scorpio people will never forget the benefits of others. Similarly, they will always be bitter about their own injuries. For them, such injuries are hard to erase from their memories, or even unforgettable all their lives. There are similarities in the way they treat injuries. Cancer people rarely try to calm themselves down. They prefer to cry loudly, soothe their hurt feelings alone, and heal their wounds with self-pity and self-love. Scorpio people always try to retaliate in one way or another after being hurt, that is, "a tooth for a tooth, blood for blood, deal with a man as he deals with you." This is a reaction to a balanced mentality. Scorpio people learn this from Libra, the constellation behind them, so that things tend to be balanced. Libra people follow a logical process, while Scorpio people follow a clearer and faster way.

Cancer people rarely want to fight back when they are hurt. The reaction of injured cancer people is to give up, but they will never trust the people who hurt them. The word "give up" cannot be found in Scorpio's dictionary. Scorpio may pretend to yield, give up or disappear, but they will make a comeback. In their hearts, these people would rather die than give in to others' sticks or give up a battle. This is also reflected in their love, business dealings, playing football and billiards (which is related to age and gender). However, not all Scorpio people can get the pleasure of revenge, in other words, he or she does not have to oppose (although some people deliberately) those attackers. But the strong-willed Scorpio still has to decide to do so.

Nevertheless, Scorpio people are very likable and independent. It is their cuteness, gentleness and sensitivity that have won the trust of the cancer people.

Because both Cancer and Scorpio belong to the water element, when their respective contradictions cross together, they will drown their sorrows by drinking, taking drugs, or take other escape methods, including sexual promiscuity. This made them push each other into the abyss until they sank to the bottom of the sea. It won't be easy to surface again. They may all be victims of witchcraft.

Emotionally mature and insightful, Cancer and Scorpio can find all the happiness and interests of the imperial secretary for 5-9 days. Their behavior reminds people of the scene of children playing together-what can be better than purity? This is really a beautiful feeling like a rainbow. Any misunderstanding, big or small, can be melted and forgiven. Cancer and Scorpio don't forgive others-but they can forgive each other. What is even more gratifying is that because the circles between their constellations are very harmonious, they can not only forgive each other, but also forget each other's mistakes. This is a real miracle for cancer and Scorpio. As long as they try their best to give their best to each other, they can create this miracle. Cancer people will easily give others the trust they can't fully give. Extremely sensitive Cancer and Scorpio are willing to show their fragile side to each other. This is no small matter, because both of them hide their vulnerability under a hard shell in case the world finds out and attacks them with their vulnerability.

They will tell each other secrets that they are afraid to tell others easily. If he (or she) doesn't want people to know his secret, then he (or she) can't get any secrets from the cancer. But Scorpio may find a little secret from Cancer-Cancer ruled by the moon sometimes finds that Scorpio's indifferent face is actually just a mask. They are connected.

If there is a conflict between two people, it is probably because of money. Because Scorpio people care about "other people's money", but for Cancer people, no matter whose money it is, as long as it is money, they care very much. Scorpio is worried about how to get money, while Cancer is very afraid of losing money.

As mentioned above, all cancer people, regardless of age and sex, have a strong sense of self-protection. They can wrap themselves in comfortable shells, and they may feel a little suffocated if they don't come out for air occasionally. Of course, it's all about seeking security. Scorpio people seem to be able to control the changeable nature of Cancer people. Sometimes cancer people may be angry with Scorpio, but this is just a kind of tension that can be easily handled, and the return is very attractive. If you can swim bravely to that seemingly eternal goal in the endless whirlpool and meet a gentle person who can understand your heart very well, how good it would be.

Cancer (female)-Scorpio (male)

Although cancer people are a bit confusing, cancer women are quite interesting. Beneath her appearance, there is introversion and indifference, but she can always make people happy with her sense of humor. She has no strong vanity, but she is often misunderstood as indifferent and self-centered. She is often attracted by mysterious things, but she doesn't want to hide too deep in unknown waters without navigation marks, except Scorpio man surrounded by water. She can't resist this mysterious temptation. In order to know him better, she will even put aside her inner timidity. It's great that a cancer woman can control her fears. Their fear comes from being ruled by the moon, hidden deep in the subconscious. Any attempt to overcome these fears deserves recognition and praise.

Being appreciated is her greatest wish and deepest hope, although she rarely admits it. Few people try to understand her, let alone appreciate her. Scorpio can understand and appreciate her. That's why she can summon up the courage to look directly at his burning eyes. She thinks he is the only person in the world who really understands her. She's right, he is really the kind of man she wants.

If other men try to enter her mysterious inner world with such burning eyes and flirting, then she will throw cold water on them or lose her temper with them. If someone she doesn't trust tries to spy on her and open her crab shell, she will be furious. She will be gentle with other cancers, Scorpio and Pisces, and easy-going with Virgo and Taurus. Sometimes Capricorn men make her feel mysterious-but Aries or Libra men may be scolded by her.

Scorpio likes challenges. It is relatively easy for him to make the shy and interesting cancer woman trust him. It is also surprising that from the first moment they look at each other, Scorpio people who are suspicious by nature may also trust her. It's rare that these two constellations can't understand each other. Although it is possible, it is unlikely.

People used to say that these two kinds of people are indifferent, but in fact, they are indifferent for a reason. Don't forget, neither of them knows water, so it is difficult for them to show their feelings. But romance is another explanation. What others think of as indifference may be warm and warm for cancer and Scorpio. In order to make up for the cold chemicals inherited from water, both of them are very sentimental, even more so than Taurus and Leo. Cancer and Scorpio try to hide their sentimentality, but they often fail. Tears filled their eyes involuntarily when they were moved. Tears often fall down her cheeks, and the secret is revealed. Moreover, he often swallows the bitterness in his heart and dries his tears with great self-control, which is quick and imperceptible. No one saw all this except her. He caused the pain of love in her heart with tears. No one in the world can control their feelings as well as Scorpio. He can control himself highly. When he is depressed, surprised or even hurt, he can control his facial expression as if nothing had happened. In this respect, Scorpio people are often successful. If he can't control his feelings, you can be sure that the damage he has suffered is huge and irreparable. Others may not realize this, but the cancer woman can realize that she can be deeply moved.

Therefore, they are not emotionally indifferent at all-they just find it too difficult to express their inner feelings. Ordinary emotions, even strong emotions, are hard to break through their hard shell, because both cancer and Scorpio have a hard shell of self-protection, and both of them are very sensitive. This is the real basis for them to understand each other's feelings. However, she must always remind herself that his indifference and indifference may be a mixture of his shyness and unwillingness to admit his inner thoughts. He must also realize that superficial indifference is just a way to protect himself from disappointment. No one wants and pursues love like cancer and Scorpio. What they pursue is not an ordinary love, but all-round love, which is the most important, more critical than dedication and gentleness.

Contrary to his apparent independence, he is an extremist. You can never guess this from his gentle voice, career and personal life strategy (you never thought he was such a person, you'd better believe it). He can sink into the bottomless pit of depression and leap to the peak of ecstasy. When you look at him, you will feel that he is very monotonous, has not experienced many setbacks, and has a calm personality. Don't be fooled by his appearance (this is advice for other constellations-cancer women don't need this advice. Of course, this guy has been training for years. Before he mastered himself skillfully, he often lost his temper like a teenager. You can ask his mother about this.

Cancer women will soon discover that the main shortcomings of Scorpio lovers are paranoia, jealousy and strong desire for control. However, these are well disguised-in the early days of their relationship, he realized her shortcomings: possessive, especially vulnerable to real or imagined harm. Imaginary injury, whether emotional or physical, will be as painful as real injury. All pain comes from psychology, even the so-called physical pain. Therefore, when dealing with the injured feelings of the cancer woman, Scorpio should first realize how real the pain is to her, how scared she is in her heart, and even she can deliberately imagine some behaviors that hurt herself. He will gently explain to her that medical diagnosis and many other experiments have proved that all pain comes from psychology before the body feels pain. So this kind of pain can only be cured through its source-psychological effect and imagination. The subconscious is the preserver of all her childhood nightmares and insecurity. It controls all parts of the body and also controls all people's emotional reactions.

Sexually, Scorpio men's desire for love is much stronger than that of most men in other constellations. And she is more sensitive and romantic than most women in love. The strongest demand from the other side is: emotional security. She needs a clear sign of his caress-put a rose or a bunch of violets on her desk or pillow, or a small pet, just like the one she had when she was a child, with a bow around her neck to surprise her on a bright morning. These little things will deeply affect their sex life.

He wants to know whether her desire to have sex comes from her real desire to be with him, and whether she sometimes hides boredom. You can't hide anything from him anyway, so is it necessary to try? If they can understand each other's unspoken wishes, then their sex is through intuition. But they can all understand that pent-up passion is not passion at all. Only when these two people completely trust each other in everything can they fully express their love through sex. These two people don't need to prove their love to each other outside the bedroom-they rarely ask for such proof and rarely show such hidden desires. When this desire is satisfied, the happiness they find in sex will be the kind of happiness that the world expects.

One more point has been mentioned before, but it is necessary to repeat it here. The two enemies they must conquer are their biggest differences: her inner fear and possessiveness-his burning jealousy and revenge impulse-and their common concern about money. When two people lost their temper, they both went into their quiet caves. This is the worst solution for people in these two constellations. What they need is in-depth conversation and words of dissatisfaction. Burying discontent and resentment in silence will not make them disappear. This method will only turn small contradictions into huge conflicts and eventually destroy their relationship safely. Any damage caused by the 5-9 celestial earthquake is a tragedy, because they often miss each other afterwards.

Cancer women need to receive her favorite gifts on holidays. Scorpio may pretend not to pay attention to festivals, but when the woman he loves rejoices in festivals, his usually expressionless face will become clear. For an instant, she saw the smile on his face, before he learned to control his expression. It was a mysterious smile.

Cancer (male)-Scorpio (female)

If the woman is Scorpio and the man is Cancer, this relationship is the best. However, due to the influence of uterine vibration from May to September, it does not affect the harmony of their relationship. Pluto, who rules her planet, is more powerful than the moon-but his leadership nature is stronger than her stubbornness. His sign indicates leadership-while her sign indicates stubbornness and unwillingness to accept leadership-which is a big difference between the two. Read the last two sentences several times, and you will understand that the problems mentioned above are solved in the final analysis and need mediation. They are all gentle, loyal, enthusiastic and imaginative. They can create all kinds of beautiful things together-passionate love, lovely children and successful careers. "Creation" is a key word. When the fates of Cancer and Scorpio are tied together, they can become an awesome innovation force.

Besides Capricorn and Taurus, Cancer and Scorpio have the possibility of longevity. In real life, people in all constellations have great potential in life. Capricorn people always look younger than their age. Taurus people have proved to us that staying calm and patient can make the body and mind less hurt. When other people's bodies have begun to weaken, their own bodies are still strong. Cancer people show tireless character-Scorpio subconsciously knows that cell regeneration is the secret of longevity. Naturally, if everyone grasps this secret, many new lives will be born.

Cancer men and Scorpio women live much longer than the average person. If they can be more tolerant and live in harmony than other partners, it will be a very lucky thing. At least in the first few years after marriage, they won't get tired of each other.

In addition to the advantages and disadvantages of * * *, there are some different aspects between them, and their differences often become the beginning of conflicts. She is controlled by Pluto and has strong feelings. When she is angry, she has an impulse to retaliate, but he doesn't. If Scorpio's attack makes the cancer shrink in his hard shell for a long time, their happy life may be in some kind of crisis. If another difference between them is integrated into the similarity of their personalities, it may shake their relationship. This difference is beyond her comprehension: his caution, his occasional timidity, and his unwillingness to let fate dominate his life. When their lives are facing challenges and some problems appear, it is difficult for her to understand why he lacks courage. She must remember that all cancer people always take a few steps to the side or back before moving forward, so as to have time to carefully consider all the possibilities. From this point of view, he is a shrewd strategist in both material life and emotional life. Although she is introverted and feminine on the surface, she is not afraid of anything Therefore, his indecision puzzled her and made her uneasy. Similarly, she is very curious about unknown and possibly dangerous things, which also makes him feel scared and uneasy.

Many times, their contradictions can be quickly resolved in the humor of cancer people. Cancer people burst into laughter after anger and caution. Nothing is more surprising and happy than this. She needs his laughter. Humor can heal wounds. It is a bridge between misunderstanding and understanding. Finally, they will gradually understand and respect each other.

But humor has both good and bad sides. The quickest way to destroy the enemy is not through verbal abuse, but through ridicule. Cancer people must be careful not to overuse their sense of humor, otherwise it will sometimes make her feel ridiculous. She didn't want to laugh after hearing his jokes, because she was serious and had a strong sense of self-protection. Excessive or inappropriate jokes will hurt her. When Scorpio is really angry (which doesn't happen often, because after years of hard work, her ability to control her emotions has been quite strong), her cancer husband is lucky to have a hard crab shell, which he can hide in until the storm passes or the volcano stops erupting magma.

He doesn't allow others to make fun of him himself. When his sensitive and tender feelings are hurt, he will fly into a rage and stay angry for days, weeks, months-even years. When he stayed in the crab shell and waited for the emotional wound to heal, even Scorpio's powerful Pluto power could not get him out of the protective shell.

So the problem arises. Although their constellations belong to the harmonious 5-9 compatible mode, there is still a looming big stone between them. They either bypassed it carefully or blew it up in the first place. This question is "secret" Both of them like to keep their secrets, but they can't tolerate each other's secrets they don't know. Can you imagine what this feels like? Think about it. Obviously, someone has to make some concessions.

As far as their personal secrets and * * * secrets are concerned, * * * secrets are no longer secrets between them. Sometimes, he has a secret in his heart, what she wants. Sometimes, she always keeps a certain mystery in front of him, and he wants to know her. If a cancer person thinks that a certain behavior, especially his wife, has a secret he doesn't know, no matter how trivial the secret is, whether it involves their feelings or not, he will stay up all night curious. Scorpio women will also show strong curiosity in the same situation. The difference is that he expresses his anxiety by biting his nails and frowning, while she hides her desire to know each other's secrets. Because she knows how to extract secrets from him with clever questions. This makes him very depressed, because he is always clever and proud of hiding his secrets in front of others. The only thing to persuade them here is not to hide secrets from each other as much as possible, but they can't. So, they must fight.

Cancer men and Scorpio women can successfully complete their sexual life. Their destiny symphony is always so harmonious, and their sex is protected by the rainbow of love-unless their horoscope is disturbed by static electricity, causing some minor conflicts. A child born under the vibration of the house for 5-9 days is the real "crystallization of love". Although this kind of thing may happen to the constellation partner in the fifth-ninth house. When a man and a woman combine, the light of fate summons a star in the universe to be born on the earth. The light of love calls noble souls to the world, and love driven only by sensory charm can also bring some souls to the world. These two kinds of souls must enter the life circle of fate and then grow up gradually.

Cancer and Scorpio usually need to be reminded to fulfill the responsibilities entrusted by this universe. Their perfect and harmonious sex can make a smart and lovely child. They can instinctively combine spirit, emotion and body, which is the secret key to find happiness, and those who separate sexual desire from mind and only pursue carnal desire will never realize this happiness. Cancer and Scorpio's love and empathy make their sex life enviable. This reason also explains why there is a strong attraction between cancer and Scorpio couples. If we are separated, there will be endless pain. When two people quarrel, they can always find a chance to make up afterwards.

Scorpio takes sex very seriously and even regards it as a very sacred thing. However, if she finds that her love is not returned, her heart will fly elsewhere without regrets. This is no less than a warning to the cancer man who treats her as a treasure. Cancer men are sentimental, sometimes picky and sometimes excited. He must banish the conscious and unconscious nightmares in his heart to reflect the true face of a gentle and interesting cancer man, otherwise, he will become more prone to lose his temper until his gentle nature and rich romantic imagination all disappear. At this time, he can only crawl around in frustration-sideways, of course-and climb straight home to find his mother who always understands him. Whether his mother is alive or dead, she will always be the only woman in the world who fully understands him. You might as well ask her sometime. She will tell you everything about his mother. If he was an unfortunate cancer who was adopted as a child, or his mother died when he was a baby, he would dream of his mother, and he imagined that she would understand himself. Cancer people have a strong Oedipus complex.

In Scorpio's view, the dream of cancer is very fragile and needs gentle protection to avoid cruel reality. These two people should really love each other, because others will not respect her like a cancer man, and no one will treat their dreams as gently as a Scorpio woman-except his mother. His mother consented to their marriage. No matter where mom is, she can always give Scorpio's daughter-in-law endless understanding.

Unlike other men, the gentle Cancer man can forgive Scorpio's occasional rage, hurtful words and revenge. Because when he was a child, he learned a lesson that he would never forget. He knows that the opposite of love is not hate-the opposite of love is indifference. In fact, for those people that Scorpio despises, she always despises them as if they don't exist at all. However, no matter how long ago it happened-many years ago or yesterday-she never looked down on those who gave herself or loved her. This is also an inner secret that she keeps well.

People should pay attention to the cold mask she wears on her face, which is just a disguise of her inner pain and suffering. Her feelings may be from love to hate, and then from hate to love-but she never gives him indifference to the man who owns her. Because of this, Cancer Man can take the indifference away from her heart.