Ying Da's two sons, Batu, born in Song Dandan, and Ying Ruyong, born in a second marriage, why is there such a big gap?

1997 1, the day after Song Dandan and Ying Da divorced, his son Batu cried and asked his father to play with him.

Song Dandan can't coax Batu. In desperation, Song Dandan called her ex-husband Ying Da, hoping that Ying Da would take time to visit his son.

On the other hand, Ying Da married his new wife Liang Huanshan and gave birth to a second son, named Ying Ruyong.

Looking at the young son's beloved appearance, Ying Da showed a fatherly smile on his face, turned around and left his ex-wife Song Dandan's words behind him.

What caused Ying Da to be so indifferent to his ex-wife Song Dandan?

Speaking of Ying Da, many young viewers may not know him very well.

Older people will know how fierce Ying Da was in those days.

Ying Da Manchu, in retrospect, the Yingshi family was a native of Zhenghuang Banner in the late Qing Dynasty, a standard aristocrat.

Of course, birth doesn't mean anything, it's Ying Da's gift. He is versatile and knowledgeable, and has multiple identities such as director, planner, screenwriter and producer.

The program he is responsible for is the signboard of interview programs and the guarantee of ratings. His series I Love My Family, Northeast People and Sister Ma have become classics.

Ying Da's ex-wife Song Dandan is a nail in the coffin of the Spring Festival Evening. She has brought countless laughter to the audience at the Spring Festival Gala for many years, and is a famous comedian in China.

Without the Spring Festival Gala in Song Dandan, there seems to be less laughter.

Both Ying Da and Song Dandan have successful careers, but their feelings are full of twists and turns. When we are together, we are all people who make mistakes and lose their marriage.

It stands to reason that such two people will cherish their hard-won marriage more and more, but after eight years, they suddenly divorced.

Even the paparazzi can't smell it. The signs of divorce are inextricably linked.

Parents divorced, children's problems, in front of the two.

At that time, Song Dandan had seen her husband and Liang Huan flirting with each other and worried that her son Batu would have a hard time in the future, so she won Batu's custody of her.

Sure enough, the newly divorced Ying Da and Liang Huan got married, and there is no doubt that they have children of their own.

When Batu cried and asked Song Dandan why his father didn't come to see him, Ying Da was busy changing diapers and making milk powder for his half-brother, Ying Ruyong.

Arguably, even after the divorce, Ying Da should have the obligation to visit Batu and occasionally take time to spend with Batu. However, Ying Da didn't, but simply ignored it.

What caused Ying Da to be so cruel to his eldest son Batu?

Perhaps this can be traced back to the reason why Ying Da and Song Dandan divorced.

At that time, two people were very famous, one was humorous and the other was cheerful. Everyone thought it was a match made in heaven.

Everything changed until Ying Da met Liang Huan.

Song Dandan's background is not bad. She was protected and pampered by her brother and sister since childhood, and lived like a little princess when she was a child.

When she realized that her husband was wrong, she couldn't stand the injustice and decided to file for divorce.

Ying Da's father is a traditional man. He thinks that the quarrel between husband and wife will be the end of his life, so he advises Song Dandan not to divorce his son.

Song Dandan means that wind is the character of rain. Now that you have made up your mind to divorce, of course you want to divorce.

So, she happily told Ying Da directly that I was having an affair and let's get a divorce.

After hearing this, Ada agreed with himself, and the two divorced because of the war. Song Dandan thought Ying Da would feel guilty, but Ying Da's performance made Song Dandan desperate.

After marriage, Ying Da not only did not show any nostalgia for this marriage. Besides, I want to have a flash marriage with Liang Huan.

When asked by the media why he didn't visit Batu, he said that since he was divorced, he would cut off all contact.

Unfortunately, Batu was cut off by his father's cruelty.

Without the love and care of his biological father, Song Dandan took care of Batu in every way to compensate him.

Where Song Dandan is, Batu is.

On the other hand, Batu's half-brother should be like an ordinary person, but his life is completely different.

Ying Ruyong was born with high hopes from Yingda, and was concerned and distressed by Yingda.

Ying Ruyong liked skating when he was 3 years old, so Ying Da sent him to learn skating. When Ying Ruyong grew up, Yingda paid a lot of money to send him to play ice hockey.

Others say that the palms of the hands are full of meat. In Ying Da, they are not.

From 1998 to 2007, almost 10 years passed.

One is Batu who grew up in a reorganized family, and the other is Ying Ruyong who grew up in a complete family. Their growth gap is gradually widening.

In April 2007, Ying Ruyong's Tiger Team won the world ice hockey championship of the same age group.

Ying Ruyong, who was only 9 years old, scored a key goal in the final and became the MVP of that competition.

Ying Ruyong's excellent ice hockey skills let Chinese people see the hope of our ice hockey.

His brother Batu, however, still lives in the strange circle of excessive media consumption. As a result of inheriting Ying Da's genes, Batu began to gain weight in adolescence.

Unscrupulous media pay too much attention to Batu's image, which makes people's impression of Batu stay in the aura of Star II.

Song Dandan's doting and over-caring, as well as his biological father's ruthless indifference.

When Batu grew up, although he appeared in several TV series, he was always in a tepid state because of his ordinary and thin image, and even called "mediocre generation".

Ying Ruyong is bigger than Batu small 8. Under the conscientious education of Ying Da, he won the attention of the masses with amazing talent at an early age.

Compared with his brother's unhappy growing environment, Ying Ruyong got the attention of Yingda from birth. During his growth, his biological parents accompanied him and gave him a good environment and resources.

For example, the equipment of ice hockey and even the daily exercise expenses of ice hockey are not small expenses in China, where ice hockey is not the main sport.

Over the years, Yingda not only supported Ying Ruyong financially, but also personally tutored him and accompanied him to practice.

At any time, Ying Ruyong is presented to others as a sunny and confident big boy; And Batu, of course, also likes to laugh like Ying Da.

However, it is a kind of vicissitudes and understanding beyond peers.

As for the younger son, Ying Da also began to "brag" in front of the media, but he was indifferent to the present situation of his eldest son, Batu.

In 2007, when Song Dandan revealed the truth about his divorce from her ex-husband Ying Da in his new autobiography, Ying Da, who became angry from embarrassment, called him "exhibitionist" and "mentally ill".

After about five years, 20 1 1 year, Song Dandan denounced Ying Da as an incompetent father, who worked as a nanny, driver and coach for Ying Ruyong, but he became a stranger to Batu from 14 year.

Weibo and Song Dandan have attracted the attention and discussion of netizens.

Some people support Ying Da's approach, saying that since everyone has their own family, they should not disturb each other; He also said that although he was divorced, he had a lot of obligations and responsibilities about his children.

From Song Dandan's self-report, Batu is looking forward to seeing Ying Da and Ying Da play with me.

As his biological father, Ying Da not only failed to satisfy Batu's wishes, but also failed to visit him, and even refused to give Batu his contact information.

What a cruel thing it was for Batu, who was a child at that time!

The lack of biological father in growing up, even if the stepfather fills the position later, can hardly make up for the scar in the young Batu's heart; Song Dandan's excessive compensation and attention also make it difficult for Batu to develop himself and truly live high.

Ying Ruyong is luckier than Batu. He is accompanied by his biological parents, a healthy and sound family environment and superior resources. From the day he was born, he was sure to win at the starting line.

In contrast, Batu became the innocent "victim" of the failed marriage between Ying Da and Song Dandan.

Therefore, there are no children who don't expect their fathers to love their mothers, and there are no children who don't expect their parents to accompany them. Even if you divorce, you should not use divorce as an excuse to fail to fulfill your obligations and responsibilities to your children.

It can be seen that the relationship between parents and the family atmosphere deeply affects the future development of children.