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Cold war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law As a husband, how can I mediate?

In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because the husband plays the role of mediator, and because you are the closer of the two of them, they will listen to you more. A good husband can not only ease the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but even reconcile them. The following is what a man should do when he has a mother-in-law relationship.

1, my daughter-in-law was angry with me, so I asked her to change it at my mother's place!

When the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law occurs, the wrong thing to do is to say to his wife, "She is not right, she is also my mother, so please bear with me." Such a husband doesn't know how to hurt his wife. The correct way is to tell your wife that you love her, calm her down, and then deal with things in different categories. If it is really the parents' fault, remind them politely and kindly.

2. From the wedding day, take the initiative to "wean" yourself!

Men, please remember that from the day of your wedding, you are not only your parents' precious son, but also your wife's dependence, so you should consider your wife's feelings in everything you do. Mom may be used to bossing around, but my wife is new here and needs your careful care, not being a slave nanny.

3. The opportunity to be a good person is for the wife.

Some men always like to secretly give money to their parents and brothers and sisters, but women will be angry when they know it, because this kind of behavior not only disrespects themselves, but also makes their in-laws misunderstand themselves. Therefore, as long as it is within the scope of obligation, please be generous in front of your wife, let your parents know that your wife is unified, and remember your wife's kindness. In addition, when buying good things for parents, you can actually tell your parents that your daughter-in-law bought them, which can please your parents.