The bed at the end of the bed is noisy! The communication art of quarreling between the twelve constellations

If you get too close, even your teeth will bite your tongue. What's more, there must be a lot of ideas to communicate between lovers and people from two different families. When you are in a bad mood or bad astrology, it is inevitable that the more you communicate, the more excited you will be, and you will quarrel.

Actually, it doesn't matter if you quarrel. As the predecessors said, the noisier the relationship, the better. Therefore, mastering the principle of "quarreling is also a kind of communication" is also a way to care for each other when solving problems. The biggest fear is that the shaky feelings will be more worn out, and I am afraid that I will not be happy if I win.

Therefore, it is very important to know the other person's tolerance, and to master how noisy it is, I believe that we can satisfy the desire to communicate without hurting our true feelings.

First, the basic palace quarrel (goat, cancer, Libra, Capricorn): take the next step according to the situation.

In fact, quarreling with lovers makes the basic palace feel very hurt and "sorry" because they think they love peace, but they can only accompany each other to the end because "you push forward again and again". And once he gets angry, there is no word "lose" in his dictionary. If he wants to fight, he just wants to "win" and fight you directly. As you can imagine, this is a fierce battle.

Basic palaces generally don't like to use noisy ones, which is irrational and not evolutionary enough. Everything better be reasonable. The only way to make peace is to "bow first", and there is no other way. Remember the basic palace "eat soft but not hard" and want to fight him? Looks like you froze to death first.

However, when he loves you more than you, the mentality of compromise comes, and even your unreasonable behavior is considered a concession. Who told him to love you?

But be careful, his patience will not be infinite, and he will not forget the grievances he has suffered. With the unpleasant memories of swallowing, his feelings will become more and more cold and distant, because you are forcing him to protect himself with "cold treatment".

Therefore, it is very likely that one day without warning, after "comprehensive mental preparation", the basic palace will "accept your breakup proposal" without nostalgia and seems to be not sad at all, because the feelings have faded and there is no reason to continue.

The most effective way to communicate is "You are more rational than him". When you are calm and reasonable, he will carefully examine every word you say, and the effect will be better.

Second, the fixed palace quarrel (Taurus, lion, Scorpio, water bottle): don't give up before you make it clear.

Since arguing means "arguing meaningfully", don't just say half, but make it clear, so just spit out your grievances and tell the worst truth.

Moreover, the regular imperial secretary has always had a bad temper, and it is easy to appear "frustrated" when he is angry. In addition, she is magnificent and upright, and is regarded as an uncontrollable bomb just around the corner.

And when you lose your mind, you can say the worst things or the most cruel things. Words under the bridge, such as "not even as good as my predecessor" or "I never loved you after the divorce", are so angry that I just want to win the other side and shock others now, and completely forget to consider the consequences. I usually regret it immediately after I finish it. I know I have a bad attitude, but I also regret it. I have to pretend that I don't care, and the whole thing falls into a vicious circle.

Set the most angry partner in the palace and use shrimp as an excuse to tease yourself. When encountering this extreme challenge, even if he wants to calm down, he will unconsciously become "forced", giving people a feeling of bullying and being afraid of hard work, and even worse, it will turn into a physical conflict. Dinggong is serious about everything because he cares and wants you to be "serious".

Usually, the palace will soon restore calm, knowing that it is not easy to speak, and I am afraid of driving my lover away and getting into trouble. In fact, a regular imperial secretary is often "hard-spoken but soft-hearted". If you give him a step at this time, he will often be very moved and think that you are really the fastest match with him in the world.

Third, changes in palace fights (Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius, Pisces): small things can be noisy and patient.

Biangong is very reluctant to confront conflicts, because conflicts often "stimulate negative energy" and trigger "the heart that wants to compete with you". If you divide, I will divide. Not only will you divide more, but your attitude will be worse than yours. If you lie, I will be more ridiculous than you. If you fall into such a negative energy hell, wouldn't life be too miserable?

You know, to change the imperial secretary's intelligence, he won't necessarily lose you, but he will lose both sides, so he would rather play an angel with infinite patience than become a demon.

Angels often "deceive themselves", deceiving themselves to say "it's not like this" and "no problem, don't think so much", and helping each other to deceive their relatives and friends and say "he is very kind to me". All patience is to "see if things will automatically improve", which is an ostrich mentality.

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However, changing palaces is not just the extreme of angels and demons. They will also "complain", but complaints often turn into broken thoughts. They are picky about small things and don't like anything. It seems that this is the interest of life. They argue endlessly every day and enjoy it.

But when it comes to the great event of struggle, there is a tendency to escape. If you can handle it a day later, don't face it. You also advise others that "losing is taking advantage". After all, quarreling must be "revealed" and face the reality. On the contrary, losing beauty will also make you lose patience. Therefore, it is worth observing whether the changeable constellation really loves tolerance or is afraid of things.