Children who are often scolded by their parents often have these personality weaknesses. Let's see if you have it.

With the implementation of nine-year compulsory education in China, the national quality has made a qualitative leap, and more and more parents realize the importance of children's education. Today, there are very few parents who still hold the view of "cudgel out talents", but news of parents' violence against their children is still common.

What will a child who is often scolded by his parents become when he grows up? Will you become a talent as the saying goes?

According to the author's case analysis, children who have been abused by their parents since childhood have the following characteristics:

Because of being scolded by parents, people will fall into a state of self-blame, think that they are stupid and can't do anything well, and it is even harder to do a good job if they are timid, thus forming a vicious circle and becoming more and more inferior and cowardly. If you don't do well in school, you can't work in society. You have to act according to others' faces for fear of being scolded for doing something wrong.

Parents are the closest people to their children, and even the closest people often yell at themselves, without encouragement, only scolding. How can we build a sense of security? To a lesser extent, children will gradually lose their trust and attachment to their families and will be extremely rebellious in adolescence. If the degree is heavy, the psychology is very fragile, and it will collapse at one blow, leading to diseases such as paranoia and schizophrenia.

If a child grows up in such a yelling family environment and is influenced by his parents, he will also become grumpy and can't calm down when solving things. When getting along with friends, if you encounter unhappy things, you will also solve them in this way and keep your friends away from him. In the long run, his communication skills will also have problems.

It is their nature for children to be naughty, but parents should spend more patience to educate them. If they just shout, it will only backfire. Children's education is a university question. Only when parents spend more time exploring and groping can children give their parents a better tomorrow.

Some people use childhood to cure their whole lives, while others use their whole lives to cure their childhood. Tragic childhood and happy and encouraging childhood have great influence on children's life.