Do you want to chat with the girl you like every day?

With a girl, do you want to talk to her every day?

Finally, how to talk about it depends on the specific analysis of specific problems, different stages and different objects.

1. From the stage.

First acquaintance: (1~5 days).

When I first met her, I would occasionally have a brief talk with her, or I would usually say good morning and good night.

Talking to her every day (especially the one who has nothing to say) will overexpose the sense of demand and cause girls' defensive psychology.

Only by stepping out of the threshold of strangers and slowly eliminating strangeness can we promote relations.

Mentality is very important, treat her as a friend, not the object you want to pursue.

Familiarity: (10~ 15 days).

You can speak slowly when you are familiar with it. There is no need to quantify the time, take chatting as an easy thing, and chat for a while if you are speculating.

If you just say hello and chat every day, girls will find you extremely boring.

So before you chat with her, you should find out the topics she is interested in, such as beauty, constellations, stars and so on. You can also show yourself from the side and let girls know your bright spot.

In short, make her curious about you and inspire her emotions.

Ambiguous: (about 30 days).

Talk to her for a week every day, and one or two days you can suddenly stop looking for her, and girls who are interested in you will take the initiative to come to you.

You can take this opportunity to judge how much she likes you. At this stage, you can also find her at night. Night is the most emotional and fragile moment for people, and girls are the most vulnerable at this time.

When unhappy things happen during the day, she will want to find someone to share them with, and your appearance just fills the vacancy in her heart.

Of course, the night is also the most suitable time for ambiguity and flirting, and it is effective to say something ambiguous.

2. From the perspective of girls themselves.

First of all, every girl has a different personality, some like chatting and some don't. From her response to you, everyone can see that those girls who are busy with work and have very independent personalities should not always talk to her.

For those girls who are clingy and insecure, you can talk to her more. She just needs a man to accompany her. Especially when she has problems or emotional ups and downs, you should give her more feedback.

Secondly, chatting depends on her reaction to you. If every time you try to find a topic, she always replies "mm-hmm" and doesn't reply for hours.

Who can stop looking at their mobile phones for more than an hour? Then we don't have to worry. We should leave when it's time to go.

Another thing to note is that every time you chat, you don't have to have boys take the initiative. Girls who are interested in you will naturally come to you. Girls who don't like you will take the initiative again and again.

Don't chase girls if they have the following performances:

1. I chased you for a long time, but I didn't respond to you. Give yourself a deadline, and if you don't respond, give up.

We talked for a long time, but she refused the invitation and said goodbye to her for more than three times.

You are one of her many spare tires, and she has an affair with many people. There are too many such girls, so we should learn to distinguish them.

4. Accept all your efforts, but don't accept you, don't refuse to accept, typical love rat.

It's none of your business. Never take the initiative. It's better to have you than not to have you. Don't lose yourself when chasing girls. In fact, you are not bad, and she is not that good. Sometimes you can meet someone who is more suitable for you if you stop in time.

Sometimes you are not chasing girls, but chasing your own obsession.