Obviously, two people live together. Why do I always feel helpless and fighting alone?

Let's take a look at this netizen's painful statement: no cheating, no gambling, no domestic violence. I have called four or five times in thirty years. ) outsiders look good. Only I feel so sad and wronged. I'm never easy to talk to. When you open your mouth, you shout and never communicate. He can do whatever he wants. He has never been cared for, taken care of, and never knows what thoughtfulness means. When you are sick, you have to get up and wait on him to eat and drink well. Now, whether I am driving or going to the toilet, I am playing mobile mahjong with five tubes and two articles. After nearly 30 years of marriage, I feel that I haven't said more than 100 sentences. Now I'm almost 50 years old, and I don't have the courage to divorce. The children haven't arranged yet, so I have to make do with it.

Every word pokes the heart, and every word is bloody and tearful.

Probably many people will see their life from this passage. Isn't that a true portrayal of their daily life? Nobody hurts, nobody loves, nobody understands. Obviously, two people live together, but they always feel helpless and always fight alone. The other party is not at all. He has become an army and is deployed all day. I have to deal with daily necessities, customers' faces, children's food and drink.

Everything that the other half should bear falls on his shoulders. The most hateful thing is that the other party has no understanding and gratitude for this. The two men are in sharp contrast. You are exhausted, but the other half is lazy.

I was very tired, but no one told me and no one understood. Even if he wants a divorce, he can't find a seemingly suitable reason. Others will persuade him that he has not made any mistakes in principle. You have to smile bitterly and continue to grope alone.

Countless sorrows have accumulated, making my life heavier and heavier day by day. But after many years, the other party feels that all this you have undertaken is taken for granted. If one day you complain, then complain. Instead, he will scold you, and the two of them will have a big fight about it. The more I think about it, the angrier I get, the more I feel worthless, but there is nowhere to talk and complain. You can only enlighten yourself, dry your tears and move on with your weight.

Obviously, it is the day of two people, but it always makes people feel that they are fighting alone. It is obviously the work of two people, and both of them are carried by one person. Those imbalances in their hearts are destined to be deeper than the sea.

Winnie Sinsang: The pain without love will be in the deepest part of my soul day and night.

Not being hurt, not being loved, not being understood, not being considerate, those sad feelings really torment people day and night. When I am really tired, I want to put everything behind me and say goodbye to each other. I have thought about the meaning of my marriage countless times. Although there is no cheating, no domestic violence, no gambling, no alcoholism, no drug abuse, but my life is not easy.

The saddest thing is that I feel very tired and painful, but I don't know how to end it. It's just a day-to-day burden, a day-to-day endurance and a day-to-day consumption. Over time, it becomes a habit. People sometimes live by habit, and once they leave this habit, they will be extremely uncomfortable.

Whenever I don't understand, I will persuade myself to leave, but I will comfort myself. Oh, forget it, I'm used to it, and I can only live like this.

The chicken soup said, I am most afraid of you doing nothing all day, but also comforting yourself to be ordinary and valuable. In the same way, just persuade yourself to get used to it when you are sad every day.

The problem is that this habit is negative, and one more day of negative habits means one more day of harm. After a long time, I became a frog in warm water, thinking that although warm water made me uncomfortable, it would not burn me to death, and the final result was that I was really burned to death.

When sadness becomes a habit, it becomes paralyzed. Later, I was unable to jump out and change this habit. I can only live a sad life like this.