It is important to have your own rules of survival in the workplace. If not, what should I do?

There is an old saying: "If you don't keep a secret, you will lose your position. If you don't keep a secret, you will lose your virginity." In other words, it is extremely important for anyone (regardless of position) to keep secrets. As a leader, if he doesn't know how to keep secrets, he will be caught by people with ulterior motives and his dignity will be swept away; As a subordinate, if you don't know how to keep secrets, you will be hit by your competitors and your future will be ruined. So how on earth can you keep a secret? Smart strategists must be alert to the following three situations!

1. Expressed in language.

As the saying goes: "If you talk too much, you will lose!" If a person is outspoken, he will inevitably reveal too much information, including some sensitive contents. Once it is mastered by someone with ulterior motives, it will be used to make materials against him. Therefore, for the sake of your future, you should know how to control your mouth and beware of your secrets "leaking into the language". How to do this? The most important thing is to determine the scope of the discussion. Why do men always like to talk about some national affairs together? That's because talking about these contents is not very sensitive and will not touch personal interests.

Facial venting

Knowing that silence is golden is only the first step to protect yourself. For some opponents who know the art of "beating about the bush", it is not enough to control their mouths, but also to guard against "beating their faces and venting". As the saying goes, "the eyes are the windows to the soul". An old strategist can peek into our hearts and spy on our secrets through these two windows. Therefore, only by "Taishan collapses in front, the color remains the same" can we confuse each other and calm our place.

Let go of your posture.

Trinity of body and mind. Some small moves we make inadvertently may also betray ourselves. Therefore, a truly powerful person always walks like the wind, sits like a clock, and lifts his weight easily when he shows his impeccable appearance to the outside world. Because only in this way can the opponent retreat and lose the heart of coveting. On the contrary, once our weakness is "exposed", it will not only lead to the crazy counterattack of competitors, but also attract third-party forces to fish in troubled waters.

Sun Tzu's Art of War emphasizes: "Success lies in secrecy, and failure lies in venting." "The matter of the three armies is finally a secret." As long as we can form the habit of keeping our mouths shut, we will naturally gain the trust of leaders and subordinates, thus avoiding many accidents!