This is the cruelest way to save her husband when his wife has an affair.

In this social development where people's hearts are floating and social atmosphere is declining, affair has already become a big killer in marriage life. It is almost an indispensable method for married women to deal with her husband's cheating and her wife's cheating to save her husband. With the development of society, the richness of women's knowledge and the broadening of their horizons, many women have gradually understood that the traditional method of "crying twice and hanging up three times" is useless in dealing with men's affairs, which can only make one thing worse and worse.

However, although many women understand those truths, they will still panic when they learn that their husbands are cheating, and they will unconsciously use this trick. In fact, this is also very helpless. After all, most women are more rational and pay more attention to family and marriage. In this case, there are embarrassing reasons. But that method, apart from fully explaining the disadvantages of women and screwing things up, is too difficult to have other practical effects. In addition to causing trouble, there are also some women who choose to compromise for their children and families. In fact, the woman who does this is deceiving her husband who is changing direction to some extent. Even if they are heartbroken for a better family, it is difficult to save their marriage. In the end, it is usually a sad result.

And some extreme women may choose to hurt each other, that is, if he has an affair, then I will have fun. Who are you afraid of? In fact, this method is also not desirable. Women are different from men. Even though today's social development has long been very open to the outside world, it is popular for women, or second life. Once you assume the popularity of' green tea bitch', whether you divorce or start a new life, it will be very harmful to your daily life in the future. In the case of husband's infidelity, the best way is to do it or do it by hook or by crook. As the saying goes, long pain is better than short pain. It's better to make a decision before it's too late to have an affair.

Many women may not understand that in the case of extramarital affairs, the fiercest move is cold violence. To put it bluntly, cold violence is a straightforward attitude, letting the other party know that you already know that he is having an affair, but there is no need to make a statement immediately, forcing the other party to divorce or make a choice, and ignoring the other party. Just like the name of a famous life novel "Money without money, two fried dough sticks and an egg" in western countries, you don't have to take the derailed husband too seriously. Maybe you once loved your husband very much, but later the other party chose an affair, which shows that he has defected from his marriage and missed this love. A man like that is not worth all your investment for him, at least until he chooses to turn back. In this case, then _ whether you have loved each other before or not, you must learn to let go of your love for each other and treat each other as angry for the time being. Whether he is at home or not, you should live alone. When the other party suffers from indifference or even neglect, he will make it clear that it is impossible to idealize the situation that the colorful flags are fluttering outside and the red-flag cars are not standing at home. In this case, he will make an accurate decision, whether to choose his own home or to give up everything in sight and get along with a third party. But to do this, you usually have to be alone, both financially and emotionally. If on the one hand, nothing can be done, and it is difficult to solve the dependence on the lover, then _ cold violence is difficult to complete. Therefore, in the case of her husband's infidelity, the lady must start her own development as soon as possible, because the person who once sheltered you from the wind and rain has changed her mind, and everything depends on you.

Giving up emotional dependence makes no difference in seven lonely days. It's not that men can't live. If you find a temporary job, so that you can have a relatively stable fixed income, then, no matter whether the other party chooses to divorce or choose to go back, you can live well. Naturally, the complications of this vicious move are also very serious, which can easily lead to divorce. Therefore, before making such a decision, we must think carefully, at the same time effectively solve the problems of assets and children, and prepare for divorce in advance. You don't have to wait for something to happen to realize that you are prepared in advance and completely caught off guard. Generally speaking, if a wife cheats, she must save her husband, which is suitable for a tough and independent woman. It is appropriate to save the marriage if you make all preparations in advance for your independent daily life, or try to choose other ways.