Personality is as heavy as a mountain, and conscience is as expensive as gold.

In life, you must have a good personality, so that people are willing to associate with you and you can achieve something. The so-called character is as heavy as a mountain

Living between heaven and earth, we have to keep our conscience. Only in this way can we be worthy of heaven and earth and live in this world without worrying about retribution in the dark. As the saying goes, conscience is more precious than gold.

Character is as heavy as a mountain, that is, to cultivate good character.

Not selfish.

A young man invited his partner to dinner, accompanied by his father.

When a partner is eating, he keeps rummaging through the dishes he likes, regardless of other people's feelings.

After dinner, the boy's father said to the boy, Your partner is unreliable. When you see him eating, he always rummages through the food bowl for what he wants. Obviously, he is selfish. Be careful when you cooperate with him in the future.

At first, the young man thought that his father thought too much and didn't care.

Then the partner really ran away with the money.

Such a selfish person, once others suffer, will not seek your cooperation next time. If you gain for a while, you may lose the future.

mercy

If a person is not kind and fierce about everything, he will naturally not be likable.

A company boss went to Africa to talk business with another boss.

During the dinner, they heard that monkey brain juice is very nourishing.

So someone brought a monkey.

The boss swung a hammer at the monkey's head and then drank the monkey's brain juice from a bowl.

The boss then cut off the cooperation with the boss.

He said: people who are so cruel to monkeys will certainly not be much better to people.

So, improve your character and be a kind person.

Not greedy and cheap.

A college student applies for a job, passes the customs, and officially joins the job.

The company held a party where the old people welcomed the new people.

The boss of the company asked him to deal with this matter.

The company bought some China cigarettes, which were distributed by the college student to those who like smoking.

Finally, there was more than one cigarette left, but he didn't return it to the company, but put it in his pocket privately.

The boss of the company found out this detail and fired the college student the next day.

So don't get into the habit of being greedy and cheap.

Often greedy and cheap will suffer big losses.

Be polite to others, learn to deny yourself and not be self-centered.

Some people like to be self-centered, but they don't know how to treat others with self-denial and courtesy, and their personalities are bound to be no better.

A company recruited two college students from Sichuan.

One day, the boss of the company took these two college students to meet some northern guests.

Because northern guests don't eat spicy food, the boss of the company didn't order spicy food either.

The two college students are unhappy: this dish is not spicy at all. How to eat?

The boss had no choice but to order two spicy dishes.

So two college students brought both dishes to themselves and said while eating: Only these two dishes are delicious.

Regardless of the guest's opinion.

After returning to the company, the company boss fired the two Sichuan college students.

When dealing with people, you must think more about the feelings of others, not just yourself, so that your character will be low.

Help others.

If you can always help others when they need help, like timely rain, then your personality charm will not be less than this.

For example, Lei Feng helped others everywhere in his life and won the love and praise of people all over the country and even the world.

But help others and don't listen to others.

You should be kind, but also angular.

A female college student just entered the company, and in order to get on well with her colleagues, she took the initiative to help some old employees do some chores.

So the old employees regarded her as a maid who ordered food, and they asked her for anything.

She then decided to change this situation.

On this day, an old employee threw a stack of materials to a female college student and said, give me a tidy up.

The female college student went on to say: I still have forms to do, sorry, I can't help you.

Female college students declined him, not only didn't get his hatred, but won his respect.

In the future, the old employees in the company will no longer treat her as a maid.

Of course, there are many personalities, such as honesty, patriotism and professionalism.

I won't go into details here.

Conscience is more precious than gold, so we should not be ignorant of our own conscience.

Like borrowing money.

As the saying goes, it is not difficult to borrow again if you borrow and pay back.

However, some people ask grandpa to tell grandma when they borrow money, which is more intimate than anyone else, but they are like enemies when they pay back the money.

Someone has said such a thing.

One of his friends borrowed money from him, and he replied, to tell the truth, I do have money, but I can't lend it to you.

Because I don't want to lose your friendship.

I once lent money to some old classmates and friends, but when I paid back the money, we became enemies.

My friend listened to his statement and expressed his understanding.

Therefore, it is actually a heartless performance to borrow money and not pay it back.

If a person borrows money, he can not pay it back for the time being, but there must be a sentence that shows that he has not forgotten the fact that he owes money.

Another example is bite the hand that feeds you.

Like a story that everyone should have heard.

An old woman fell down on the road, and a kind-hearted man took her to the hospital.

As a result, the old lady insisted that it was a kind person who hit her.

It is not clear whether the old woman speaks with unconscionable conscience.

Coincidentally, another old man fell to the ground recently, and was taken to the hospital by a young man and his children, and helped him pay the medical expenses in advance.

As a result, the old man insisted that the young man pushed him down and said that he would never refund the remaining 5,000 yuan of medical expenses (2,000 yuan was refunded).

Later, her daughter came and watched the monitoring before returning the rest of the medical expenses to the young people, thanking them.

There is such a story in "Nine Colors Deer".

Jiuse deer saw a drowning man. It tried to save him, but it was afraid to show the cloven foot.

After much deliberation, I finally saved the man.

The man asked how to thank him.

Nine-color deer said, you're welcome, as long as you don't tell him.

The queen heard that the clothes made of nine-color deer skin were exquisite, so she put up a reward for catching nine-color deer.

The drowning man couldn't stand the temptation of heavy money, so he sold the nine-color deer and took people to hunt it.

Jiuse deer was in great pain, so he talked to the king and explained everything.

The king then ordered no one to hurt the nine-color deer.

However, the drowning man was covered with sores and stinks because of his words.

Although this is a story, many people in our world have done immoral things and suffered retribution. For example, Qin Gui, who slandered Yue Fei, was tortured to death in his later years.

Personality is as heavy as a mountain, and conscience is as expensive as gold.

May each of us be a man of backbone and not do anything immoral.