How to save Libra without love

First, Libra is hot outside and cold inside.

From the professional recovery and constellation analysis, Libra. Recovery is generally divided into several stages: just breaking up (disconnection period), reconnection period, icebreaking period, ignorance period and recombination period. The difficulty of recovery generally lies in the first three periods, especially the emotional icebreaking period. However, in recent years, it has been found that most girls who save Libra are actually in the ignorant period. Libra is too good at camouflage. Libra is the only sign in the zodiac without a "heart". Libra loves peace, and will not divorce her predecessor after breaking up. Unlike many other constellations, they can't be friends because they are deleted after breaking up. We can still be friends, so we think the chances of recovery are high.

To save Libra's ex-husband, you can be ambiguous for half a year after breaking up, but never get back together. It is not difficult to break the ice, be friends, and be ambiguous. What is difficult is to walk into his heart.

Many people misunderstand Libra, thinking that Libra is passionate, but it is actually just a mask. Some constellations are cold outside and hot inside, others are cold outside and hot inside, and Libra is cold outside and hot inside. It is a constellation that seems to be enthusiastic, but it is really indifferent after breaking up. The scale just has no heart.

Second, Libra's responsibility

Although many people say that Libra is irresponsible, Libra often keeps in touch with you with a sense of responsibility after breaking up.

Many people find that "selling bad" after breaking up is very useful for Libra, but that's because Libra generally doesn't want to hurt others (so it's considered to be emotionally indecisive). He thinks it's his responsibility to abandon you and make you so sad, so he will still ignore you, and it's easy to add friends back after deleting it, but he is unhappy and doesn't like it, just out of morality and responsibility.

I'm sorry to sell you, but I'm also responsible. I can't bear to abandon you, so I can't hurt you. I'd better add you back. But I really don't like you. I don't want to go back if you come to me again. Basically, I am out of a sense of responsibility. On the one hand, I strengthen my sense of responsibility and act against my will. On the other hand, I will hate each other because I go against my heart. "But I'd better go home" and "Don't cry" are the original words of the star Libra. Many people feel hopeful and have opportunities when the other party replies, but many times they just want to keep peace out of Libra's instinctive friendliness. I just can't bear to part with it, but there is no love in it. On the contrary, because of your entanglement, my heart will become more and more indifferent.

Third, the main points of recovery:

1. Create a relaxed atmosphere

Entanglement, how to recover? First of all, don't let them feel trouble and pain, and create a relaxed feeling in getting along. You can keep in touch with him. In most cases, you don't have to disconnect. But when he does not want to go back, he does not have to come back to you; Looking for him when you are in trouble or sad can make him not have to promise you, don't put pressure on him, and allow him to refuse you occasionally. This will make Libra feel good. Because Libra's self-abuse lies in caring too much about other people's feelings, it will inevitably leave a pain for yourself to bear. It doesn't matter if he doesn't call you back. You have to give him this feeling. You can tell him how much he cares about his feelings, and don't be nice to you for fear of hurting you or being unhappy.

Libra is a sign that eats soft and does not eat hard. You can't force him. Don't give them the feeling that "you must" ... or I will ... ",but give them the feeling that" I just ... you don't have to ... ".

Experience it. Libra is like this. If you ask for less, they can't help but give more. If you ask for more, they will get bored. Generally speaking, Libra is very enthusiastic about them. In fact, what they need is the goodwill and enthusiasm of others. Libra men with high quality around them will end up with gentle, kind and emotionally stable girls.

2. Take the initiative to establish contact

Restrain yourself, don't lose your temper, don't fight. Libra is actually a very passive constellation. Enthusiasm is superficial, just don't want people to feel uncomfortable. Libra is not the active person you think. You need to take the initiative to save Libra. Don't think that girls take the initiative to take advantage. As long as you don't seek reunification, you won't be humble. There is always the illusion that Libra is very active, but you will find that Libra will not take the initiative for too long, because taking the initiative for too long will feel "unbalanced".

It is often heard that this Libra man is very enthusiastic about her when chasing him, ordering takeout and giving gifts. Every day he kept saying good morning and good night, and after a few months he gave her the cold shoulder. When she quarreled, he broke up sadly and asked them if they didn't cherish it when they got it. Actually, you are wrong. Libra didn't give up because he was chasing you. If he chases you for a long time and doesn't respond to you, he won't chase you again. They know how to stop loss in time in love, and they all say that Libra is a mirror, and men and women are no exception. You are good to him, and he will be good to you.

But if you want him to be enthusiastic about you and always accommodate you, and you don't give him the same good experience, then he can't always like you; If you give him too much, he will feel pressured, unable to give you the same, unbalanced and pressured to break up. The reason why many people quarrel with Libra is that they are too passionate and romantic when they pursue you at first, and over time they will feel that the closer they get, the lower the temperature will be.

So you will have a gap and unwillingness, and you will feel more and more insecure. The more you push him, the tighter he is, or the cold war. Libra, if you push him, he will hide. If you are cold, he will be cold. Strong is strong, soft is first. If you love to lose your temper, Libra with good temper will accommodate you at first, but after a long time or too much, you will want to stay away from you. Usually you ignore him and he ignores you. Libra is never afraid of anyone in the Cold War, but they don't hold grudges, so there is really no chance to recover.

3. Attract him with freshness

It is important to restore the freshness of Libra. After breaking up, you have to change a lot from appearance to heart. If anyone in the twelve constellations has the strongest desire for control, it must be Libra. Although many times they don't admit it themselves, on the surface, it's ok enough. But this "can" means that you can get along and know each other, but it doesn't mean that you like it. Many Libras will like it, and it is the best one of the opposite sex they know.

Generally, boys who really care about each other's looks will not admit that they are together just because you look good. Boys who often only praise your good looks are mostly attracted by your other qualities. Many people are biased against novelty. They always think that love has a shelf life, and only new people can bring novelty, but they never think that novelty itself is indeed one of the indispensable links in love, which is more important for air signs. Novelty is not necessarily doing the same thing with different people, but exploring more unknown and interesting worlds with the same person. It is not authentic to change people without novelty, but Libra will feel bored if the same person can't cooperate.

Libra's demand for freshness stems from their persistent pursuit of "beauty", not just appearance. A person's charm lies in that you have the level that the other person desires, but he doesn't. You work hard behind your back, and the clouds are light and the wind is light.

Step 4 give free space

Saving Libra can't be ignored, passively waiting for them to come back to you; Don't hold it too tightly, it will make them feel very tired. Libra needs more free space than most people. Just like flying a kite, give them some space and pull it from time to time. Libra pursues freedom and peace. Confucius, like the golden mean, is a Libra. They are also Buddhists emotionally. They think comfort is the most important thing, so they can't stand people with bad temper. You can get them, but don't try to subdue them. Don't be too controlling and possessive. You want Libra to give you a feeling of liking, but it's hard to have only one feeling in your eyes. They do have a universal love for the world and think that all the beautiful things in the world deserve attention, but that doesn't mean they don't love you. Many people sometimes quarrel, which is an urgent conflict. You want complete intimacy and possession, and he wants his own space and proper distance.

The experience of falling in love with Libra is very good. This constellation is generally romantic and has high emotional intelligence, but at the same time it is as unpredictable as the wind. Sometimes it will make you feel like a spring breeze, and then it will kick you to the sea of ice, making your emotions repeat like a roller coaster, angry but unwilling to leave. So you want to change Libra, limit their freedom or invade their space. But do you think Libra will change because of you? Libra is one of the most unrestrained constellations. It's really stubborn. There is nothing wrong with other constellations: you can give me your advice, but I can also follow my heart and stick to it. Libra, which you usually don't want to talk about, won't ask questions, and Libra won't force you to change, out of respect. To make them really change, the premise is also respect and trust. Give them space, including allowing them to interact with the opposite sex normally. Of course, you are not qualified to take care of the opposite sex who have "abnormal" contacts with each other after breaking up.

5. Recovery should be gradual.

Libra is lazy, and everything goes with the flow in feelings. Don't always think that Libra likes you so much that it burns itself out in one second. They don't care much about the result, but more about the process. Libra, for example, may say that many things can't be done, but it is enough to feel that you have worked hard for it. When two people have enjoyed it in the process of ignorance, he thinks they can be lovers or not. The result is not that important. Don't take them too seriously. Sometimes they say nothing because they can't decide or choose, not because they don't like you. Libra doesn't have an absolute identity, but it can become a part of itself through time. You need to make Libra feel comfortable with you. If it takes a long time, it's not just waiting for Libra to make a decision. Libra is not good at choosing. You need to make him realize that his tangled and hesitant personality may miss you and have a sense of crisis, but this applies to the later recovery. He re-established a good impression on you and didn't want to lose you.

Libra is too changeable, everything goes with the flow, and many times I don't know myself. In fact, it's just following the law, and I won't have too much human intervention, so I'm even more puzzled because I don't insist on it and conform to fate and nature. And we can't grasp the laws of fate. Only a mature Libra will understand through repeated mistakes. What is more important than fate is to seize it in time when it comes. Finally, Libra generally attaches great importance to friends around him. Saving you can enter his life circle, be kind to people around him, and increase their goodwill towards you. Never belittle his friends in front of him.

Four, add two points

1. Libra rarely shows its ruthless side to others. They always look so friendly. You can feel happy and comfortable with them, but the more you go into his heart, the more you will find that they always have an absolute field that others can't enter.

He can make out with you before you cross the line; After you cross the line, he won't want to have an intersection with you. He will put it down when he says it, but on the surface he can keep friendly with you.

They pursue balance and justice. Even if you are entangled to a certain extent, their goodwill and sense of responsibility for you are almost exhausted.

At this time, the chance is really small, but you can't notice the deepening of his indifference and disgust, because his attitude towards you seems friendly most of the time. "You drank wine, let me take you home. I will still come, but I don't like you anymore. "

2. Libra can make friends with almost anyone and sometimes associate with the opposite sex. They feel that they are just normal, friendly and enthusiastic. However, many people see that there are other opposite sex around each other in the process of recovery. In fact, Libra may not care so much about that person. However, they tend to overestimate their fragile will and then let nature take its course and choose to be with that comfortable person.

It is not difficult to save Libra, because there is no absolute Libra. Libra needs to be trusted, because the less you trust him, the more he wants to resist. Don't worry, Libra will manage itself better and give you high marks in your heart. Libra is generally generous and doesn't hold grudges. air signs has a characteristic that it is easy to start and put down. Don't take what Libra tells you absolutely seriously, because you often force him to say that Libra doesn't think that nothing will change. Sometimes Libra thinks that breaking up is not true; I really want to break up. If I get along well with you or am attracted to you again, I don't rule out the possibility of being with you. Don't think that there is no chance just because the other person may be cold to you now.

There are opportunities, it depends on how you grasp them.