Looking back on his first half life, I found that He Han "proposed marriage" twice, once calculated and once loveless.

In the first half of their lives, He Han and Tang Jing were the golden couple in the industry. They have known each other for decades and have always been friends and teachers. They are mentoring, friends, colleagues, comrades-in-arms and lovers.

However, they have been together for ten years and failed to make a positive result. Unfortunately, they are also excusable.

In Ode to Joy, Qu Xiaoyu tells Andy that he wants to pursue Dr. Zhao. Andy was very surprised. Is he going after his girlfriend?

Dr Zhao has been married to his girlfriend for seven years. In fact, their relationship has long existed in name only, and Qu Xiaoyu can see through it at a glance.

Generally, a normal relationship will get married soon, but He Han and he have been together for ten years without getting married, which can only explain one problem. The problem between two people has a long history. They are not suitable, at least not as good as outsiders think.

The reason why we can maintain a close relationship for ten years is only because the circle is too small and there are too many opportunities to deal with each other in an industry. Ten years is enough time for one person to get used to the existence of another person. This is not love, but a habit. The reason why they haven't been separated for ten years is that there has never been anyone who can separate them.

It's not that they haven't lived together for more than ten years, but they all ended up separated because of unhappiness, and He Han has proposed marriage twice in these ten years.

However, two marriage proposals failed to make them a positive result. From these two marriage proposals, I saw through He Han's hypocrisy and disliking.

He Han did a lot of seemingly touching things when he proposed for the first time, but after reading it again and again, I found that all these were behind his calculations.

He Han once asked Tang Jing why a strong woman like her has such a good girlfriend as Luo Zijun.

At that time, Luo Zijun was not divorced, and neither of them liked each other. In particular, He Han can never understand why Tang Jing has such a girlfriend.

Tang Jing's remarks not only revealed why she had such a good relationship with Luo Zijun, but also exposed the hypocrisy and calculation behind He Han's resignation and inviting her to live together.

He Han and Tang Jing tried to live together some time ago, but it was not good, because they were not only lovers, but also equal colleagues. They are all excellent people in the industry and also very hard-working people.

So many times there will be differences and quarrels at work, and these quarrels and differences will often be brought into their lives, which is very bad.

More importantly, their different work values were actually reflected in the first episode of the TV series. In the first episode, Tang Jing gave a realistic figure of 3% at the scheduled Lifu project meeting, but during the meeting, Tang Jing was interrupted by Luo Zijun's phone call and went out to answer the phone.

So, at this telephone time, He Han revised the actual result of Tang Jing's sleepless night and changed it to seven percent.

Tang Jing answered the phone and said that there was something wrong with He Han's data, but He Han was sure that there was nothing wrong with the data.

At that ordinary meeting, Tang Jing and He Han had a quarrel. From the state of their quarrel, we can see that Tang Jing's style of doing things is more realistic and sharp, and he Han is more inclined to give a result that a customer wants than to seek truth from facts.

I believe that many quarrels are due to different values, and that time was just an ordinary quarrel at work, and it will soon get better, because they know each other too well and are used to such quarrels.

He Han resigned shortly after winning Lifu Project and asked Tang Jing to live with him.

This is not He Han's sacrifice and abandonment. On the surface, He Han sacrificed a lot for love and gave up a bright future. In fact, this invitation is just a logical conclusion and a calculation.

In fact, after winning the Lifu project, He Han used this success to apply for more dividends from the company, but was rejected, so he chose to resign and turn to a star who could pay more dividends.

His magic weapon to win was to poach Tang Jing's biggest customer, and he kept all this from Tang Jing.

Later, He Han went to the stars with three generals under the boss of Tang Jing Company, Luoping. Luoping actually likes Tang Jing, but Tang Jing never likes him and hates him.

After Luo Ping was calculated by He Han to become an army, he actually dug a very important person from Hong Kong Hi-Tech, a woman who frightened Tang Jing, and that was Vivian.

Vivian agreed to come to the mainland from Hong Kong, not because of her high salary, but because of her congratulatory letter.

Vivian loves He Han very much. She was the woman who had a one-night stand with He Han. She is a woman that Tang Jing is very afraid of.

When Luo Ping proudly told He Han that he had hired Vivian from Hong Kong, he also knew that they actually met in Hong Kong three months ago, and He Han was a little anxious at this time.

This time, facing He Han's affectionate proposal, Tang Jing was very moved. Although she suspected that He Han was unusual, she chose to believe him, and prepared to make a positive result this time. She agreed to meet some friends in the bar on Friday night to witness their happiness.

But Tang Jing didn't come to the party as agreed that night, and this time they didn't achieve positive results.

Because Vivian explained to Tang Jing that He Han went to Hongkong three months ago and they met privately, they didn't go to sauce as agreed.

Tang Jing was very angry, because at that moment, she suddenly realized that all this was a lie. He Han proposed that night not because he was afraid of losing her, but because he knew that Vivian was coming. He Han had promised that Tang Jing would never see Vivian again, but he didn't do it.

In fact, seeing or not seeing is not the most important thing. The most important thing is that He Han cheated Tang Jing, which is the most unbearable thing for Tang Jing, so they couldn't walk together that time.

Because the marriage proposal was full of calculations and hypocritical congratulatory letters, such a marriage was not worth mentioning.

Later, I don't know when, the two went around to make up and resumed their relationship.

But it was too late, because during Tang Jing's request to go to Hong Kong, He Han had fallen in love with Luo Zijun.

Luo Zijun has long been tempted by He Han, just because of her friendship, she didn't show sincerity.

He Han is an adult. He didn't know that he had fallen in love with Luo Zijun, but he proposed to Tang Jing. Why?

Because of guilt, because of responsibility.

This time, when Tang Jing came back from Hongkong, the whole person changed. She proposed to He Han.

He Han was surprised and nervous this time, because he clearly knew that he had changed, and it was not the same as before, and Tang Jing was still the Tang Jing. He clearly knew that he was in love with Luo Zijun, but he could not refuse Tang Jing at this time because of his responsibility and guilt.

Facing the affectionate confession, He Han couldn't refuse, so he finally proposed, because after all, she had been waiting for so many years, and at that moment he really wanted to refuse, but when he saw the disappointment, he turned around and said that he should propose.

After all, Tang Jing is still a patient. After so many years of waiting, he has fallen into a tangle, and that woman is not another woman, but Luo Zijun, Tang Jing's best friend.

Therefore, there was no love in that proposal, and I agreed to compromise just for peace of mind.

But there is no windtight wall in this world.

After the successful operation in Tang Jing, He Han was expelled from the company, because a business failure caused great losses to the company's important customers. At that time, He Han put a wedding ring on Tang Jing in the hospital.

Congratulatory letter was fired from the company. He lost such an important business because of Luo Zijun. Because it was Luo Zijun's son's birthday, he went to Hangzhou to send the child to Luo Zijun's side, so that Pinger had a perfect birthday memory.

For the first time in my life, He Han is so reckless at work for a person.

Later, Chen Cai knew that He Han was not in the company on his son's birthday, which was very unexpected.

Luo Zijun also blamed herself, saying that she didn't know that she had caused so much trouble to He Han, and in fact Luo Zijun called Chen that day, but Chen didn't receive the call, so she asked He Han for help.

In fact, Luo Zijun's remarks are just self-deception. In fact, she can't admit this fact, because she can't make herself fall in love with He Han, and she doesn't want to admit that He Han actually doesn't love Tang Jing for a long time.

Later, Tang Jing learned about Luo Zijun and He Han, and Lingling also told her. In fact, she didn't believe it at first, but Tang Jing was a wise man, and then she knew everything. Although she doesn't want to believe it, she can't change that all this is true.

Finally, He Han also showed sincerity, saying that he really fell in love with Luo Zijun. He Han and Tang Jing are not married this time. This time, He Han completely changed his mind.

Later, the relationship with Luo Zijun froze, He Han also left Shanghai, and Luo Zijun followed Aunt Wu to Shenzhen.

From then on, Tang Jing, He Han and Luo Zijun could never return to the past.

When I first saw it, I felt sorry for the relationship between He Han and Tang Jing.

But looking back now, my thoughts are completely different.

I think whether there is Luo Zijun or not between He Han and Tang Jing, they will not walk together, and even if they walk together, they will not be happy.

Because this ten-year absence has explained everything.

After ten years together, the failure to make a positive result shows that this relationship is not suitable, indicating that there is no long-term love between them.

This has nothing to do with whether Luo Zijun has appeared or not. On the contrary, Luo Zijun's appearance made them more aware that this relationship was only years of self-deception.

Even without Luo Zijun, there will be other women, but surprisingly, Luo Zijun is the one who seduced He Han.

In fact, the saddest person at this time is Tang Jing. After all, one is the man she has been waiting for ten years, and the other is her best girlfriend. These two people are the most important people in her life, but they are testing each other. Nothing is more destructive to Tang Jing.

But Tang Jing is Tang Jing after all. After the storm, she is still a strong and independent rose. I hope he can meet a man who really loves her for the rest of his life without her waiting.