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Shocking domestic violence

Family should be the safest, most reliable and warmest place for minors. Article 8 of the Law on the Protection of Minors in People's Republic of China (PRC) clearly stipulates that parents or other guardians shall perform guardianship duties and support obligations for minors according to law, and shall not abuse or abandon minors. However, many parents forget that there is also the Law on the Protection of Minors in People's Republic of China (PRC), which holds that children are their own, and they can control them as they want and fight as they want. However, underage children lack the awareness of self-protection, so some children have been violated in their families.

12 On April, 2000 1 1 day, Luo Shuping, a 43-year-old farmer from Liu Lihe District, Fangshan District, Beijing, beat Wang Chuang with a wooden broom because his son Wang Chuang, who was under 8 years old, failed to finish the homework assigned by the teacher many times and lied. Wang Chuang lacked self-protection consciousness, did not resist or evade, and was beaten by his mother, which caused extensive trauma to his arms and lower limbs and caused renal failure. He was seriously injured by forensic identification. The procuratorate filed a public prosecution against her mother, and Fangshan District People's Court formally filed a case to hear the case. She is suspected of intentional injury.

According to information provided by a hospital in Beijing, a 5-year-old girl was forced by her parents to learn to play the piano. If she doesn't play enough time, she will be scolded or scolded. But she has no sense of self-protection and lets her parents beat and scold her. Her parents also believe that "beating is pro, scolding is love, and not beating or scolding is failure." One day, while playing the piano, the child suddenly twitched all over, swearing, dislocating his eyes and nose, and was diagnosed by the doctor as "Tourette's syndrome", which was caused by excessive pressure. Since then, children have been disgusted at the sight of the piano, so parents have to sell it.

Wang, a laid-off woman worker in her early 30 s, pinned all her hopes on her daughter Chen Ying. 1999 On the evening of July 7th, Wang taught his 5-year-old daughter to write Arabic numerals. Chen ying wrote for a while, and then called for some children to play, but Wang resolutely refused. Until 0: 30 pm 165438+ Xiao Chenying couldn't write the numbers "8" and "9" well, so Wang was so angry that he grabbed the fly swatter and hit his daughter. Chen Ying, who was stubborn, simply stopped writing and did not shy away from her mother's beating. At this point, the angry king found a rolling pin and swung it to hit his daughter's leg and back. That night, after her daughter went to bed, she cried with a stomachache and kept rolling on the bed. Wang panicked and rushed the child to the hospital. However, the doctor failed to save Chen Ying's life.

In the past, when it came to domestic violence, the victims were often the elderly and women. Now, domestic violence has affected underage children. In the minds of China people, the traditional concept of family education is deeply rooted. Experts say that because minors have weak self-protection ability, the concept of self-protection has not been established in their hearts, and there are many cases of violence against children. Therefore, some experts, professors and doctors call on all families in the whole society: stop! Never hit children again. Overindulgence and overprotection will restrict children's wings to fly freely, while beating children will break them. Call on the whole society and every family to give their children a pair of wings that really fly freely.

I. Reasons why young people are violated

Our teenagers are in an important period of long body and long knowledge, and they are immature in all aspects. Due to the complex living environment, there are factors that are not conducive to the healthy growth of teenagers, and the phenomenon of infringing on the legitimate rights and interests of teenagers and damaging their physical and mental health still occurs from time to time. Although our country's laws provide protection measures to protect the legitimate rights and interests of teenagers in different aspects such as family, school, society and justice, due to the limitations of environment and conditions, these protections sometimes appear untimely and inadequate, which makes teenagers suffer different degrees of harm. This kind of injury must be treated dialectically. This kind of injury includes obvious superficial injury, that is, physical injury to teenagers, psychological and spiritual injury to teenagers, and the most serious is deprivation of life. This kind of hidden injury mainly refers to the injury from school teachers and parents in the family, which is not easy to be perceived and understood by the society. But it should be different from the educational purpose of parents and teachers. At the same time, on the other hand, teenagers should also think independently, judge themselves and reflect on themselves. Pay attention to the infringement from schools and parents, adhere to the concrete analysis of specific problems, and guard against and warn yourself from the two levels of purpose and method.

ⅱ. Teenagers may be hurt in several ways.

For teenagers aged 13 and 14, facing the complicated and changeable social environment and our limited social experience and life experience, they may often be hurt by natural disasters, accidents and bad social behaviors, and by their families, schools and society.

There are four common sources of adolescent abuse, namely accidental injury, family abuse, school abuse and social abuse.

Accidental injuries are often caused by some unexpected accidents, such as traffic accidents and natural disasters. Family attacks, school attacks and social attacks are often violent violations of teenagers' personal freedom and other acts that insult personal dignity and bring great physical and mental harm to teenagers. The harm to teenagers includes not only physical harm, but also psychological and spiritual harm, even depriving them of their young lives.

There are many violations in schools and families.

In the face of bullies, you are neither humble nor supercilious. (Infringement from classmates)

Campus is a beautiful paradise for us to grow up healthily and study hard. Why are there violent incidents on campus? Campus violence is mostly related to the living environment and unhealthy psychology of some students. Because of dissatisfaction with parents, teachers and classmates, they blindly resist and attack others; There are also some children who lack normal communication with their peers, don't get along with others, and have developed the bad habit of hitting and swearing casually. In addition, with the growth of age, some children form gangs called "loyalty and righteousness", which actually bully weak or unpleasant students.

2) Facing teachers and parents, strengthen communication and understand each other.

Article 15 of the Law of People's Republic of China (PRC) on the Protection of Minors stipulates that teachers and staff in schools and kindergartens should respect the personal dignity of minors, and may not impose corporal punishment, disguised corporal punishment or other acts that insult personal dignity on underage students and children. This law is not only aimed at minors, but also at every teacher in the school. It can be seen from a case in which a teacher infringes on a student that many teachers do not have this law in mind. Not only did they fail to protect minors according to law, but they even hurt minors. Teachers' violence against us will not only affect the normal growth and development of minors, but also make them lose their trust and dependence on teachers on campus. What's more, it will cause psychological distortion of minors, make them appear anti-social personality, and have strong aggression, which can be described as endless harm.

① On the morning of March 15, 2000, a dozen students of Grade One (1) in a middle school in Li Antang, Jiangxi Province were fined to copy each question 1000 times, * * 6000 times during the fourth class. As a senior one student, faced with this astronomical figure that scares me, I just resigned myself to fate and didn't report to the principal in time, so I used the law to protect myself.

The second-grade teacher of a primary school in Laoyanzhuang, Yuhua Township, Yanta District, Xi City made a "loss of points" to punish students who did not complete their homework. On the morning of March 25th, 2000, Mr Xiao ordered 12 students (7 boys and 5 girls) who had not finished their homework to take off their pants in public and walk around the classroom in public. The class teacher also assigned two class cadres to take off their pants for disobedient students.

According to Yunnan Daily, at 7: 30 p.m. on April 3, students from Class 4, Grade 1, Shangcun Township Middle School, Huize County, Qujing City, Yunnan Province were studying by themselves at night. Nie Chaokuan, a history teacher, found that student Jaco and two other students had not finished their homework, so he called three students to the blackboard for punishment. Active Jaco and a student sitting in the second row are fighting with chalk heads. Teacher Nie slapped Jaco 10 in the face and threw Jaco of 16 to the ground. Jaco was foaming at the mouth on the spot and unconscious. Teacher Nie also thinks that Jaco pretended to faint, grabbed her hair and picked it up to make up two slaps. A few minutes later, Jaco didn't get up. Panicked, Teacher Nie quickly called 10 more students to be sent to the township health center for rescue. At 9 o'clock in the evening, Jaco died after being rescued. The students of the deceased witnessed that Jaco was beaten to death by Teacher Nie Chaokuan. Villager Wang told reporters that his children are studying in the same class. Every time the children came home from school, they complained that he and his classmates were beaten and scolded by the principal and Nie Chaokuan and other teachers. The child said that going to the village middle school is not a study, but a prison, and the environment is too bad.

-The Times, 10th issue, 2000

We should dialectically analyze the violations from families and schools. On the one hand, the purpose of parents and teachers' education is to love students and help them grow up healthily. On the other hand, students should actively communicate with parents and teachers to avoid the harm caused by mutual incomprehension. Teachers should dare to refuse corporal punishment, disguised corporal punishment and other acts that insult personal dignity, as well as parents' incorrect ideas and practices, and even use legal weapons to safeguard their legitimate rights and interests.

Infringement from family.

On the one hand, the purpose of parental education is to love us and help us grow up healthily; On the other hand, we should actively exchange ideas with our parents to avoid the harm caused by mutual understanding. We should dare to reject parents' wrong education methods and incorrect ideas and practices, and even use legal weapons to safeguard our legitimate rights and interests. At the same time, we young students should also regulate our behavior according to law, and fully realize that education is not only the basic right given to every citizen by the Constitution, but also the basic obligation of citizens stipulated by the Constitution. Young students should abide by the Compulsory Education Law of People's Republic of China (PRC), cherish the right to receive education, earnestly fulfill the obligation to receive education, abide by the rules and regulations of the school, and strive to complete their studies.

Accidents and violations from family, school and society.

These infringements have seriously violated the legitimate rights and interests of our teenagers, not only causing great physical harm to our teenagers, but also bringing us serious psychological and spiritual trauma, greatly destroying our body and mind, depriving us of our health, and even destroying the lives and hopes of some teenagers and their childhood dreams.

There are also natural disasters, such as sudden floods, earthquakes and social bad behaviors, such as criminal acts.

All these will cause serious personal and property losses to our teenagers and pose a threat to our safety.

Young people's poor safety awareness and lack of training to prevent emergencies are important reasons for accidental injuries.

Related links are shocking numbers.

With the rapid development of social economy in China, it has become an indisputable fact that there are many roads, cars and people. This "three more" makes the possibility of traffic accidents increase. More roads and more cars are good for the development of road traffic in China, but the combination of these "three more" invisibly increases the probability of traffic accidents. Look at the figures below, and you will think that this is not nonsense. In the 50 years since the founding of New China, the road in China has developed rapidly. 1999, the total mileage of highways in China has reached 13520000 km, and the total mileage of expressways has reached 1 1605 km, ranking fourth in the world.

During the ten years from 1990 to 2000, the total number of civil vehicles in China increased from 55 13600 to 1608.9 1000, with an average annual growth rate of 1 1.3%. Among them, the number of private cars increased from 8 1.620 in 1990 to 6,257,300 in 2000, with an average annual increase of 22.6%.

China is the most populous country in the world. According to the data of the fifth national census in 2000, the total population of China reached 1 1 in October 2000.

At present, China's road traffic safety management methods are backward and the scientific and technological content is not high. For example, in Tokyo, the capital of Japan, there are 14500 intersections, all of which have signal lights, and half of them are automatically controlled. There are only 7,000 light-controlled intersections in 36 big cities in China, which is less than half of a city in Tokyo. In China, there are 1 13 1 traffic accidents every day, and 229 people are killed, which is equivalent to the loss of a Boeing plane falling from the sky every day. 198 There were 8 197 traffic accidents involving students in China, resulting in 3640 deaths and 10257 injuries. From 65438 to 0999, as many as 7389 children died in traffic accidents in China, accounting for 9% of the total number of 83500 deaths in traffic accidents in the whole year. 1999, there were as many as 17223 children injured by traffic accidents in China, accounting for 6% of the total number of traffic accidents injured in the whole year. Around my classmates, traffic accidents happen every day, and the tragedies caused by them are staged every day. Traffic accidents and their serious consequences are not sensational. They are like a beast waiting for its prey, ready to attack those who dare to violate traffic rules.

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Ⅰ. Reasons for Teenagers to Strengthen Self-protection

Teenagers are the future and hope of the motherland, and our growth and development should be specially protected in all aspects; The state, society, schools, families and other aspects all shoulder the responsibility of protecting teenagers. The protective measures they took created a safe psychological environment for us. Although our country's laws provide protection measures to protect the legitimate rights and interests of teenagers in different aspects such as family, school, society and justice, due to the limitations of environment and conditions, these protections sometimes appear untimely and inadequate, which makes teenagers suffer different degrees of harm. Therefore, improving teenagers' awareness of self-protection and teaching us the necessary methods and skills to protect ourselves can make us face the infringement more calmly, protect ourselves and create a safe study and living space for ourselves. Learning to master self-care knowledge is helpful to take the first step in life. The road of life is very long, adolescence is the stage of laying the foundation, and learning to protect yourself is the basic skill of survival and development. Learning to master the knowledge of self-care is helpful to enhance confidence and courage in fighting against illegal crimes.

ⅱ. Teenagers must learn to protect themselves.

Teenagers with insufficient social experience will often be violated because of their passive position in the face of aggression, natural disasters and accidental injuries. Therefore, in the complicated social life environment, teenagers must learn to protect themselves. Self-protection is human instinct, and having self-protection consciousness is an important step for minors to mature. In the face of some unexpected accidents and violations, we should actively strive for the protection of society, schools and families; If these protections cannot be put in place in time, we should try our best to protect our legitimate rights and interests with wisdom and law. Therefore, teenagers must learn to protect themselves, establish a sense of prevention, know how to prevent them, and gradually cultivate their ability of self-prevention.

Misunderstanding warns parents often say, "The child is mine. I want her to go to school, so I can send her to school. If I don't want her to go to school, I can not go to school. " Does this statement make sense?

This kind of words and deeds is wrong. Because our country's constitution stipulates that receiving education is the basic right and obligation of citizens. As a right, no one has the right to deprive it, and as an obligation, everyone must fulfill it. At the same time, receiving education also plays an important role in the development of citizens and the country. Parents don't let their children go to junior high school, which violates the Compulsory Education Law and the Law on the Protection of Minors. China's Compulsory Education Law stipulates that junior high school education is compulsory for school-age children, and whether junior high school students receive school education is not personal freedom. Schools have the responsibility to ensure the implementation of nine-year compulsory education, and parents must let school-age children enter school to receive education for a specified number of years. At the same time, such remarks also violate the law on the protection of minors and fail to educate children with healthy thoughts, conduct and correct methods. So this statement is meaningless.

Three. All walks of life pay attention to and care about the healthy growth of teenagers.

Teenagers in China account for nearly half of the national population, among which there are about 400 million minors under 18, accounting for more than 1/3 of the total population. Whether teenagers can grow up healthily is a major event related to the survival of the country and the rise and fall of the nation. * Comrade pointed out in the "Talk on Education": "Strengthening and improving education is not only a matter for schools and education departments, but also requires the care and support of families and all sectors of society. Only by strengthening comprehensive management and taking a multi-pronged approach to form a social environment conducive to the healthy development of young students' body and mind can the younger generation grow sturdily. "Therefore, in the whole process of implementing quality education, schools, families and society must communicate with each other and actively cooperate to achieve better quality education results. Quality education for teenagers is a systematic project, and family, school and society are closely integrated, interrelated and influenced each other.

Teenagers are in an important period of long body and long knowledge, immature in all aspects, and weak or even lacking in self-protection ability. Therefore, it is of great significance to give them special protection from the law and special attention from the state to create a good environment for their growth. In real life, things that infringe on the legitimate rights and interests of teenagers and harm their physical and mental health often happen. In order to prevent the legitimate rights and interests of teenagers from being infringed, we must mobilize all social forces and use various means to effectively protect them. One of the important means is to legislate, formulate special laws, clarify the responsibilities of all sectors of society, and strengthen the education and protection of young people in society. In addition, because of its special physiological and psychological characteristics, juvenile delinquency is highly plastic and easily influenced by the outside world. Some lawless elements instigate and induce juvenile delinquency, which has become a serious social problem. Preventing and controlling juvenile delinquency is a very heavy and complicated social project, and the whole society must be mobilized to carry out comprehensive management. We should not only strengthen ideological and moral education for teenagers, but also formulate special laws for teenagers to protect their legitimate rights and interests and restrain their behavior. Safeguarding the legitimate rights and interests of teenagers is the common responsibility of the whole society.

1. Please dial "120" to prevent accidental injury and provide help-a turning point in life.

In case of sudden illness or accidental injury, call "120", please remember the following points: tell the patient the detailed address accurately, pick up the car as early as possible, and don't call at will at ordinary times. Please learn the tricks of self-protection: If you are sick at home and people are in danger, don't hesitate to dial "120" and tell the detailed address carefully to turn the corner.

2. Distress and self-help-swimming cramps, toes are jumping up and down.

Story: During the summer vacation, Xiaoying went swimming with her classmate Zhao Lan. Arriving at the swimming pool, Xiaoying changed into a bathing suit, took a quick shower and jumped into the swimming pool. Zhao Lan takes a shower, does sports and exercises. Xiaoying swam 50 meters before entering the water. When swimming to the second 50 meters, Xiaoying felt something was wrong. Her calf became heavier and heavier and cramped. Finally, the calf could not stretch or bend, so she grabbed the side wall painfully and was helped ashore by Zhao Lan. After massage by the doctor in the infirmary, he returned to normal.

Common sense: Remember the following points when swimming:

(1) When it is hot, drink some cold drinks first, lower your body temperature, and then go into the water. (2) Be sure to exercise fully before launching. It would be better if we could do a set of gymnastics. (3) In the water, the speed of swimming is unsustainable, and it is necessary to change the swimming style from time to time. If you have cramps, tilt your toes as much as possible and swim to the shore to rest.

Formula: Swimming cramps are all caused by colds. Don't panic if you have a cramp. Try to relieve them by kicking your ankles. Don't try to be brave when learning a lesson.

3. Self-help in distress-accidentally falling into the water and bravely surviving.

A fourth-grade student accidentally fell into the river. The river is not deep, but it flows quickly. He was frightened, washed away by the water and went down the river. Flowing through a big river beach, he could have taken the opportunity to stand up because the water was only as deep as his calf, but he didn't seize the opportunity. He didn't make use of the big stones and stumps that passed by. As a result, he was washed into a big reservoir and drowned.

Common sense: If you accidentally fall into the water, you can take the following measures: (1) Hold your breath: Hold your breath and hold your nose with your hands to avoid choking. (2) Light: Take off your shoes in time and throw away the heavy things in your pocket. (3) Stand up: When drifting to a shallow place, stand up in time and don't miss the opportunity. (4) Drifting: Follow the current and swim while drifting. Don't swim directly to the other side. Better drift a little. (5) Call for help: If you can't swim, you should pat the water for help. Relax: If someone saves you, you should try to relax yourself and don't hold on to the person who saved you.

Formula: don't panic when you fall into the water. Shouting loudly will consume your physical strength. Go with the flow to find the opportunity and calmly observe and get out of danger.

4. Distress and self-help-get lost in the field trip and climb the mountain to find someone.

Short story: Zhao Xiaorui and his classmates used their summer vacation to go to the forest to attend a biology summer camp. Everything he saw was fresh. Suddenly, he found a beautiful big butterfly. Without thinking, he grabbed the insect net and chased it. I don't know how long it has been running. When Zhao Xiaorui caught the big butterfly as he wished, there were no classmates around, no classmates talking and laughing, and even Lin Nakakoji disappeared. He got lost. At this time, he remembered what the teacher said: "When you get lost in the forest, don't panic, be sure to calm down." Xiao Rui took a few deep breaths at the thought of this, calmed down and began to think about how to get out of the predicament. Soon, he came up with a plan: he first recalled the time when he left the team, then carefully observed the nearby terrain, found the footprints he had stepped on when running, walked slowly along the footprints step by step, and finally walked back to the path when he arrived. Not long after walking along the road, I heard the shouts of teachers and classmates, and Xiao Rui was so excited that she was about to cry. He did it!

Common sense:

If you get lost in the forest, you can do the following.

(1) Remembrance: Stop the car immediately, remember the road you have traveled and determine the direction as soon as possible.

(2) Observation: Look at the weeds around. On the way just passed, the grass will be trampled down and fall in a certain direction; When you come, you have determined the direction, and when you come, you may find your way.

(3) Go to the heights: climb the nearest ridge. One can determine his position, and the other can find signs of human activities.

(4) Looking for water flow: In forest areas, roads and settlements are often built at the water's edge. Follow the direction of the current, it is possible to find people and walk out of the mountains easily.

Formula: Be calm when you get lost in the forest, climb high to find someone to see what's going on, find your way along mountains and rivers, and cover the grass with spider silk means you can do it.

5. Common sense of social life safety

When going out, you'd better do the following.

(1) Tell your parents where you are going, when you will come back, who you are with and how to contact.

(2) Go hand in hand as much as possible.

(3) When going out alone, you should take the brightly lit avenue instead of taking shortcuts or paths.

(4) When going out alone at night, you should bring flashlights and other items. In case of attack, you can shine a flashlight on the gangster's face.

(5) Don't hitchhike with strangers.

(6) Take the bus and try to be close to the driver and conductor.

Formula: Don't be afraid to go out for activities. Go hand in hand with a flashlight whistle and plan boldly and carefully.

6. Advice for girls Take care of yourself when you go out.

Girls should know the environment when they go out, try to take a safe route and avoid remote and unfamiliar places. When you go out at night, you should go together. Don't wear too many clothes, don't dress up too much, and don't be frivolous. Pay attention to your surroundings when you go out, and don't talk to strangers. If someone is stalking or pestering, get close to the public as soon as possible and call if necessary. Girls should contact their parents at any time when they go out. She shouldn't spend the night at someone else's house without her parents' permission. Don't casually enjoy drinks or food given by strangers outside, beware of drugs.