Psychology of emotion: Why do men like love rat?

Almost everyone will mention keywords such as "kindness" and "three views" in their mate selection requirements-and this is not a scene. When a man says that he likes a kind girl with a good personality, it is 100% true.

Since men really like good girls, why do they always fall for love rat's tricks?

Because personality and personal female charm are two dimensions. Personality needs long-term observation to know, and the value of female charm can be seen by the naked eye. Simple, direct and crisp.

We usually say "love rat" means-poor character, but not bad feminine value.

When most people meet for the first time, they can't see through the quality of their "personality", but they can see at a glance how they look, how they are temperamental and whether they talk funny. In addition, people will be a little dizzy, just like brain tonic. When they see beautiful people, they will subconsciously guess that ta's heart should be as beautiful as its appearance.

In the initial stage of attraction, "high value" is indeed more dominant and more efficient than "good character". What we usually see is that love rat gets along well, which is the principle.

What we can learn from love rat is that we should learn to cultivate our feminine charm and get tickets before we have more time.

But in a long-term relationship, the importance of personality must be no less than or even higher than the value of female charm. Who can stand a malicious opposite sex to accompany him every day, eat and live with him? Love rat's interests are immediate, but the interests of a kind girl are long-term. People live a lifetime and have a long-term vision.