What do you mean you don't want to be a princess, but a soldier?

This sentence usually means that a person does not want to be regarded as a person who needs protection and love, but wants to be regarded as a strong, independent and adventurous person.

"Princess" is usually regarded as a role that needs the protection and rescue of the prince, which implies a kind of dependence and passivity. "Warrior" represents strength, courage, determination and independence. This sentence expresses that individuals want to get rid of the traditional role of "princess" and pursue a more free, brave and independent lifestyle. This sentence may be an expression of dissatisfaction or disgust with traditional gender roles, or it may be the pursuit of more equality, pluralism and tolerance. At the same time, it may also express a desire for adventure, challenge and self-realization.