A Virgo boy was very enthusiastic and ambiguous about you at first, and then he gradually calmed down, but he was still a little special. What does this mean?

The reasons why the average boy is cold after he starts to be enthusiastic are as follows:

First, the novelty is gone.

Before falling in love, women are like an unknown treasure to men, which makes them have a great desire to explore. At this time, men will have a desire to win or lose, or a spirit of unyielding, and will try their best to catch up with the woman. Moreover, the more the woman seems to have little interest in them, the more she can arouse their competitiveness.

When we begin to enter the stage of love, we get to know each other more and more, and the mystery is gone, and we are a little tired over time.

Second, I don't think it's as good as he thought after understanding it.

When we are not in love, we like someone just like the person we imagined. At this stage, because we especially don't know the true face of this person, we will always see each other's bright spots and be attracted by them.

But when we begin to enter the stage of love, two people will expose many problems in the process of getting along, and will also show the other side that we have not found. At this time, we often have a sense of psychological gap.

Third, enter the period of emotional apathy.

Love is hard to stay the same. When people first fall in love, they are all very sweet. They will have endless words and topics every day, and they will not feel uncomfortable when they are bored together.

But once they get along for a long time, the contradiction between the two people gradually emerges, and the enthusiasm between them gradually fades. At this time, you will need a sense of space more than together. Many people say that they want two people's lives when they are single, but they miss one person's life when they are in love.

This is because most of us want the sweet part of love more than the cold part. Once the feelings cool down, there is no temperature for two people to get along. If both of them don't want to continue to heat up at this time, then they may break up when they are together.