It is said that the son-in-law is half a son. Why do many son-in-law hate their mother-in-law?

First of all, as the saying goes, "A son-in-law is half a son." "The more a mother-in-law looks at her son-in-law, the more she likes it." In the eyes of her mother-in-law, the son-in-law is the guarantor of her daughter's happy life for the rest of her life. Under normal circumstances, she will not turn against her son-in-law. Of course, there are also some powerful mothers-in-law in life who like to interfere in the lives of their daughters and sons-in-law, and even habitually give orders. Such a mother-in-law will inevitably arouse the disgust of her son-in-law. And sometimes because the mother-in-law always nags her son-in-law to protect her daughter, the son-in-law hates her mother-in-law. Mother-in-law's daughter is always the first in her heart. If the daughter is not happy to go home, she feels that her son-in-law is angry, so that her mother-in-law will scold her son-in-law when she sees that he does not ask questions indiscriminately, and her son-in-law will be confused. I see, the mother-in-law wronged her son-in-law. Do you think such a mother-in-law and son-in-law can not hate it?

Secondly, and relative to us, both men and women are born to women. Compared with married women, the relationship between mothers is definitely much closer than that of fathers. What's more, as a selfish and stingy man, there is no room for his wife in his heart, and there is someone who loves him more than himself. Because we all know that the relationship between daughter-in-law and mother-in-law is also very tense, and the relationship with father-in-law is much more beneficial. This is also because men love their mothers more than their wives. So this is human nature in itself!

Finally, in my opinion, you should know that your mother-in-law is your mother. If she makes you unbearable, you should avoid her. Have less contact on weekdays. On important festivals, you should have some manners. Think about your wife and don't embarrass her too much. If your family is at fault or negligent, you should be generous, sincerely admit your mistake first, and give the other party a step, which is conducive to solving the problem peacefully. So trying to deal with these things is obviously more mature and steady than complaining and pulling hatred blindly.