How to chat with girls?

Do you know the topic of chatting with girls? This situation must have happened to many brothers. They are usually good at chatting, but they don't know what to say when they meet a girl they like. You send her a message 1 minute, 3 minutes, 5 minutes. No response, just like sinking into the sea. Let's look at the topic of chatting with girls and how to chat with girls.

How to chat with a girl 1 After another 10 minutes, she finally replied to your message, but it was a long wait. Sometimes even directly, I don't return your message!

Your heart can't stand this situation, so is there a chat method that can make the girl you like "come back" to you in a few seconds? Don't worry. Next, the tutor will teach you four chat topics to keep you chatting. First of all, introduce yourself briefly: hello, everyone, I'm the team leader. I have been focusing on the emotional education industry for eight years, and there are more than 30 emotional counselors with the qualification certificate of psychological counselor. Mainly solved four emotional problems for brothers: saving boyfriend and girlfriend, attacking true love, how to chat, marriage repair, and teaching you how to get a favorite girlfriend as soon as possible through actual combat.

Remember, these four questions are only for ordinary girls, and the specific operation needs to be adjusted according to the girl's personality and your psychology. If you already have a girl you like in your heart and are in a state of not knowing how to chat, you can add a tutor and consult with the tutor one-on-one. The tutor will provide you with the most targeted chat mode, which will make her itch and throw herself at you. If you can't add me, please click on my avatar and chat with me privately on the APP. Send me your number and I'll add you!

First, constellation cold reading

80% girls have some knowledge of constellations. This kind of romantic topic can usually make girls talk to you. If you happen to be her best matching constellation, your goodwill will definitely rise a lot. When there is a girl you like in your heart, take a little time to correspond to the person corresponding to each constellation. You just need to remember 2-3 characters corresponding to each constellation, the more the better.

It is best to write down the approximate birth time range of the constellation, so that you can quickly guess which sister's constellation is later. Moreover, when you remember the role corresponding to the constellation, when you are not very familiar with your sister, every time you chat with her, you can also tease her and joke with her with the role corresponding to the constellation. Even to speculate on her personality, if accurate, will soon narrow the distance between you, which is also our "cold reading."

Second, build a good impression through food.

Proud girls like western food, lovely girls like desserts, temperamental girls like food with a slight flavor, and smart girls like hot pot and Jianghu dishes. Different girls can guess what kind of food she likes from her overall style. This can lead to topics such as "why do you like to eat", "what's so special" and "which country's food do you like", or your opinion on your favorite food, so that you can start this topic soon. But the basis for saying this is that you usually pay attention to what you like to eat, what you don't like to eat, why you like it, and what is the profound cultural heritage. Only in this way can we use chat directly.

Of course, if you can cook, that's the best. You can directly tell your sister what you can cook, what you are good at, what you want to do for others, and even invite girls to taste your cooking at home. Note that it takes skill to successfully invite a girl. If you want to know how to ask a girl out, you can add a tutor. The tutor will give you 1v 1 advice and provide you with professional invitation guidance so that girls can't refuse your date. ) Through a food topic, not only let girls know what you like to eat, but also let girls know that you can cook. Boys who know how to cook naturally have a good impression on girls.

Third, travel experience.

Basically, everyone has the experience of traveling. This topic can effectively show that you are a person who is interested in life. Showing your life is also a good topic. When talking to your sister about this topic, you can share the places you have been to, what impressed you the most and where you want to go in the future. The topic of where you want to go can give your sister an expectation, and let her subconsciously produce a picture of traveling with you, thus establishing a sense of connection. If your sister responds, you can share your travel experience and even show your sister photos of your trip. Or, you can ask your sister to add yours and visit a circle of friends, so that you have an excuse to follow the trend and not appear abrupt.

Fourth, pets.

Most girls can't refuse the cuteness of pets. This topic will show that you are a caring and warm boy. And if you keep animals, it will be the talk between you. Type, personality, and some good habits and bad habits at ordinary times can all develop topics.

At the same time, you can also use this as a starting point to tell the story of you and your dog, such as: taking your dog to see a doctor and how to take care of each other; When the dog kicks your ass, wait. These are all topics that can give you extra points. Of course, if you know how to start a topic, you must also know that some taboos can't be touched in chat, otherwise it will easily arouse the woman's disgust.

First of all, during the inspection,

How to chat with girls? After the resident,

This is a common problem for many blind date boys. As soon as they met, they said, "Where are you from? Where do you work? How old are you? What do you do? " A series of such questions made the girls unbearable and stopped talking. In fact, these questions can't be asked, but you should learn to turn questions into declarative sentences and let girls answer your questions through cold reading. Judging from your accent, are you from Beijing? Do you feel like a girl from Jiangsu? Words like this turn questions into declarative sentences.

Second, talk about military, economic, political, pessimistic and negative topics.

First of all, most girls don't like this topic and don't even understand it. These aspects will make her think that you are a boring person. At the same time, pessimistic and negative topics are not good. After all, you certainly don't like people who complain and mope all day. That girl won't like people who talk about these things.

Third, pay too much attention to chat topics.

In chat, we must pay attention to the chat itself, not the topic of chat, because in fact, there is no need to prepare a topic for real chat.

Error demonstration

Man: Have you eaten? (bring up the topic)

Woman: Yes.

Man: What are you doing? (bring up another topic)

W: surfing the internet

One topic after another, girls will feel bored when chatting with you, and the topic will always be finished. After talking, they couldn't talk any more. We can consider a keyword-based chat mode.

Correct demonstration

Man: Have you eaten? (Put forward a topic, key words: eat, eat)

Woman: I ate it.

Man: What did you eat? (Topics triggered by keywords)

Woman: Beef noodles.

Man: I made it myself.

Woman: No, I can't cook.

Man: You can't cook. A girl can't even cook. See how you get married.

W: I don't want to do it. Too much trouble.

M: Ha ha ha ha, it doesn't matter. I will do it. I'll take you to try it next time.

W: Very good.

This way of chatting not only lets girls know that you can cook, but also invites a wave. It really doesn't matter what you say to girls. What matters is the atmosphere. If you want to have fun, laugh at each other and have a humorous chat, you can quickly narrow the distance between you. Brother, you can always see this place from the beginning, so your tutor believes that you must be the kind of person who wants to change the status quo quickly and improve the level of love quickly.

Maybe you can't stand talking to girls anymore. Maybe you don't want to go out with girls every time without results. Maybe you want to improve yourself and make yourself better. These questions may be difficult for you who have no love experience. But the tutor is very responsible to tell you that everything is not a problem, but whether you meet the following three conditions is very important:

1, you must make up your mind to change yourself and make yourself better.

2. Willing to invest in yourself, not just spending money on women.

3, can cooperate with the tutor, have execution and action, rather than just saying that it can't be done.

Do you know the topic of chatting with girls? For more information about chatting, how to improve emotional intelligence and make yourself more attractive, please add a tutor directly and we will tell you how to do it one by one. Send me the word "I want to learn" in the book, and you can get the e-book "Cheats of Getting Off the List" written by Yuan Lai's tutor with a value of 1288 yuan, which contains many chat skills and dry goods, so that girls can look at your EQ with new eyes and take the initiative to pursue you!