A "constellation" with a strong desire for control is better than holding sand.

In fact, everyone has a certain degree of control desire, but everyone shows it in different ways. Some people are strong, some people are weak, and others like to control others' behavior in the name of love.

The most obvious manifestation of this desire for control in the name of love is that parents treat their children. Many people may have this experience when they were young: parents always don't let you do this or that, and always say it's for your own good.

Of course, in the long process of growth, smart parents will slowly let go and let their children become more independent and have a good and healthy development.

In love, the desire for control is also a very obvious emotional expression, especially when a person is very insecure and thinks that love is difficult to master, in order to seize the other person's heart, there is often a strong desire for control.

However, love is an inner feeling and a matter for two people.

When one person shows too much strength in love, another person often has pressure, and his inner discomfort will suddenly increase, which is easy to have a reaction. The tighter you hold on, the faster the other person will run away.

Simply put, love is like sand in your hand. The tighter you hold it, the less sand will become until it floats away with the wind and finally becomes empty.

Some people say that Cancer is more suitable for solitude. Crab crab always has a good time when he is alone. Usually stay at home and watch TV, play games and brush the screen of mobile phone. If he has friends and girlfriends, he runs out to play and doesn't want to go home at all.

From this perspective, Cancer is still a person who should be active and quiet. When he is alone, the world is full of beauty, sunshine, beaches and friends, except for a lover.

However, cancer falling in love may become better, or blx may be shattered.

Because, when cancer is in love, it is too affectionate and cares too much about each other's feelings. He always thinks of each other and works hard, but he may not have thought about whether this is what the other party wants.

To put it bluntly, once cancer enters love, she often loves you more than herself, just like her mother, full of maternal brilliance.

Unfortunately, the most important thing in falling in love is to attract each other. Two of a kind, if you don't meet someone who cherishes yourself, crab crab will not only look miserable, but may even try to control each other, and the final result can be imagined.

As we all know, Leo is very overbearing, especially in love, showing a strong desire for control everywhere.

If others have a strong desire to control because they are afraid of losing in love, then Leo is completely different. He loves you because he loves you. If you don't deserve the lion's love, he won't care about you.

Simply put, the more Leo loves someone, the more he tends to like control. He doesn't even care what clothes you wear, let alone show love to take you into a circle of friends.

However, Leo is a very smart person, and his desire for control often gives you a special feeling, sometimes a little fidgety, but that feeling is more sweet and loved.

In fact, Scorpio is usually a gentle person, and it is often dull in love.

Of course, Scorpio can also give people a vigorous and very romantic love, but it depends on the environment of this love. Many times Scorpio still prefers the feeling of running water.

Simply put, if Scorpio meets the right person at the right time, this love will not have too many twists and turns, and it looks very respectful, sweet and warm.

Otherwise, Scorpio is likely to be very insecure and always wants to grab each other's hearts, but love is often not transferred by personal will. Scorpio's strong desire for control often hurts each other.

Finally, Scorpio finally understands a truth: it is good to listen to your inner feelings in love, but it is better to raise sand.