Get married or start a career first?

1, the landlord's misunderstanding lies in the opposition between starting a family and starting a career. In fact, the two are not contradictory, and there is no need to choose between them. At present, the main consideration of the landlord is to know people with vision and choose the right girl.

As a child of a poor family, it is not bad that the landlord can still struggle like this at the age of 27. The landlord should not blindly feel inferior. Many attractive people don't tighten the strings of life pressure.

3, 27 years old, for men now, it is not too late to get married. The landlord doesn't have to rush to find a marriage partner. It is better to walk slowly than to go the wrong way.

The landlord is also worried about the economic pressure after marriage. After marriage, it will cost a little more, but it can provide a comfortable rear for the landlord and let the landlord have more energy to struggle ahead, because the husband and wife can make some optimized combinations.

Suggestion:

1. Communicate well with your parents and speak your thoughts from the heart, so that you can understand and understand each other and avoid parents' anxiety from affecting your judgment.

2. Make friends with peaceful girls. Girls who can plant trees with the landlord are suitable for the landlord; A girl who only likes picking fruits and doesn't want to plant them is not suitable for a poor child like the landlord.

3. The economy is relaxed after marriage, and then consider the children.

4. Career is the foundation of being a man and cannot be abandoned.