How can I become more confident?

In fact, you can make yourself confident in a very simple way. If you are an introvert,

First, let yourself go and give full play to your advantages. Be good at discovering your own advantages and pay more attention to yourself. But don't make yourself so narcissistic, that's not good. )

Second, don't find a better friend than you. Although having a friend who is stronger than you will gain more or less, if you are always under him, you will feel inferior and lose confidence. Make a friend who is similar to you, but complementary in length. We can learn from each other, make progress with each other and have competition, but there won't be too much pressure. But don't learn to be jealous. This is an unhealthy mentality. You can be sincerely jealous, but you can't be jealous.

Third, I suggest you know more about yourself. You can look at Sina's constellation website and know your own advantages and disadvantages before you can improve yourself. At the same time, by doing some psychological tests, you will find a different you. When doing psychological tests, don't just look at the bad ones. Remember the good, don't look at the bad. You have to turn the bad into the good, or you will do it for nothing, and you will be even less confident. )

Fourth, learn to be content. When you have grievances in your heart, think more about the good places, don't get caught up in them, learn to open your heart and learn to be tolerant. Put yourself in someone else's shoes and think about what it would be like if you stood in your own shoes. Doing good will make you happy, figuring out one thing will make you happy, and forgiving someone will make you feel great, haha.

Fifth, the most important thing is that you should learn to be happy, learn to be optimistic, think of the good things first, and don't always think of the bad things. If you live happily, you won't care so much about unhappy things. In a good mood, people will naturally become confident.

I hope my experience will help you.