How to deal with Scorpio must first understand this truth.

How to deal with Scorpio must first understand this truth.

First of all, he is busy, your own business.

Love is just a part of life. Adults have their own work and life, so love will not occupy so much in life as in school. Falling in love with Scorpio can be sticky sometimes, and so will you after separation.

Looking back on that feeling, it's just that when everyone is not busy, my Scorpio man is busy most of the time. That kind of busy is not necessarily really busy at work, but he needs his own space after work. For example, he likes sleeping and watching TV, and there are other hobbies. If you happen to be in love with Scorpio and your work is not very busy, don't let yourself be too idle in your spare time. Find more hobbies or learn some skills to enrich your life.

This is not for you to pretend, but something you can really insist on doing. If you pretend, Scorpio will know sooner or later. Scorpio is really keen on being strong, and they will prefer people who are motivated rather than people who just stick to him all day.

Second, don't consume internally, but manage your emotions.

Why do I say management instead of control?

Because management is an appropriate expression of emotional relaxation, while control is to suppress emotions and not express their internal injuries externally.

I am a person with great emotional ups and downs. My last Scorpio boyfriend broke up because I was out of control. Because of the previous breakup experience, when I first got together with my present one, I paid great attention to controlling my emotions, that is to say, I often suppressed my emotions, and sometimes I always daydreamed, afraid to ask, and afraid to lose my temper with him, so it was really internal friction for a while.

Scorpio is not afraid of being abused, but don't think that they can do whatever they want. Sometimes, getting angry is just a small fight, but if it is a big deal, it must not be for no reason. You should be reasonable and well-founded, and you can't blame him just because you are emotional.

Scorpio, who is also a water sign, is also very sensitive to emotions, but his ability to bear emotions is not as strong as Pisces or Cancer, so if you often release negative emotions to him for no reason, your emotions will be more unstable than him, and he will be unbearable sooner or later.

Therefore, if you want to manage your emotions well, it is very important to improve your emotional awareness. It is important to express your emotions properly when quarreling. That's to let him know what he did wrong in this matter, but you're not making a mountain out of a molehill. After the quarrel, even if you are reasonable again, you should know enough is enough. When he knows that he is wrong, he will retreat. This is emotional management.

Third, we should have our own principles and not be afraid of losing him.

Although Scorpio wants a lover who can't beat and scold, once he does something that goes against your bottom line, you must be tougher than him, clearly tell him where your bottom line is, and let him know that you are a principled person. Even if you don't want to break up, this matter should leave a deep impression on him. Don't be afraid to lose him, dare not quarrel, dare not say so. This will only make him make mistakes indefinitely.

The phrase "a loving mother often defeats her child" can be used for boyfriends. Love rat is often cultivated by women. I used to be afraid of losing him after quarreling with him, but I took the initiative to make up every time. It was not until last year that I let him give him a good lesson.

Fourth, treat him sincerely and be yourself.

Don't always look at the content of people who write about how Scorpio likes it, just take them as the guide and try to turn yourself into what you think Scorpio likes. If you are not that kind of person, you can't be that kind of person.

Although people in the same constellation have some similarities, everyone's growth experience, family environment and astrolabe composition are different, so there will be many differences in personality. Others share only the experience of scorpions they have contacted, which does not mean that all scorpions are like this. Please look at the constellation rationally.

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Scorpio is good at hiding and disguising himself, but he doesn't like others to hide something from him. Actually, this is a projection. Because he is such a person, he won't want the other person to be such a person. Being sincere to him doesn't mean that you should always report to him, just don't deliberately deceive him and keep your own space like him.

Scorpio's love can stand the test of time, so you don't need to change yourself into what he likes, because even if you win his temporary love by pretending to be yourself, he will continue to observe you after being together, and only the true self can stand this long test.

To love someone is to accept who you really are and be able to be who you really are in front of them. People who have been trying to hide themselves from others, in fact, have not accepted their true selves, which can also be said to be inferiority complex, fearing that the other party will leave because they see their true side. If you are not confident to show your true self in front of Scorpio, why should others love you? You won't be with him for long.