Does Virgo have a serious daddy complex?

In fact, many girls like to marry their uncles. They think their uncle is safer, but in fact their "father-loving complex" is probably. A girl who loves her father, even an adult, can hardly liberate her feelings from her father, thus ignoring other members of the opposite sex and not passing on her feelings to other members of the opposite sex, and it is also difficult to establish a harmonious family, which is likely to lead to obstacles to sexual and psychological development. How should parents prevent and deal with their relationship?

First, let's look at the reasons.

First, fathers give their children more freshness, excitement and transcendence, and give them more passion. Mother's activities are often repetitive, monotonous and rigid.

Second, the father is more attractive and exciting to the body, and the mother is good at words, which gives comfort.

3. Most of the time, Dad plays with the baby, and in life, Mom mainly takes care of the baby. Children are more willing to play with their father and pursue novel exploration. I am willing to find my mother to comfort me when I am wronged.

How to prevent dad complex?

First of all, we should measure the intimacy between parents and children of the opposite sex.

The first child who came into contact with the opposite sex was his own opposite sex parents. From the perspective of children's psychological development, it is easiest to be attached to parents of the opposite sex when they are 3-5 years old. If parents live in harmony, their attachment to their children will be treated. Properly speaking, this trend can smoothly transition to a normal state. However, if parents don't realize that their children are young and have weak sexual awareness, and don't give them guidance and attention, problems may arise.

Second, encourage children to associate with the same sex of the same age.

Many parents worry that puppy love will affect their studies or cause problems. They often adopt a closed policy to restrict the interaction between children and heterosexual couples. Therefore, it may hinder the development of children's sexual psychology and turn sexual energy to heterosexual parents.