Are college students falling in love faster and faster?

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The word love is a one-on-one emotion among emotions. What about this one-on-one emotion? In fact, love is very much, but love is very little.

In other words, in life, not many people can really succeed in love. In this life, there is only one person who will always have his place in my heart, but he may not get married.

So I think true love can not get married, but I am very happy, because I like you psychologically and look at you happily.

Many times, we are actually making friends, which is also an emotion, but I think it is not enough to just fall in love, so some people will break up with you and make friends with others immediately.

Don't start dating, just make friends first. Making friends means that we are not that kind of relationship. We are friends. Finally, to a certain extent, this friendship means that two people are particularly comfortable together.

I'm not saying that I want to fall in love with you. It's just that I feel very comfortable with you. If I feel uncomfortable, I will break up. But we are good friends. I think this emotion is more mature, because he does have a question of whether he is worthy or not.

So among many young people, he thinks this is a kind of love, and I want to love myself. As a result, he doesn't know that love is actually a kind of giving and tolerance. Many people's love is "I want it".

Just like when I see jewelry, I feel that I really want it, but it's no use having you, you just want it. The less you get, the more you miss it. It doesn't matter if you really buy it back-CoCo Lee King

I still remember that people once loved each other. When they were our age, they often got along for a long time and showed a sense of shyness in their actions.

With awe of love, I explored carefully on this road, as if I could catch its tail vaguely, but it seemed far away.

Later, for the first time, I had a vague feeling about the opposite sex who had been together for a long time. For the first time, I felt very lost without seeing it. For the first time, I feel that I can't sleep because I miss each other.

He knows that she loves jiaozi with three fresh fillings, and she also knows that his favorite drink after playing basketball is Jianlibao.

After meeting, you can "get closer, get to know each other, and then slowly like each other." From strangeness to familiarity to liking, after losing passion and freshness, we can still accept and like each other when we see that they are not covered. This is the best interpretation of love.

But now it is rare and precious, and college students are falling in love faster and faster.

Because in college, most people don't have much patience to get to know a person deeply, starting with friends and going through every stage of their roles.

The scope and depth of chatting are limited to daily life, not from hobbies to childhood experiences, from three views of personality to the collision of living habits, thinking and concepts.

As soon as I joined a stranger of the opposite sex, I began to talk "many times" for several weeks. Only two or three times, you can get ambiguous, as if you hit it off.

Although there are still many unknowns in the other person, it seems to feel good, so I look around first and then consider whether I am suitable, as if I am filling the missing partner around me.

But this kind of love, supported only by the passion of the soul, comes and goes in a hurry, and the enthusiasm for a person can quickly rise or cool down.

There are many people in college who can't stand being lonely for a while, so it is easier and more hasty to fall in love.

We began to ignore the results that need time to precipitate, and chose to start a relationship quickly-this has become the pursuit of more people.

Coupled with the influence and persecution of the environment, it is a shame and shame to watch people around you find partners one after another, both envious and feeling as if they have not found a boyfriend/girlfriend.

As a result, the first love broke out one after another, and after the lovelorn love, the next paragraph began again and again, either to heal the wounds of the previous paragraph, or to be unaccustomed to a person's life, or just to talk about it.

This feeling is like chewing gum. Once the taste is weak, spit it out and chew a new one.

After all, we are still in a gaudy age, and we don't have so many guarantees. We can maintain a loyal heart and long-term responsible patience. We can swear that "I will definitely marry you" and even consider the future.

At present, we are just looking for beautiful, happy and pure experiences and feelings, which may be immature, casual or just imagined.

But "fast food" is an option. Only when you have tasted the pleasure of easy gain and loss will you understand the value of your lover and discover your immaturity and inadequacy.

During college, it is best if we can make persistent efforts, devote ourselves to studying and making money, enjoy the fruits of love in our spare time and explore the secrets between the two sexes.

Fast-food love is short-lived, but it is not without growth. You can also reflect after failure, learn to care and take care of each other, and weigh the proportion of love in life.

I hope that when you have experienced, liked, been crazy and suffered, you can understand better that there is no right answer to love, and you are pursuing the best gift for yourself.

Other people's opinions and suggestions are not the most important to you. More importantly, you are constantly experiencing and changing on this endless road.