I helped my friend worry, and finally complained, which made me feel very unhappy. What should I do?

I helped my friend worry, and finally complained, which made me feel very unhappy. What should I do? Then you should take care of other people's housework. Some things, once you help them, they will eventually get together to talk about you and mind your own business. But once you stop helping, you will say, why didn't you help me or something in the first place?

So, some things just stay out of it. If something is wrong, hide first.

I helped my friend worry, but finally I complained, which made me feel very unhappy. In fact, we have the same experience. We always don't want our friends to go bad, but they are always ungrateful, so when you get married, you will know that managing yourself is a good choice.

I feel very unhappy because I haven't received any information from my girlfriend these days. What should I do? You don't have to love someone, but if you have someone, you must love him well! ! When you have experienced love and being loved and learned to love, you will know what you need and find the person who suits you best and can get along with you for a lifetime. But sadly, in real life, people who really love each other may not be together for various reasons; Your favorite often won't choose you; What loves you most is often not what you love most; And the longest is not your favorite, nor is it your favorite. Only the person who appears at the most appropriate time is really with you forever! No one wants to change his mind on purpose. He really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't. If he loves you, he can't pretend not to love you. Similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you should ask yourself if you still love him or her. If you don't love him or her, don't refuse to leave for poor self-esteem. If you still love him (her), you should hope that he (she) is happy and that he (she) is with the person he (she) really loves. You will never stop him (her) from getting real happiness, that is to say, you don't love him (her) anymore. If you don't love him or her, who are you to accuse him or her of changing his or her mind? Love is not possession! ! ! You like stars, it is impossible to take them down and put them in the washbasin, but the light of stars can still shine into your room. In other words, if you love someone, you can have it in another way, and make your lover an eternal memory in your life. If you really love a person, you should love him for what he really is-love his good, love his bad; love his good, love his bad. You mustn't want him to be what you want just because you love him. If you can't, you won't love him. You can't say why you really love someone. You only know that whenever and wherever you are in a good mood, you want this person to accompany you. True love is that two people can stay together in the most difficult time, but there is no requirement at all. After all, feelings must be paid, not just wanted; Separation is an inevitable test. If your relationship is not stable enough, you have to give up. True love does not turn into resentment. When two people are in love, they like to ask each other to swear and make promises. Why do we want each other to swear is because we don't trust each other, and we don't trust lovers at all. These vows of eternal love are unrealistic. Nothing can change my love for you! Know that the sea will not dry up, the stone will not rot, the land will not be old, and the sky will not be barren; Even if I knew, I wouldn't live to that time. When making a promise, be careful not to make a promise that can be achieved. You might as well promise something you can't do. It doesn't matter if you can't do it anyway. Please remember: "The promise that cannot be fulfilled is the most touching." In love, you say one thing and do another. The speaker doesn't believe, the listener doesn't believe ... who did you meet in the vast sea of people? Who met you again?

My colleagues always criticize me. What should I do? If you don't give yourself trouble, others will never give you trouble. Because of my heart, I can't let go. Be sincere to everyone, even if this person is your enemy.

How can a friend who is misunderstood and in a bad mood adjust himself, stretch himself and entertain himself?

Then solve the misunderstanding, some things still need to be explained.

My husband's parents are a little eccentric, which makes me very unhappy. The first thing I should do is to put my mind right. Even if your husband's parents treat you equally, you will feel biased. You will feel good to you unless you are much better than your husband. Moreover, even if they are brothers, parents are sometimes biased. The so-called eccentricity is normal, sometimes it is eccentric, but basically all children will think that they are suffering, and their parents are eccentric to others. Actually, I'm still asking too much of myself. Actually, you don't need your husband's parents to be partial to you. They are all adults, you can take care of yourself. You can't always expect the love of your elders. At this time, you should give love to your elders and be filial to them. You really feel uncomfortable, at least be polite. Be content and calm, so that you can actually be happy.

I feel very unhappy when my boyfriend stood me up. What should I do? Things happened very smoothly.

At least from this matter, you can probably know:

Your boyfriend doesn't think before he speaks. It's too easy to change his plan. It's the minimum respect to inform you in advance that his plan has changed.

Are you angry when you see the above?

If you think what I said above makes sense, then I think you need to calm down first

Unless you want to be more unhappy with him, you must calm down and think about whether he is so careless at ordinary times.

If he is not a careful person, it is nothing strange, just a gentle reminder to let him pay attention in the future.

If you think I blame your boyfriend too much, congratulations, you don't really blame him in your heart.

It's not too late for you to love him

So forgive him and tolerate him.

I'm in a bad mood now, so I don't need to punish myself with other people's mistakes. Smile, perhaps, that smile will enter someone's scenery, someone's heart.

One of my colleagues is very dissatisfied with me. What should I do? People don't attack me, I don't attack. If people attack me, I will attack! What bothers you depends on the problem. If it's work, be careful not to let others catch you. If it's life, you can tell her not to interfere in your private space. This kind of person, she will get better if she tries hard once.

My boyfriend always complains that I seldom accompany him. What should I do? The best state is often that two people seem to forget that they are in love.

To put it simply, it's not tiring, effortless, deliberate, pondering or entangled, just be content with the status quo.