Why can't Luo Zijun accept the breakup of Lao Luo Jinzijun in my first half of life?

Although Luo Zijun is divorced, his social circle has not changed. Although he is not as rich as before, he can still talk with people like Tang Jing and He Han. But, Kim, I'm afraid he really belongs to another world.

On one occasion, for Laojin's birthday, Luo Zijun invited Tang Jing and He Han to have dinner together. As a result, the three of them talked about Tang Jing's trip to Hong Kong, but Laojin couldn't get a word in. As a result, the water in the cup was finished, and he reluctantly asked the waiter to "pour some water", which was simply embarrassing.

Laojin knew it himself, so he later told Zijun: I won't go to this kind of party in the future.

Wouldn't it be embarrassing if Luo Zijun remarried with Laojin? Her husband is with her best friend and can't even speak. After all, it is not a circle. After marriage, they probably won't have much in common except cooking, cooking and raising children.

Another important difference between the two is that Laojin is particularly traditional, and even feels a little inferior in front of Zijun, which makes Zijun somewhat depressed.

Once they were going on a date, Zijun wore an old dress of several thousand yuan. At first glance, Laojin thought it was too expensive to hold. Although it's just a matter of clothes, you can change it or not, but behind it is a huge difference between two people, destined to be different people and different lives.

Therefore, even if a woman is divorced and still has children, she can't just find someone who is good to herself to marry. As Tang Jing said: Do people have to promise each other if they are nice?

After all, Lao Jin climbed Luo Zijun, but Luo Zijun could not make do with the happiness of the rest of his life.

Laojin has been actively pursuing, courting and showing kindness, but Luo Zijun just accepted it blindly, thinking that Laojin was good and reliable, and tried to accept Laojin, thinking that it was a gift from God for the rest of her life.

In reality, many women divorce and have children, and feel that they are like second-hand goods in the marriage and love market and will be sold cheaply. But this is not the case. Marriage is not a sale, but a lifetime of happiness. If you accept someone you don't like so much just to make do, and find it inappropriate after being together, it's not worth the candle.

Tang Jing said to Luo Zijun: Do you want to accept Laojin? Ask not your brain, ask your heart. Because the brain says "fit", it is only suitable for life, and only the heart says "good" is true love.

Luo Zijun also knows that she just thinks Laojin is good and doesn't really like him.

I didn't find it really suitable until I started dating. Finally, Luo Zijun spoke his mind: with you, you are unhappy and I am depressed.

Therefore, Lao Jin is destined to be just an episode in Luo Zijun's life. It is also good to have the warmth of such a man in the down and out days after divorce. But it will be hard to walk all your life.