Five characteristics of enlightened people

Five characteristics of enlightened people

Enlightened people look the same as before. They look as innocent as babies, but they are fundamentally different!

True innocence is not born innocence, but innocence after vicissitudes.

True optimism is not innate optimism, but staying optimistic after experiencing darkness.

The meanness of ordinary people is mediocrity, and the meanness of masters is to deliberately make themselves look mean after being smart, that is, "extremely bright and moderate."

This is why enlightened people look so simple.

The following are five characteristics of an enlightened person, which you must remember.

1, dimension reduction communication

When you meet someone, he can understand your situation, respect your views and positions, and make you feel comfortable. But when you want to communicate with him further, you will find that he is always elusive. He seems to be separated from you by a veil, which shows that he is communicating with you in dimensionality reduction. Dimensionality reduction includes two skills: upper compatibility and lower compatibility, and left-right harmony:

"Up-down compatibility" means that you can adjust your dimension to be equal to the other party before starting a dialogue. Always be on the same frequency with people of different levels.

"Left-right harmony refers to being able to quickly find the perspective of the other party's thinking, without any prejudice, and even being able to switch freely between secular right and wrong.

Therefore, the higher the incubation rate, the more comfortable people are. Their elephants are invisible, just like a light rain on a spring night. Their caves are silent and make people feel as comfortable as the spring breeze. Comfortable, a person's top personality charm, but also top life wisdom.

2. Thinking about the upgrade dimension

Einstein said: with this level of thinking, it is difficult to solve this level of problems. In other words, the problem of this dimension can only be found if it rises to the previous dimension. The answer is always one dimension higher than the question. The best breakthrough in life is to improve your own dimension.

For example, when we want to learn "Marketing", if we buy all kinds of books about marketing to learn.

This is the wrong way. At this time, we should learn "strategy" because "the road to war" is one dimension higher than "marketing". Only by looking at marketing from a strategic perspective can we truly understand marketing.

"Value" is one dimension higher than "emotion". The essence of marriage and love is an "emotional exchange" and the essence is a "value exchange"

Many people are fine when they are in love, but once they get married, they will have problems because these are two different dimensions. This logic is widely used in various fields.

3: No label

Humans call what can be seen through law and what can't be seen through fate. In fact, in the eyes of enlightened people, everything can be followed, and the essence and trend can be seen along the appearance.

But because people in the past can't do this, they can only draw conclusions with the thinking of labels. For example, why do many people like to exchange constellations?

Because they can't observe a person's essence and nature in a short time, they can only understand a person by asking the constellations and interpret each other's character and disposition.

This is to use * * * sex instead of personality, become a preconceived idea, and label a person. This is equivalent to ignoring everyone's personality. You know, even people born in the same month and the same place in the same year will have very different fates.

An enlightened person can judge a person's essence and nature through his speech and behavior in a short time, so as to gain insight into his past and future, and there is no need to ask him any horoscope at all. Of course, this requires extremely high strength.

4. One of the most typical manifestations of people who have high demands on themselves and low enlightenment on others is that they have high demands on themselves and low demands on others.

There are three realms for people to do things: first, they don't respect themselves, but ask others to do it; Second: Let others do it when they arrive. The third type: just do it yourself, without others.

Ordinary people always ask others, while enlightened people only ask themselves.

The higher a person's realm is, the higher he demands of himself and the less he demands of others.

The lower a person's realm, the lower his requirements for himself and the higher his requirements for others, so we all like to get in touch with high-dimensional people because they are strict with themselves and tolerant of others.

Do as you would be done by. And many people are very Liu Qing to others, but have no requirements for themselves.

5. Have strong ambition.

When a person has a high dimension, it is easier to find the meaning and purpose of life, and these far-reaching, firm and valuable things will offset a lot of our current pain. As the saying goes, people who have no long-term worries will have near worries.

The same logic: once a person has long-term concerns, there will be no near worries. Become a long-term, you can postpone meeting.

When a person's dimension is low, he can't see the long-term value, nor can he set a long-term route and goal, but can only focus on the immediate effect. Every effort needs to be rewarded, even if it is haggle over every ounce. Can only be short-termists, need to be satisfied immediately.

In the long run, people will become more and more impatient, lose attention to anyone and everything, and their anxiety will become bigger and more superficial, so they can only live in anxiety with their present entertainment.