How does sims 2 choose a good lifelong wish?

When setting characters, there are options that affect SIMER, such as task desire and constellation personality. At first glance, I know that the landlord's option is "prestige", which requires extensive socialization. In addition to prestige, there are options such as affection, romance, knowledge and money, and each option has different requirements. Generally speaking, I am a family villain, and I generally need the interaction between husband and wife and children. So it's not difficult to maintain relationships. Moreover, for the character itself, if the options of "curious" and "lively" are high, SIMER will have a lot of dynamics, and sometimes it will not keep up with SIMER's desire to become lower ~, generally speaking, I personally think that Scorpio and lion (Aries is the most lively) are suitable for boys, and girls choose Virgo because they will be willing to do housework ~