Are you jealous that your best friend is better off than you?

In this society, there are all kinds of people alive, some are silent, some are funny, some are healthy, some are wonderful and some are strange, because the human heart is the most complicated and unpredictable thing, and it is an inevitable physiological phenomenon that wisdom and intelligence develop to a high level.

There are no pure good people and no pure bad people. Only a certain decision made in a certain place and put into action will lead to unpredictable and unknown results, and then we can judge whether the decision is right or wrong afterwards.

Everyone has a competitive spirit, which is the nature of animals and the survival ability endowed by nature. The world is a jungle, with natural selection. If you don't work hard for it, you may be taken away by others and then eliminated naturally.

So many people want to get better and stronger, have more and better things, and don't want others to get better and stronger, because that will affect their own interests, that is to say, they can't see others getting better, but some people have a good mentality and can get through it. Some people have a bad mentality, don't want others to get better, live a good life, and curse and resent something. This is called jealousy.

People who like to envy others have a bad mentality. They always like comparison, hoping to compare others. This is a negative attitude, which may hurt others as well as yourself.

I won't be jealous that my good friend is better off than me. I have a better attitude. I will envy my good friend and live a nourishing life. At the same time, I will bless her life now. But I won't compete with her. I will accept my imperfections, explore my strengths, or learn various skills, and then change my life through these, so that I can live a good and comfortable life. Jealousy can't bring itself.