Why do you say, get married early and love can't last long?

Many people say that they should get married as early as possible, and they should not be in love for too long. I think this view and distance have the same effect. There is a difference between marriage and love. At first, when you are in love, you are full of freshness. Looking at each other's every move, I feel incomparable appreciation and love. After a long time, this feeling will gradually fade away. If you don't get married when the relationship is relatively stable, you probably won't get married in the future.

It is said that distance produces beauty, especially in love. Two people fall in love for one year is a passionate period, and two to three years is a dull period. If it takes a long time, you may find this relationship boring, and it is very likely that the relationship between two people will be in crisis. If you talk about love for too long, the timeline will be too long, which will make two people lose their freshness in their emotional life and have less expectations for marriage. Two people who were originally in love are likely to leave.

The right person doesn't need a long test. For many people, it only takes a glance to judge whether this person is the right person. So as long as you are sure that the other person is the one you want to spend your life with, don't spend so much time and energy testing the other person. In love, you have to give each other a promise to make them stick to this relationship. If you can't see the result of this relationship, many people will be disheartened. If two people only fall in love and don't get married, as many people say, love without marriage purpose is hooliganism.

If two people have been in love for a long time, experienced a passionate period and a dull period, they are still willing to be with each other even without commitment and marriage. Marriage doesn't mean much to them, because no matter what happens, they will never leave each other. Marriage is only the difference between legal and illegal for these two people.