What influence does Liu Mei's personality have on children's growth in Family with Children?

Liu Mei's personality makes children happy and sunny!

13 years ago, many people who watched this TV series would only pay attention to the story from the perspective of a child. Now, we might as well look at the play from the perspective of parents and experts. What enlightenment can Xia Donghai, the cat father, and Liu Mei, the tiger mother, give us in dealing with the whole family relationship and children's education? First of all, Tiger Mother Liu Mei plays the role of "red face" in the family. She has a bad temper and tries hard to solve it, but she is full of love for her children. Xia Donghai, the cat's father, plays the role of "white face" at home. Whenever mom loses her temper and starts hitting people, dad will always stop it for the first time. Educate children in ideological aspects through sparse but not blocked education methods.

I have to admit, in my opinion, this family education combination is a perfect state. One is to solve everything by force, and children must absolutely obey and do it. One is to communicate and educate children under compulsion to help them realize their mistakes and correct them in time. Under such circumstances, children will not become obedient and obedient because of the violence of tiger mother education, gradually lose their independent thinking ability, dare not express their personal views, lose their independent personality, live within the framework of adult painting, and eventually lose themselves and become problem children who can only listen and do. In this kind of family, children will not become rebellious and uncontrollable because the cat father is gentle and sensible and won't lose his temper.

In the whole play, the family is shaped into a warm harbor, and education is obtained through the friction between parents and children, thus affecting the healthy growth of children. Family education is children's first school, and parents are children's first teachers. Through this drama, I have three experiences to share with you here:

The first one: in children's education, the distribution of parental roles is very important. The combination of tiger mom and cat dad is perfect. We can do it in children's education, but we can relax and tighten it, and we can put it away freely to ensure that children do not cross the line and are not educated.

The second point: Family is a warm harbor. In the children's recurring problems, parents solve the problems encountered at that time through communication and analysis. Through the handling of these problems, let children understand some truth and know the importance of parents. Instead of treating the family as a school-style educational place, blindly instilling truth and losing the warmth of the family.

The third point: the advantages and disadvantages of accepting children. Liu Xing is naughty, Xiao Yu likes to play and eat, and Xiao Xue is obedient and smart. Every child has small advantages and disadvantages, and can live in the same family without the acceptance and recognition of parents. This reminds me of a sentence that mothers don't think their children are ugly. Only when parents sincerely accept their children's advantages and disadvantages can they cultivate a perfect and excellent child.