Constellation analysis is too accurate _ what should I do if constellation analysis is too accurate?

According to my observation, the constellation is really accurate. Why is it so accurate?

Many people believe in constellations, which I found incredible before I studied psychology. Since I learned psychology, my waist and legs have stopped hurting, and I have the strength to expose its essence.

We must start with the meaning of life. Many people have been engaged in a seemingly simple thing all their lives, but some people have not finished it until their death-"finding themselves." In fact, in a sense, life is a process of finding ourselves, especially people of our age are very eager to find themselves. What kind of person am I? This kind of psychology is called "identity crisis". But often the search process will be very bumpy, and there are many lazy people. What should I do? So the constellation came into people's field of vision with longing.

Noun explanation: identity erisis The crisis of individual development in the fifth stage of Erickson's theory of psychological and social development (that is, adolescence). In the process of seeking self-identity, teenagers are confused about themselves and their way of life, which is often accompanied by excited emotions and attempts to get rid of difficulties. Some people may have temporary or long-term identity confusion, that is, they lack a clear sense of identity with themselves, are unclear or unwilling to consider their personal qualities, goals, roles and values, and even have not "discovered themselves"; Some people may make all kinds of strange or risky behaviors and even illegal behaviors in trial and error; Some people feel that the social environment hinders or deprives them of the possibility of gaining recognition, so they gain recognition with people they have contacted who are not recognized by the social and cultural environment, or even dangerous people, in order to resist the society and gain social recognition. In adulthood, this kind of crisis may still happen again or many times.

The constellation is like a god with a 12 basket on his back. His whole body is glittering and his hands are open: "Help others find themselves for free!" ! Free! After this village, there is no such shop! You can't miss passing by! "Foolish people jumped into their baskets one by one, so-you were cheated. ...

The reader said, "Husband! But why is my personality similar to the constellation? " "Look at your elegant manners, decent clothes and melancholy eyes-are you a Libra?" The reader was surprised. "What if you are not a heaven? How did this happen? "

Take Libra as an example. (digression, this "scale" is clearly pronounced as four tones, and many people have to pronounce it as "flat", except for individual scales. )

Libra's friends are very close, like to listen to others and have strong communication skills, but the biggest problem is indecision. They demand a balance in everything, and maintaining a deep relationship with others is his goal in life. They are most likely to feel lonely, and their hearts are often empty. There are many handsome guys and beautiful women.

Anyone who looks at the constellation for the first time will feel the same way. Wow! What the fuck is this? That's me! How accurate!

My friends are excellent. I have many friends, all of whom are very close to me! Hesitant, yes, yes! That's right. When things happen, I will hesitate. I wanted to buy something XX days ago, but I thought about it for a long time and finally gave up. At that time, I wanted to confess to XX. As a result, I thought about it for half a year. She married someone else. Yes! It's that I feel lonely most easily. I'm always lonely. I was lonely the day before yesterday, and I was lonely five days ago. Yes, I was lonely a week ago. I am a lonely brother!

Actually, it's not like this. Psychologically speaking, when you see a message in the constellation, your memory is opened. It will be easier for you to remember what your subconscious wants to remember more. Yes, subconsciously you want the constellation to be right, because you have an "identity crisis". So you only see your friends and don't remember those who hate you. You only remember the things you hesitated, but you don't remember how decisive and crisp you were when you chased your current girlfriend. You only remember your brief loneliness, but you don't remember that you were drinking downstairs with some buddies and someone called the police ... that's how people are. There may be only a few things that can prove the constellation, but you firmly remember it, but there may be more negative events, and you unconsciously choose to forget it. I can only say that this is a typical self-deception.

Another reader said, then why is Libra so elegant and there are so many handsome guys and beautiful women? Aren't these things born?

This brings us another psychological phenomenon, called "gaze effect". To put it bluntly, it is called psychological inertia. When you believe in the constellation, you will find Libra elegant and handsome. So you pay attention to his elegance all day, even if he is not elegant, he is elegant, and pay attention to what this person looks satisfied with all day. He looks good, so he stares at it and his nose looks good, so he is handsome.

Noun explanation: gaze effect, functional gaze psychology refers to that it is difficult for a person to see other new uses after seeing a common function or connection. If the function he sees first is more important, it is more difficult to see its other uses. The main reason is that people's vision and psychology are limited, and it is difficult to find other new uses of an object because of its common influence, which restricts thinking and hinders the solution of problems.

There is also Libra who feels handsome all day and pays special attention to his appearance. He puts a mask on his face every day, makes a cucumber face lift, and his little hair is full of energy. The ancients said that people can dress better by clothes than by not dressing. So Libra is handsome again ... which is another reason why the constellation is accurate. Inertia psychology is the fixation effect. In fact, snobs and racial discrimination are more or less the same. ...

And the most terrible thing is that the constellation will limit people. That's why I can guess the constellation of the first official. Subconsciously, you have established a model for yourself by using the constellation, so you have entered the psychological state of "self-witness and prediction", and all your behaviors and habits will have this shadow. For example, you are not very lazy, but the constellation says you are lazy. So you start to feel lazy, and slowly you become really lazy. If all the constellations are good, we will all live better and better. The key is that foreign ancestors don't know the scientific truth, which will increase the fatal weakness of each constellation's personality. So we have "attribution". In other words, people who don't believe in constellations have shortcomings. If they find out, they will feel anxious and try to correct them. People who are fascinated by constellations will "externally attribute" everything. Anyway, the constellation says that I am like this, and I can't change it. Let's do it. This is very dangerous.

Noun explanation: self-fulfilling prophecy means that people will unconsciously act according to the known prophecy and finally make it happen. For example, if you think you are not reading the material, even if you have time, you won't spend it on review, because you think you can't understand it after reading it. The exam turned out to be a mess, and then you said to yourself, "But I'm not cut out for reading!" " "The explanation of this concept in management is that when someone tells you that you can't get along with this subordinate, you will unconsciously pick on the other person's shortcomings: his eyes are narrow, his nose is flat, his scalp is flat, and he may talk a lot of nonsense. The more he looks at it, the less pleasing it is. As a result, everyone was negative because of trivial things, and they could not cooperate at all. The prediction came true. On the contrary, if you believe that your subordinates are capable, you will naturally give them more opportunities to play and you will tolerate his mistakes. As a result, he will live up to your expectations and become an excellent and capable person.

Constellations are just some simple astrological entertainment. Don't let these things affect your destiny. People who believe in constellations are deceiving themselves, not looking for themselves through astrology.

Now that God's 12 basket has been taken away, you have to choose whether to leave the basket or stay in it. There are only two kinds of people. One is to pull back from the cliff, turn back to the shore, put down the butcher knife and become a Buddha. I will never be superstitious about constellations again. The world is so big, grandpa, I will go any way! There are still some people in the basket who keep scolding me. Why is swelling so annoying? Psychology is so annoying! You've made this so clear, what will I play in the future! No, I have been immersed in the constellation for so many years, and I can't live without it. Just pretend you didn't see this article! So you lied to yourself again. In this case, after scientific experience, you can't do anything about your horoscope and get deeper and deeper. Later, after repeated experiences, your horoscope was upgraded again and again, getting deeper and deeper, and finally you couldn't get out.