Who is a constellation with a flood of good people, but often rejected by people?

Cancer. Cancer is kind by nature and is afraid of bringing a little trouble and trouble to others. When there is a contradiction in communication, Cancer always habitually blames itself, but Cancer is too sensitive but has strong self-esteem. He will carefully observe the mood of everyone around him. If he receives the signal of "unfriendly", he can only pretend to be calm on the surface, and his heart is full of unwillingness and regret.

Cancer is always passive in a relationship. He seldom cares about his inner thoughts and feelings. Instead, he pays special attention to another person's "what will he think", "what will he do" and "will it bother him too much" He is always pandering, always speculating. On the contrary, the other party will think that Cancer is very independent and has no ideas. In fact, cancer is simple

When there is a contradiction, it is easy for cancer to regard itself as a victim, because long-term self-repression in a relationship has not made the relationship better. At this moment, Cancer is really wronged. What is more tragic is that he doesn't know how to resolve the contradiction, which can only make the contradiction bigger and bigger. Cancer's kindness may not be so comfortable for the other person, but it will be very stressful.

Cancer's kindness makes him have a strong spirit of sacrifice, but cancer is a bit greedy, so it will care about emotions. For example, if you go out to play with others but don't call it Cancer, or if you associate with others but don't communicate with Cancer, it will make Cancer think and guess whether you don't care about him or don't treat him as a friend in the first place. So Cancer will be hot and cold, but you have no idea about the inner drama directed and performed by Cancer. Cancer, who is full of grievances, was originally a victim, but a silent cancer can easily make you feel inexplicable and deviant.

In fact, cancer just wants to be needed. As long as you can show it, as long as he can feel it, and he is sure that you will not leave him, he will dedicate himself to you.