Emotional intelligence is not low, it is good to refuse others' four constellations.

In life, in addition to actively helping others, in fact, sometimes you need to learn to refuse others' help. However, many people learn to understand other people's difficulties, but they don't learn to refuse other people's unreasonable demands, which leads to their embarrassment. See which of the twelve constellations will refuse people the most!

Aquarius: Not used to others.

Aquarius people are warm-hearted, but they never let their goodwill and enthusiasm become cheap. Therefore, when it comes to helping others, we will not be stingy with goodwill; Aquarius people dare to explicitly refuse others when they shouldn't help them. Moreover, Aquarius people can find many excuses every time they refuse others, which makes people even have no reason to blame them.

In Aquarius's mind, it takes courage to refuse people, and elegant refusal needs to pay attention to methods. Especially for some people who have a good relationship, Aquarius will find sufficient reasons when rejecting each other. Whether these reasons are prevarication or perfunctory, at least you can refuse others without bothering them. And this ability to reject people is also a manifestation of their high emotional intelligence.

Leo: Not afraid of offending people.

Leo people like to help others, but they don't intend to be the suckers in others' mouths. People who deserve help, they rarely refuse each other's help; But those unworthy, Leo people dare to refuse each other. And what Leo refuses is that people don't like beating around the bush, and what they can't do won't get them into trouble. Even if you refuse to offend others, you are willing to bear the consequences.

For Leo, rejecting people is also an ability. Although it will be awkward to refuse people, it will even easily affect each other's friendship, but Leo people hate being treated as big heads or good people. So they don't lack the ability to refuse others when they encounter help beyond their capacity or when they encounter something they don't want to promise.

Gemini: Follow your heart.

Gemini people are helpful on the one hand, but they never encourage others to push their luck. If they are willing to help, they will definitely help to the end; But Gemini people are good at rejecting others when they don't want to get involved. Because their emotional intelligence is not low, they are also very particular about methods when rejecting people, which makes people feel the difficulty and sincerity of Gemini people when they are rejected.

For Gemini, rejecting people is a science in itself. In addition to having a certain emotional intelligence to avoid formality, you need enough courage to face up to your heart. Only by following your true feelings can you not satisfy all the requests for help and learn to refuse others at the right time.

Scorpio: well-founded

Scorpio people actually have high emotional intelligence, but they just hate the balanced social way. So they know how to reject others and take the initiative to stay away from social relationships that are not suitable for them. However, because of their high emotional intelligence and good cultivation, they don't want to fall into the trap, so every time they refuse a person, they will be well-founded and let people clearly feel the specific reasons for being rejected.

For Scorpio, whether to refuse others or explicitly refuse is a choice after weighing the relationship between the two sides. It's not that emotional intelligence is low, so that Scorpio people can be justified even if they refuse, and even if others know it is an excuse, they can't find a reason to blame Scorpio people. Therefore, Scorpio's way of rejecting people has always been very clever, at least it will not embarrass itself.

In short, learning to refuse is also a very powerful ability. For people in the above constellations, they never lack the ability to reject others, and they also know how to express their strength and rejection in the way that suits them best. Whether they embody elegance and emotional intelligence or their own principles, they can reasonably refuse others in the most appropriate way.