I'm a girl, and my mother wants me to stay at home and recruit a door-to-door son-in-law, okay? People who are willing to come to the door can't find a wife?

There are two kinds of people who are willing to be door-to-door sons-in-law. The first one is introduced by the matchmaker, which is generally problematic. It may be that the family is poor (my hometown is in a remote mountainous area, my parents are in poor health, there are too many sons at home, and the economic situation is not good), or it may be that the boys themselves have no skills, can't make big money, have a kind (soft) personality and have no opinions. In this case, the general family situation of girls is better than that of boys.

The second is the understanding of free love. Boys are willing to make sacrifices for girls.

Let's talk about the disadvantages: son-in-law often means that boys have to move their hukou to girls' homes, and they have to go back to girls' homes more often on holidays and call girls' fathers and grandfathers. If the conditions between the two sides are too different, girls' families will look down on boys a little. His hometown is in the countryside, and he will not buy a house for his children in the city immediately in the first few years of marriage, for fear that the boy will regret the divorce after seeing the outside world clearly. Boys can pat their asses and leave without anything, while girls have to take care of their children and support their families. At that time, they will go to see their former friends and classmates, and everyone will start to change their small rooms into big rooms and exchange old cars for new ones. This feeling, hehe. .

I am. My boyfriend, who is in free love, agrees to have two children in the future. One is named after our family, but my family doesn't agree. I must find my son-in-law, and let the boy move his registered permanent residence to our home and come back to our home for the Chinese New Year. After strong opposition at home, we broke up, and then introduced me to a married boy with a history of lung disease at home. I hope I can quit my job and go home and live with that boy for a while. Then I went to the man's house for a while, and then I got my license. Go to the city where boys work next year, and go home to drink on May Day or National Day next year. My family will take turns to enlighten me every day, hoping that I will not be resisted. At that time, I will understand that everyone is just worried about whether I can accept this arrangement happily. As for the others, oh. I promised, for the rest of my life, I will exchange a disobedient daughter for an excellent son with a different surname.

Generally speaking, the most acceptable thing for a boy is to have two children, one with his mother's surname, but the complete door-to-door son-in-law gives them the feeling that everything he does is for the woman's family. A boy can work hard for his own woman, but it's boring to work hard for that girl and her parents.

How difficult it is for a girl to marry a boy's family, and the life of a boy as a door-to-door son-in-law will only be more difficult.

Just be happy, don't study.