How to be a confident girl

1. It's none of my business.

It's none of my business that the leader passed you by, told his colleagues to ignore you, and sent a long message to his boyfriend. The world is not centered on me, and misfortune is not centered on me, so it doesn't have that much special significance. The more you think about it, the easier it is to lose confidence.

2. Huang Po thinking

Huang Po sells melons, boasting. I don't even praise myself. Who else can I expect to praise me? Praise a word every day, "Zhu Zhu is great", and give yourself more positive hints, and you will gradually become better and more confident.

Step 3 say don't think

Don't want to do things, don't want to stay in the environment, and always dare not speak because of inferiority and sensitivity? Be bold, be decisive and say "no". Don't be afraid that something bad will happen in the future. Things are far from as bad as you think. Being rejected is a very happy thing.

4. Love your own thinking

Don't wait for others to spoil, love yourself. Don't care too much about other people's derogatory comments, whether they are worth it or not is not for others to decide. Learn to identify with your own good side and encourage yourself more. For example, when your boyfriend hates you being lazy, you can say, but I have a diligent boyfriend. Know the wisdom of others.

5. Think more.

Many times, self-distrust often comes from having too little and being afraid of losing, so I am humble. Take time to write down what you have, go out more, visit the park, visit the bookstore and experience more things. After life becomes colorful, you won't envy others, wronged yourself and be afraid of losing.

Think slowly

Confidence doesn't happen overnight. Don't go to see some successful studies and try to reach the peak of life overnight. Too high a goal can easily dampen our self-confidence. The premise of self-confidence is to know yourself objectively and be healthy.

Reduce expectations, start with small goals that are dismantled one by one, and accumulate a sense of accomplishment.

7. Giraffe thinking

Don't always stab yourself in the heart with a short board. No one is perfect and gold is not enough. Most people's self-confidence comes from their own strength, and many people can talk in Kan Kan, Kan Kan when they are familiar with their fields of expertise. Therefore, what we have to do is not to master everything, but to polish some aspects that we are good at better, so as to cultivate a steady stream of self-confidence.

Step 8 start thinking

Don't be too confident and don't say anything. When you encounter a difficult thing, try to say "this thing is too difficult for me to do" at the beginning, and try to write it down and break it down into several small things. What are the difficulties and solutions? Remember, the difficulty can be reduced, and the first step of difficulty is often not that difficult.

9. Flower thinking

Be more beautiful and confident. Few people in the world don't care about skin. Dress up clean and fresh, draw an eyebrow, put on some lipstick, and walk out of the door fresh and decent. Do you feel a little happy when someone praises you for your beauty? In the applause of flowers, it is really hard for someone not to be confident.

10. Gaze at thinking

When talking to others, pay more attention to their glasses. Bow your head and be complacent, look up and feel inferior, and only look up and be content. Look into each other's eyes, and you will find that chatting is not so difficult and self-confidence is not so far away.

1 1. Small talk thinking

Talking more can really boost confidence! Don't be afraid to speak in a crowd, speak your mind boldly, and don't be afraid to make mistakes. After talking too much, I gradually became confident and good at communication.

12. Training thinking

It's not shameful to do something that you didn't dare to do before, such as chatting up a few times. As long as you do it, you will find that it doesn't seem so difficult. Doing more novel things can also stimulate self-confidence.