Advise him not to be complacent and stagnate.

1. Heaven is healthy, and gentlemen are constantly striving for self-improvement. -Zhouyi

As a gentleman, one should have a strong will, a never-ending spirit of struggle, strive to strengthen one's self-cultivation and complete and develop one's studies or career. Only in this way can we reflect God's will and live up to the responsibility and talent entrusted to a gentleman by the universe. )

2. Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good. -History of the Three Kingdoms

Don't do anything just because it is a trivial matter; On the contrary, for some tiny. Don't stop doing a good thing that benefits others just because it doesn't mean much. )

It's better to see the bad than the good, just like exploring the soup. -The Analects of Confucius

When you meet a good man, you are afraid that it is too late to learn from him. Seeing a good thing, I'm afraid it's too late to do it. Seeing evil people doing bad things is like touching hot water. You should leave at once and stay away. )

If you bow to others and blame them, it is far from complaining. -The Analects of Confucius

People who work hard and take the main responsibility for their mistakes are "dedicated" and forgive others more, but "lightly blame others". In this case, they won't resent each other. )

5. A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil. The villain is the opposite. -The Analects of Confucius

A gentleman always starts from the good or beneficial wishes of others, and wholeheartedly urges others to realize their good wishes and just demands, instead of looking at the world coldly. Or fear that the world will not be chaotic and will not add fuel to the fire when others fail, make mistakes or suffer. The villain is always "the evil of adults, not the beauty of adults." )

6. See Si Qi Yan, see Si Qi introspection. -The Analects of Confucius

(Translation: When you see that someone has advantages and advantages beyond yourself in some respect, ask for advice with an open mind, study hard, try to catch up with him and reach the same level as him; When you see that a person has some shortcomings or deficiencies, you should reflect calmly and see if you also have his shortcomings or deficiencies. )

7. Don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. -The Analects of Confucius

Don't impose what you don't want (pain, disaster, disaster, etc.) on others. ).)

8. Do your duty and don't give in to your teacher. -The Analects of Confucius

Don't hesitate to do good things, even if the teacher is around, you should rush to do it. Later, it developed into the idiom "due diligence". )

9. A gentleman talks but doesn't do it. -The Analects of Confucius

A gentleman can't talk big, but he is agile and dexterous. )

10. Two people are concentric, and their profits are broken; The difference between one thought and another. -Zhouyi

(Translation: Qi Xin's concerted efforts are powerful enough to break hard metals; People with one heart and one mind express their unanimous opinion, which is convincing and easy to accept. )

1 1. The gentleman hides his weapon in his body and waits for the opportunity. -Zhouyi

Even if a gentleman is outstanding, he will not show off and show off everywhere. But to show your talents or skills when necessary. )

12. The loss is full and the income is not big. -"Shangshu"

Complacency will bring losses and disasters; Only by being modest and always aware of your own shortcomings can you benefit from it. )

13. People don't know or care, aren't they gentlemen? -The Analects of Confucius

If I have achieved something that others don't understand, I will never feel angry or wronged. Isn't this also a gentleman's demeanor? )

14. Keep your promise and do what you want. -The Analects of Confucius

(translation: words must be done; Once you have determined what you want to do, you should do it resolutely and boldly. )

15. No meaning, no will, no entity, no me. -The Analects of Confucius

To tell the truth, don't guess out of thin air; Don't be arbitrary, willful and feasible; Flexible action, not rigid; Everything is not centered on "I", not self-righteous, and cooperate with people around me to complete the task. )

16. in a threesome, there must be a teacher, choose the good one and follow it, and change the bad one. -The Analects of Confucius

With three people together, there must be one person who is worth learning in some way, then he can be my teacher. I choose his advantages to study, and I will take warning from his shortcomings and deficiencies. If there are, I will correct them. )

17. A gentleman seeks for himself, while a villain seeks for others. -The Analects of Confucius

A gentleman always blames himself, finding faults and problems from himself. Villains often look at others to find their own shortcomings and deficiencies. )

18. an upright man is open and poised while a petty man is anxious and worried. -The Analects of Confucius

The gentleman is open-minded, honest and clean, and looks very comfortable and stable. The villain has too many inner desires and a heavy psychological burden, so he is often anxious, and his appearance and movements are also uneasy. He is often restless and emotionally unstable. )

19. Don't complain, don't be kind to others. -The Analects of Confucius

When encountering setbacks and failures, never make excuses objectively, and never put the blame on others. Later, it developed into the idiom "complaining about others". )

20. Don't get angry. -The Analects of Confucius

Don't take it out on others when you make a mistake, and don't make it again. )

2 1. If you can't bear it, make a great plan. -The Analects of Confucius

Insist on doing something you shouldn't do, even if you really want to do it. This is called "forbearance". Small things can't be tolerated, and if you don't have patience, it will affect the overall situation and ruin major events. )

22. The villain's mistakes must be written. -The Analects of Confucius

A villain must cover up his mistakes. )

23. There are too many lives that do not change. -The Analects of Confucius

If you make a mistake and don't correct it, that's the real mistake. )

24. A gentleman's business is based on truth. -The Analects of Confucius

(Translation: A gentleman devotes himself to the root, takes root, and "Tao" comes naturally. )

25. A gentleman is ashamed of words rather than deeds. -The Analects of Confucius

A gentleman thinks it is shameful to talk more and do less. )

26. Look before you leap. -The Analects of Confucius

Every time you do something, you should think twice before you do it. )

27. Many lines of injustice will hang themselves. -"Zuo zhuan"

If you do too many bad things, you will eventually bring your own destruction. )

28. No one has made mistakes, but they can change. It's no big deal. -"Zuo zhuan"

Everyone makes mistakes and makes hunting mistakes. As long as it is corrected, it is still the best person. )

29. Don't hide your virtue with a brush. -"Zuo zhuan"

When judging a person, you can't deny his contribution just because of a small mistake. )

30. If a person can do it, he will do it. People can do it in ten ways and thousands of ways. -the golden mean

People learned it at once, but I will certainly learn it after spending hundreds of times. What others can master ten times, if I learn a thousand times, I will certainly master it. )

3 1. Shame is almost brave. -the golden mean

Knowing what shameful behavior is is a good sign of courage. )

32. pot calling the kettle black. -"Mencius"

I am complacent that my mistakes are smaller than others and my shortcomings are less than others. )

33. A gentleman is nothing more than being kind to others. -"Mencius"

The greatest strength of a gentleman is to treat others with a noble and loving heart. )

34. Everyone can think of Yao Shun. -"Mencius"

As long as you are willing to work hard, everyone can become a great saint like Yao Shun. )

35. The embankment of thousands of feet collapsed in the ant nest; A room 100 feet high was burning with sudden smoke. -"Everything is ready"

(Translation: A thousand-mile levee may collapse and burst because of ants digging holes; A 100-foot-high building may be burned down by a fire caused by sparks from a chimney gap. )

36. The speaker is innocent, and those who smell it are enough to quit. -"preface to poetry"

People who make critical comments are innocent. When you hear criticism from others, you should seriously reflect on yourself, correct your mistakes and take it as advice from others. )

37. Good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice when most unpleasant is good for action. -"Confucius' Family Language"

Good medicine tastes bitter and benefits the disease; Advice may sound bad, but it is good for people's behavior. )

38. A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. -Ming dynasty proverb

A kind and helpful word can make the listener feel warm even in the cold of three winters; On the contrary, bitter words hurt others' feelings and self-esteem, even in the summer of June, people will feel cold. )

39. After many experiences, filial piety comes first. -"Augmented Sage"

There are thousands of classic sayings, filial piety to parents, love to brothers, to be the first. )

40. Good and evil are all done by people, and their fortunes are all recruited.

Good things and bad things are all done by yourself, and disasters and happiness are brought by your own words and deeds. )

4 1. Learning without thinking, thinking without learning is dangerous. -The Analects of Confucius

Learning without thinking is useless, dreaming without learning is dangerous and nothing is gained. )

42. Knowing is knowing, not knowing is not knowing, and knowing is also. -The Analects of Confucius

Knowing is knowing. Say you don't know if you don't know, and don't cheat. This is a wise act. )