Why does my ex always haunt me?

A netizen said that he had been separated from his predecessor for many years, and there was no contact after they separated. Recently, however, his ex suddenly contacted him and called him to ask if he had any plans to get married. He also said that he often dreamed about himself and even asked her if she wanted to see him.

This female netizen is very disgusted with this. After all, this ex is married, and they haven't contacted each other for a long time. It's hard for her to accept this suddenly, and even makes her feel sick. At the same time, there is one thing in her heart that she can't understand, and that is, "Why does my ex always haunt me?" The editor believes that the reasons for the former "ghost" mainly include the following aspects:

0 1, I can't let go of my other half.

After breaking up, if the man still pesters the woman, it may be that he can't let go of the girl in his heart. He is "full of joy" for this girl, but the other party doesn't want to be with himself anymore. This ending is something that boys don't want to see. He feels that he can still make efforts to save it, and maybe there is hope.

For this reason, boys will try their best to contact girls actively, hoping that they can return to their former appearance. This situation belongs to "love too much" and can't let go. But feelings need two people to run together, and it is impossible for one party to be happy if it is put down. Instead of making yourself uncomfortable like this, it is better to simply say "short pain is better than long pain", loosen the bound hands and embrace happiness again.

02, bad intentions, want to tread two boats.

Some men, character needs to be considered. After they got married, they didn't treat their wives wholeheartedly, but always wanted to have sex with each other. At this time, his predecessor will become his primary goal. He wants his predecessor to be his "lover" and satisfy some of his desires.

Such a man is the most despised and disgusting. Disloyal to feelings, no sense of responsibility and responsibility for family, and never regulate their behavior. The end result of this is that it hurts others, hurts itself, wastes the youth of others and bears the stigma of "heartbreaker".

03. Life is not satisfactory now.

If a man is unhappy after marriage, he will long for comfort from others. He compared his present wife with his predecessor and found that his predecessor was still good to him. At this time, he will hope that the two can rekindle their old feelings and even have the idea of divorce, and intend to be with their predecessors.

According to this netizen, the editor thinks she meets the second rule. After all, my predecessor has been out of touch for a long time, and now I suddenly contact him to say something inappropriate, which may be ulterior motives. Here I also warn all the girls that when measuring a person in the process of love, we should put the other person's character first, and the others are.