What are the signs of husband and wife's fate in feelings?

Flowers can be folded straight, but eventually they will come and go. ?

It is a godsend for two people to cross the crowded sea of people, cross the distance of time and space, and finally hug each other tightly. No matter how beautiful the meeting is, it will eventually be destroyed if there is no foundation stone carefully built in the future.

I think many people's final interpretation of happiness is probably marriage. However, most people find that marriage is not the end of love, and marriage needs to be managed more than love.

After marriage, various contradictions will gradually emerge, and the initial mutual tolerance will disappear under the accumulation of contradictions, either nervous or silent.

And if this state lasts for a long time, will the couple eventually lead to a bad result? Divorce.

There is no denying that divorce does great harm to both men and women. So, in marriage, how can we accurately look forward to the future? Might as well listen to the three signs of husband and wife's fate, which is very accurate.

Stella has been a goddess in my mind since I saw Perfect Relationship. Her self-confidence and rationality are beyond the reach of many women. However, in the eyes of outsiders, she was almost perfect. In fact, she also encountered the waterloo of her own life.

Anyone who has seen this play knows that despite her perfect appearance and ability, Stella still runs into a wall emotionally.

In fact, as early as the beginning, the ending of Stella and her husband Cui Yingjun was already doomed. In this relationship, all Stella wants is Cui Yingjun's kindness to herself. And Cui Yingjun? He is a mercenary, bent on making money.

One who has money and face, the other who is greedy for money, naturally come together. However, being together is not equal to happiness, love or love. I'm afraid it's too difficult to have children between them.

Cui Yingjun seems to be a good husband on the surface, but in the end he also pretended to divorce to pursue other women. After all, the ending of their divorce has already laid the groundwork ahead.

Although Stella is successful in her career, she is undoubtedly a failure in running a marriage. Because, from this relationship, she can't be in a balanced state with her husband. Cui Yingjun is just licking Stella's dog, and Stella's humility to him is natural.

In such an unequal marriage, neither Stella nor Cui Yingjun thought about communicating well, but chose to muddle along.

Finally, this marriage, which was maintained only by interests and materials, collapsed. In the face of her husband's betrayal, Stella's first reaction is to look for evidence calmly and tear her husband's lover with her hand, which is the hot spot that makes the play burn to a climax instantly.

Did you see the signs of Stella and Cui Yingjun's marriage failure early? You know, nine times out of ten, destiny takes a hand couples will have these three signs, can't be wrong.

First, the relationship between husband and wife is unequal and their status is unequal.

Most couples naturally form a pattern after marriage, either the husband has the final say or the wife becomes a strict tigress to control the man's every move. No matter what, it won't end well.

Because, in a long-term and stable relationship, husband and wife should at least be equal, even if you have various gaps before marriage, after marriage, these should not be the basis for dividing your grades.

Second: the problem cannot be communicated in time.

Husband and wife have become the two most familiar people in the world, but if something goes wrong and cannot be properly and effectively solved, then no amount of love will be completely consumed.

There is a saying like this:? Communication can solve 80% conflicts between husband and wife. ? Therefore, when you and your husband have conflicts, it depends on whether you can go to the end.

If we can find problems in time and communicate effectively, the outcome will definitely be beautiful; Knowing that there is a problem, both of them choose to escape and not solve it, which eventually leads to divorce.

Third: the only thing that maintains the relationship between husband and wife is material, not spiritual.

Many people think that spiritual love is too fake, and there is no material thing between husband and wife, which is nonsense.

Facts have proved that in the long process of getting along, a couple only have material support for each other. In the end, two people either change their minds or are in the same boat because of a little interest.

Therefore, only when we can find * * * spiritually and take material as the second place can the relationship between husband and wife blossom and bear fruit.

It is said that marriage is the strongest in the world, but it is not. Most people will find that if the contradiction between two people cannot be resolved in time, it will become bigger and bigger and eventually irreconcilable.

In fact, in marriage, few people can really calm down and take the initiative to think about the relationship between husband and wife and how to be husband and wife.

At first, the contradiction between two people is often very small, but because it can't be solved, it gradually becomes a big snowball, breaking through each other's remaining reason.

Therefore, emotional breakdown is not without warning. Sometimes the way two people get along determines which step this marriage can take.

Destiny has only two simple words, but most people can only accomplish one of them after spending half their lives. Therefore, we should cherish the fate at the same time, and the long-term solution is to operate with heart.