Taboo for remarried men to marry first-time women

Taboo for remarried men to marry first-time women

At present, the social divorce rate has been high, especially in some big cities, the divorce rate can reach 50%. If you want a second marriage, there will be a lot of concern and debate. Let's take a look at the taboos for second-married men to marry first-married women.

Taboos for Second Married Men to Marry First Married Women 1 1. Taboos for First Married Men and Women.

1, the influence of the previous marriage on yourself

Can you get rid of each other's divorce shadow after remarriage? Some couples divorce because their lovers have an affair, are cuckolded, and their sexual psychology is affected, leading to sexual problems such as coldness. After remarriage, if these problems are not solved, it will inevitably affect the current marriage.

Do you mind interacting with your ex-husband and children?

Whether it is acceptable for the other's ex-lover to continue normal communication is inevitable for many remarried couples to have contacts with their ex-wives or ex-husbands because of their children's problems, but not all remarried couples can handle this relationship well, which will naturally bring troubles and shadows to the current marriage. So remarried couples should pay attention to this.

3. Can you accept children?

Whether the other child can accept each other. Some such couples are satisfied with each other, but one of them can't accept the other's children, which forms a shadow and leads to bad feelings between husband and wife. This was expected before remarriage.

Second, the problems that men and women need to consider when they first get married.

1, wedding opening

When the wedding is about to begin, both parties presiding over the wedding should warmly receive every guest present. And according to different guests, arrange them to sit in designated places.

2. Wedding reception

Before the banquet begins, the master of ceremonies at the wedding should pay great attention. Try to use short thank-you words in the opening remarks, never tease the bride and groom, and try to be concise.

At the beginning of the banquet, the bride and groom, accompanied by the master of ceremonies, toasted at each table to make the atmosphere as harmonious as possible. During the banquet, you can also insert some blessing songs or small activities to enliven the atmosphere of the banquet.

3. The wedding is over

After the banquet, in order to express their gratitude to the guests, the bride and groom should stand at the door to greet the guests who come to congratulate.

Iii. Matters needing attention for women who hold a wedding with a second married man

1, the relationship between husband and ex-wife

Before you decide to marry a second-married man, you must find out whether he has settled all the grievances with his ex-wife, whether the legal relationship and obligations of both parties will have an impact on your future life, and whether this impact is acceptable to you.

2. Economic disputes

Since he is a second-married man, he may not only have various economic disputes with his ex-wife and children, but also with all walks of life, including whether there is any economic dispute in the house where he lives. You must understand these economic disputes and weigh whether they are within your tolerance.

3. The relationship between husband and children

If the husband and ex-wife have children, which party will the children be awarded to, can you realize the responsibilities and obligations of the husband, whether it is within your tolerance, whether the husband can do it, and so on.

Taboos for Second Married Men to Marry First Married Women 2 1. If the man marries for the second time and the woman marries for the first time, there is not much difference between the wedding and the ordinary wedding, and there are not many taboos. The most important thing is that there should be no noisy or conflicting people at the wedding of two people. Of course, if people in love come to the wedding, just try to stay away from the couple.

2. In addition, if the man is married for the second time, don't invite some relatives and friends who are related in the early stage or early stage at the wedding, which may make the woman who is married for the first time mind. After all, no one wants to see his husband's ex-wife or people and things related to his ex-wife at his wedding.

Disadvantages of remarried men marrying first-time women

1. First of all, the mentality of a second-married man and a first-married woman is different. No matter what the reason for this man's divorce is, after all, he is hurt emotionally, so even if he chooses the next marriage, it will not infringe on all his feelings and he will be more rational.

2. Moreover, our feelings are consumables, so we should pay less, especially if this man has not completely let go of his feelings and his mentality has not been adjusted in the last marriage, then even if he chooses the next marriage, he will naturally have a defensive mentality and cannot devote himself wholeheartedly.

Will the second married man and the first married woman be happy?

After a second-married man marries a first-married woman, he needs to consciously manage his own emotional quality and women's comparison psychology if he wants to be happy for a long time. Emotional quality is not difficult to understand, but it is more difficult to do. Simply put, it is necessary to make long-term emotional investment in your woman, including creating a romantic atmosphere with a sense of ceremony at night, sending flowers to your woman every once in a while, and taking your wife to travel inside and outside the province or at home and abroad if possible.

I really don't have time, so I have nothing to do to help my woman empty the shopping cart on her mobile phone. Empty the shopping cart not to move it, but to pay the bill. Even if these trivial things are dealt with, we should stick to them, because women like romance in their bones and have no time to envy their best friends or female colleagues spoiled by their husbands, so there will be no psychological imbalance. It takes perseverance.

If the emotional quality is well managed, men should also carefully and effectively manage women's comparison psychology. As we all know, women like to compare with others. Women like to compare their husbands with others' husbands in social status and income. How many second-married men compete with others in social status and income?

Maybe not most people. Social status and income are serious injuries, not just words. What should I do? This will test a man's IQ and EQ. For example, when his wife watches TV, she feels like complaining that you don't earn as much as Ma, and you can't force that little income back, which is tantamount to bringing shame on yourself.

If you can't carry it hard, then help yourself by curve and find out the shortcomings or weaknesses of the horse, such as its ugliness and shortness. If you indulge your wife with the ugly and short horse, won't your wife find that you are much better than the horse? Vanity management, men need wisdom and humor, but also be good at diverting women's interest.

Emotional quality and women's comparison psychology are properly managed, and it goes without saying that second-married men and first-married women are happy as one family; However, if the management after marriage is neglected, there will be more and more quarrels between two people, from small quarrels to big quarrels, and then from quarreling every Monday to quarreling every day. What can we talk about happiness?

Therefore, after the second-time married man and the first-time married woman get married, no matter who they are, they should try their best to adapt to each other's restraint, increase emotional integration, shorten the running-in period, and form a pattern of you and me as soon as possible. Remember, the longer the running-in period, the more uncomfortable it is.