What is PUA? How can I know if I have been to PUA?

PUA refers to the behavior that men systematically study, practice, constantly update and improve their emotional intelligence, and later refers to people who are very attractive and fascinated by the opposite sex and its related behaviors. If you feel that you have lost yourself in the process of getting along with the opposite sex, you have no confidence and think that you are not worthy of each other. The other person is the best person in the world, and the other person wants to do everything. If you can't do it, you will feel deep remorse. This situation may be that you are being PUA.

PUA is very harmful to one's body and mind. It is a kind of mind control, which may make you often deny yourself, see almost no hope for the future and feelings, and completely obey each other's requirements. Therefore, if a girl becomes more and more inferior because of a relationship, she should calm down and think about whether she is facing PUA or not.

First, do you feel controlled in your feelings?

Now some men may specialize in learning how to PUA a girl, let two people have intimate relations or cheat girls of their money, so some girls are almost unaware of their emotional changes in the face of some specially trained men. Coping with PUA means that we should calm down emotionally and think about whether we feel controlled by each other. We always want to meet each other's demands and needs, not know how to refuse. In feelings, we are also independent people. If we don't like doing something with the opposite sex, we should refuse others.

Second, are you still confident?

There are many women facing PUA who are very insecure in the process of interacting with their boyfriends in daily life, because boyfriends may always belittle themselves and raise their own values, which will make you feel really bad. No one except boyfriends will love themselves, feel more and more inferior and realize their changes. Some people feel depressed when they are in PUA.